i've known the guy i've fallen in love with ONLINE for over two and a half years, due to his job and my being in school (college) we've never been able to meet up. Well that and his ex-girlfriend keeps stalking him, she and her friends will kidnap him for a week at a time and starve him in an attempt to get him to go back to dating the ex. he's asked me to marry him... even though we've never met. Is it real?
2006-12-23 15:27:36 · 10 answers · asked by C S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i've known the guy i've fallen in love with ONLINE for over two and a half years, due to his job and my being in school (college) we've never been able to meet up. Well that and his ex-girlfriend keeps stalking him, she and her friends will kidnap him for a week at a time and starve him in an attempt to get him to go back to dating the ex. he's asked me to marry him... even though we've never met. The cops have been involved, but she bullshits her way out of things very easily, she should be a paid actress because she acts the victim every time. He's even taken her to court for harrassment, she had to pay him so much for what she'd done, but CONTINUES to do it. I'm scared that I stupidly gave my heart to him because of everything we've been through together. Is it real?
2006-12-23 15:43:50 · update #1
NO. I met my now husband online and I have dated quite a few people online. One of the basic rules is that you must meet. Someone can very easily sound great on paper or on the computer but in real life be your worst nightmare. Meet him and get to know him in person before you decide to marry him.
2006-12-23 15:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is probably already married.If he isn't then i assure you he is not being kidnapped.He goes willingly and freely.I bet you don't have his home number or an address either Have you seen his picture and are you sure it was him.If he is single and he is telling you the truth, he would have met you a long time ago. There are loads of sick mean hearted people out there and the will play you as long as you allow it.Tell him you want to meet him.Give him a date,time and public place. Take a friend for safety reasons and if he does not show up then delete him and move along.
2006-12-23 23:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step carefully. and Question Everything.
i met a girl online a few years ago. we were far away ,etc. and so only saw each other every few months, even though we talked every day.
I ended up moving in with her and marrying her. and found her to be totally different then she was.
she flirted and seemed to get with men , when i thought she was loyal.
and she did things that were totally crazy.
i had to leave.
my heart is still trying to heal.
so, unless you can see what he s like everyday where he lives.
i would NOT make any rash moves such as moving in, or getting married.
To bring this closer and see him more, you need to KNOW EXACTLY what is going on with him at his real home.
2006-12-23 23:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by stuart_slider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird situation. Be careful getting involved with someone who's EX is crazy she might try and kidnap you.
2006-12-23 23:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful-if you known him for 2 years and haven't met yet--there's a problem.
2006-12-24 11:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online is nothing more then pure fantasy. It allows you to have that perfect relationship because you are not physically together to experience the real person.
2006-12-23 23:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by dawnlovesbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't really beleive in online relashionships they usually never work out.Don;t believe everything a man tell you.
2006-12-23 23:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by lyndee222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh no. you have to be able to look in his eyes and feel a connection. im sorry to say it but computer love is just not real.
2006-12-23 23:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by cowmoomoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm right here baby!
2006-12-24 05:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by I need your help to help myself. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can.
2006-12-23 23:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋