Other - Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

My wife said while we were talking that when we first go out on date she didn't think I good looking.
She say she just now like the way I look. Then she tells me she care more about inside person than looks and if she married guy very good looking then she would have to worry other women want me. I know she loves me but I feel it important she feel attraction also. Now ever since she said that I keep thing it in the back of mind. We talked about it but she just says "I'm sorry"
She is Chinesse if it matters. She irons,cleans,cooks make my lunch everyday. I know she loves me but I have a hard time with this. I can't quit thinking about it.
What should I do?

2006-11-25 10:07:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i tell him...if u dont belive in this its cool but dont put me down i just belive men deserve to be honored and woman should sumbmit..after all if it werent for adams rib bein taken woman wouldnt be here

2006-11-25 09:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 09:48:56 · 16 answers · asked by Michele 3

Once you've been in love, is it possible to move on and be in love with another person? I've heard so many people say they think that you are destined to be with one particular person, like they are "made" for you. So what are your opinions?

2006-11-25 09:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by Princesa Morenita 3

acctually it me and my ex we were so in love but we broke up we was about to get back again but he asked me to be a friend as he doesnt wanna lose me and he want me by him side and if we came back again we might break up again and then he might lose me i agreed with being a friend but we r getting so close than ever and we r so keen on each others feeling and we really dont wanna lose each other ever
plus he once told me he imagined me couple of times before as his future wife same time he is saying he is in love with someone else and circumstances not helping to let them be together i dont know if he is feeling something towards meor he just like my personality and trust me and would this mean something in the future?

2006-11-25 09:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by Brandy Emerald 1

My boyfriend loves to write me poems, and is convinced that he's a prolific poet. The things he writes are so cheesy they would make greeting cards cringe. But I love him, and I really do appreciate the gestures. Sometimes I'm just not sure if he's joking or if he seriously wants me to buy into his poetry. It's just so pastoral-lovebird-ish and overly cliched in its imagery. I can't tell if he's being sincere or if he just needs to flower things up a little to make it seem sincere. Am I being too cynical or critical?

2006-11-25 09:34:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is black and I am mixed between Puerto Rican and Cuban (I honestly feel that both of Cubans and Puerto Ricans come from mixed backgrounds, but my parents say otherwise). We've been dating for about 9 months and he's everything I've ever wanted in a boyfriend and more. My parents have recently started getting on my case about him being black. I've tried to tell them both that I'm in love with this guy and he means a lot to me. I'm really happy with him. My mother in particular has been trying to stop me from seeing him whether its coming up with some ridiculous excuse as in to why I can't go out or taking my cell phone away from me in order to stop any form of communication. I'm upset by the fact that my parents are being so closed minded/selfish about this situation. I refuse to let our relationship go down the drain because of them. I also made my boyfriend aware of this to make sure he could deal with it and that we could deal with it TOGETHER.

2006-11-25 09:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by maria 1

I am just so fed up and feel like i have nothing to live for.

Firstly, i am at uni, which most people class as good, but for me its ****. I have lost the passion i used to have for the subject. I dont want to drop out but i am so tiered and struggling with the work. Secondly, i feel like i dont fit in. People tell me that i do but i just dont. They are from towns and i am country. they talk about things i have no idea about. plus, everyone is of thin and good looking, an i am size 20. then, everyon starts talking about their b/g friends, and what they have done and i just sit their feeling even worse and never even had sex. only three men have ever taken interest in me, they get people falling over them. i just dont no what to do. i have thought about councilling but what can they do to help. my flat mates and mates at home are great but they just dont get it. the work is hard and then being the only virgin makes me feel unattractive and ****. what the hell do i do. im going crazy!

2006-11-25 09:18:46 · 14 answers · asked by nervous 1

If you had just broke up with your boy/girl friend right and your cousin that you talk 2 4 anything and he/she went out with your ex, what would you do? Just wondering!

2006-11-25 09:13:25 · 5 answers · asked by Mimi 1

ok!..so I met this brothers...and i hooked up with one of them...we dated and everything cool....but he was amazingly unfaithful, he didnt have time for me, he told me nasty things that i wasnt woman enough for being a virgin,,,,when he wasn't around his brother was always there cuz we got to be very good friends.... i broke up with my boyfriend a month ago...and i always knew his brother likes me and viceversa since i was with him...he is also very aware that his brother likes me...... (note: they dont have a brother-friendship type of relationship...they are the kind of bros that hate eachother)
so on to my thing....his brother is super sweet with me and treats my right...my ex wanted me uncovered, like he didnt wanted people to see us together..and his brother s not like that.... wutever, the point is, ive been talkin to his brother a LOT lately and im really really starting to fall badlyyyyy for him...he likes me too,,,
should i date him???

2006-11-25 09:12:48 · 6 answers · asked by Lilie B 1

I am at this moment feeling very angry. the reason being I have tonight confirmed via a friend that my ex lied through her teeth to me the last month we were together. We parted because I sensed this but now have the proof. I have composed an e mail because I want them to know I know and that they never once had the courage to admit or say sorry. I was the victim of harsh defensive agressions if the subject broached. Do I send it or fester forever more.? Thing is this person claims to be a devout church member attending regularly. I want them to face themselves over this and know that to play with anothers mind is cruel.

2006-11-25 09:08:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 09:08:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf spent thanksgiving with my family cuz his family lives far away and he's here for school. and my family acted nice and all that in front of him, but then, like after he left, my family told me they didn't like him and all that stuff..because my family, if they don't like the guy/the girl, they don't like them..and they'd never realize that even if you're happy with them..and if you don't break up w/him/her they always talk crap about you behind your back and they'd keep bothering you and they laugh at you and they do all sorts of stuff that you just had to break up..everyone's undergone that..and it's so sad because i love my bf and i'm happy with him but my family doesn't like him and all..what should i do? please don't say, ignore them, or just talk to them..it never works..my other sister's tried that a million times. this is more serious than it sounds. please help?

2006-11-25 09:06:53 · 13 answers · asked by ilovedotsx3 1

my bf dont call me back

2006-11-25 09:00:05 · 14 answers · asked by Kells 1

OK my mom cheated on my dad for 3 years with his best friend and i knew about it cues i caught them one day and no one believe me now there divorced and i saty with my dad cuse i cant stand my mom she a crack head and drink way to much and now she thinks that am being mean to her to do you guys think am being me she has never been there for me and she has never been supportive so i told her to fu** off and i want nothing to do with her do you think i was a little meen (i dont)

2006-11-25 08:57:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Spit it out girls.

2006-11-25 08:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anime Freak!!!!! 3

we had a relationship with this guy when we were teens for about 3 months.it was something really strong and important for both of us.it's been six years since we broke up.it was his decision.after that we kept in touch.but one year we are ok,very good friends, the other he disappears for no reason.i haven't spoken to him for more than year.the last time i called he wouldn't answer, then he said he d call back but never did.it's weird cause i've seen him outside my house several times and someone s calling me often but won't talk and it's very possible that it is him.why do you think this is happening?

2006-11-25 08:46:58 · 3 answers · asked by desertrose d 1

2006-11-25 08:41:10 · 15 answers · asked by kennyboy 6

What is the worst thing a woman can get her huby for Christmas of Birthday? Hubby and I were discussing it and I just wanted other opinions.

2006-11-25 08:40:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend who is a girl doesnt like her pictures being taken, i have seen her pictures, they come out awful! she looks quite good in real life though (well of course she has her bad days, and apparently quite a few, but generally speaking she is very cute, and i think she knows that!) now if she doesnt want her pictures to be taken, then why do people force her to? like they literally use their physical power to drag her into the picture. fine, they like to have their friend/family member in the picture, but isnt it a kinda selfish reason? i have seen her cry when she sees her "ugly" pictures, is it really worth it? those people need to give her a break. friendship/family love is not all about taking pictures, is it?

2006-11-25 08:36:45 · 2 answers · asked by rose 1

I have teenage Daughters and I thought it was kinda cute at first because my Daughter said her friend has a crush on me. now this ( child ) I remind you all ! comes around more even when ( my daughter her friend ) isn't here > I tell her to go home not to be rude but this girl has problems and making sexual remarks that would shock your own ears into believing this couldn't happen, I'm no child molester and told my Daughter to keep her clear away from here, and never invite her back, and I even called the law but this girl was caught last night hidding in my bedroom closet and this was the boiling point of me placing alarms now on all my own bedroom windows. what draws these children to this point to think they can have sex with who ever they want at my age 45 . ?

2006-11-25 08:29:35 · 15 answers · asked by puppylovetfp.com 4

i wrote last week about the problem with my husbands family blowing his surprise 50th birthdat party i had for him. if any of you remember. his mother called asked how the party was he told her just fine alot of people at our house everyone had a great time. i was so upset,instead of telling her the truth about how his family that was in another town called and blew the surprise that i worked so hard on for 5 weeks. he did call her back and tell her that his brother 2 sister called and blew the surprise for him and also told his mon that i think they did it on purpose. im so upset in his action i just dont know what to do i have had it about up to here. i think he should have told his mother that i have work my butt off spent alot of money for this party and the people out of town called and blew the surprise please help

2006-11-25 08:20:52 · 4 answers · asked by lippy 1

2006-11-25 08:06:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

on life as a teen
love or lust
im cristian none of my freiandss are what do i do
family issues
please answer all

2006-11-25 08:04:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex left last year we have a daughter together! he never got in touch 4 5months! he asked to come and see our little and i let him! he came when he felt like it and often didnt turn up he said he wanted to make ago of it with me so i tryed but he was constantly doing his own thing! the in may this year he stopped coming again and wouldnt answer my calls i tryed to get him to come and see our daughter but he wouldnt! then he sent a solicitors letter saying he wanted my out of the house and wanted to see our daughter! my solictor replyed to his saying i had'nt stopped him coming and he can see her but it has to be supervised visits only (cos of things that have happened an he used to be violent towards me) he never replyed and 2 mths later he sent me a text to ask to see r daughter i agreed and again let him come! again he says he wants to work things out with me! but he never turns up on time the other day he was 3 hours late and we have to sit around waiting as if i go out i get

2006-11-25 07:49:05 · 10 answers · asked by lillypops 4

She doesnt ask for much and wont give me any idea, she is an awesome girl and i want it to be special..... Any ideas please?

2006-11-25 07:32:12 · 20 answers · asked by Roger Roger 1

Not looking for jokes here. What actually defines who is and who isn't?

2006-11-25 07:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by Mere Exposure 5

Ok, there is a boy that I like, and he knows that but I don't quite know how he feels about me yet...I wanted to get him a Christmas present, and I wasn't sure what kind of gift would be appropriate for this type of "relationship"...is there any ideas?

2006-11-25 07:25:34 · 9 answers · asked by miss-kawaii 1

Ok, i will get right to the point: What should i get for a 9-10 year old boy for the holidays that he might not already have, but will still like? WHat should i get for a 50 year old woman who is really easy going and care free? what should i get an older man who is fun but uptight? what should i get my father and mother? they are both care free and wont care what the get but i want to make it special! and what should i get a 9 year old girl who is very materialistic? a 23 year old who is also materialistic? what should i get an 80 year old woman? what would i give an older woman who lives w/ her daughter who is silly and old fashioned? what could i get a 29 year old woman who loves to party and be free? and finally what could i get two 30-40 year old men and their wives? they have always gotten me the nicest things and i dont know what to get! please be serious! the person who gives the best awnser gets 10 points and if they anwser my next question gets the 10 points no matter what!

2006-11-25 07:21:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an 18 year old girl in India.

I have had a bf for 3 years now. We are very much in love and were waiting for my education to get completed. However, my parents found out about him and have told me to break contact with him as he belongs to a different caste.

To make things more complicated, they fixed my marriage for December 30, with some other man in a different city, without consulting me. They told me I HAVE to marry him or else they'll throw me out of the house and disown me.

I do not want this to happen as I love my parents...but at the same time I also love my bf ... please help. I dont want to chose between my parents and my bf but my parents are conservative and mean every word they say. It's the family honour versus my love.

2006-11-25 07:20:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous