My wife said while we were talking that when we first go out on date she didn't think I good looking.
She say she just now like the way I look. Then she tells me she care more about inside person than looks and if she married guy very good looking then she would have to worry other women want me. I know she loves me but I feel it important she feel attraction also. Now ever since she said that I keep thing it in the back of mind. We talked about it but she just says "I'm sorry"
She is Chinesse if it matters. She irons,cleans,cooks make my lunch everyday. I know she loves me but I have a hard time with this. I can't quit thinking about it.
What should I do?
2006-11-25 10:07:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it sounds to me like she loves you for the person you are inside, which is honorable. she is attracted to the outer you now too which is also a beautiful thing. to me, what makes a man attractive to me is his personality. he doesnt have to look like the kind of man other women would want BECAUSE of his looks. i dont fall for that either. its whats inside. from what it sounds like, your wife likes your whole package and you can relax and not worry. she waited until now to tell you, probably because she loved you and felt it was just a matter of time before it would all kick into place, and now that it has, she is telling you so that you can know she has reached an even deeper level of love for you. she is probably happy and excited to share that with you. best to you both!!
2006-11-25 10:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by AlwaysWondering 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Outward appearance is not the biggest thing with some women, they are looking beyond that. Many times I have seen good looking women with dorky looking guys and wonder what they see in him. so don't be discouraged if you aren't the best looking guy out there, if she takes care of you then just accept it and show her your love. That's all she is looking for. Don't blow it by dragging up your feelings of inadequacy because you are going to make here angry. Women don't want a crybaby, they want a man with self-confidence!
2006-11-25 18:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit thinking about it. It was insensitive of her, but you need to let it go.
2006-11-25 18:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋