Other - Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

ok, my parents divorced when i was 13 (im now 21). he cheated on her a few times, he cant stick to commitment. he is not really the type of guy to be open and honest about anything with me, maybe because im the youngest, dont know. usually when we are together, we joke and act stupid and talk about what goes on with me. for the past couple of nights, hes been talking to me about his feelings for my mother (keep in mind, talking about these kinds of things is completely out of character for him). he has been on and emotional tight rope telling me about how he still is very much in luv with my mom and how everytime he sees her, its hard for him not to put his arms around her, kiss her and tell her he luvs her. my mother is remarried now and has been for the past 4 yrs. i dont think shes completely happy and she is aware about how my dad feels, but doesnt really say anything about how she feels, and in the meen time, my dad is about to go over the edge in love. what should i do?

2006-11-10 17:24:49 · 18 answers · asked by nina 2

its always like you do a lot for them even more complicated things and they always say" What did you do for us?", i dont know what to do i love my wife so much but they cotrol our life through her because she is attached to them so much, mu father in law calls me liar,idiot etc, and i am always there helping them,i feel so unsuported having inmind that i dont have nobody here in U.S from my family, my wife she always fights with me for them like i am garbagge, please help?

2006-11-10 17:22:55 · 9 answers · asked by Eddy D 1

Is there an age you would like to have this done by? Or are you just going with the flow??

2006-11-10 17:20:34 · 14 answers · asked by MelC 6

and her child and she made a comment that her kid's name might have my boyfriends last name and i want to know how can i get this information. i tried with the vital and statistics office and i can't get the information unless i am related to the kid.

2006-11-10 17:18:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no idea why but i just found out my cousin whom im close to is 5 mths pregnant and i want it to. im only 19 and i know i cant handle it but... i dont see the big deal i have a bf who loves me and i plan on marrying and he plans on marrying me. is it so wrong ot want?

2006-11-10 16:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by intolerablethirst 2

I have a daughter who when she got married 21 years ago has treated me like a stranger that she didn't even like . She has failed to treat me with any respect at all. Now after all this cruel treatment from her I am quiet sick of her and don't even want to ever see her again. She can travel 100 miles to see her daddy(who quiet frankly does not care anything about anyone except himself). Yet she can not come 3 miles to see her mom. At the same time it was my fault(for whatever reason that her dad did not come to see her). She has meddled between me and her brothers. I have even thought back to when I almost lost her before she was born and thought how much better off I would be if I had. What do I do to put her out of my thoughts and keep her out of my life and my business. I don't even like her anymore! I would have visited with my grandchildren more if she had acted differently. Now I don't even care about doing that. She is teaching them to act like she does.

2006-11-10 16:45:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Adults inherit money from there spouses when they die, but where does that money come from?

2006-11-10 16:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by B 2

2006-11-10 16:32:00 · 5 answers · asked by bunny_rochelle 1

my so called girl friend gave my number to this guy i meet once at her place and he text me messages asking me for sex, and my boyfriend got it. He has always been on edge with this subject since his last girlfriend done it to him.No matter what i say or do he doesnt belive me. I even rang this guy up and asked him over in frount of my boyfriend, the guy never showed up. My boyfriend and i have 2 beutiful kids together and i have 4 from preivous relationship. Even when their dad rings or texts,my boyfriend asks if am going back to him. I have no family and olny one friend in my life, because he never trust them so i dont bother making any more. My boyfriend has moved out today because of the text. I have no one but him and i love him so so very much,am scared if i dont have him in my life my life is not worth living. iwill end up in a shell and keep myself there, i can feel it already and my kids need me. how can i prove myself.

2006-11-10 16:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by goolie06 2

Be very rational and realistic while answering...Think twice and write once.

2006-11-10 16:23:33 · 15 answers · asked by Sarab 1

Yes, Im old enough to ask this question. :) I really want to learn how to give my boyfriend a lapdance/strpitease for his birthday, plus, hes been away on a business trip for a while, and it would be a good welcome back suprise. I've never been really good at dancing, etc, so I feel like I need some actual instruction on this, I dont want to look like an idiot. Is the Carmen Elektra workout good at teaching these things? Is one of them better than the others, so I dont get them all? Ive heard mixed things about it. Are there any other good videos out there, too? Any tips on giving one? Thanks so much!

2006-11-10 15:38:57 · 3 answers · asked by musicgurl1 3

he says he really loves me and i am not sure if he means it but all he talks about is sexual things. i dont know what to do because we havent even been dating for a month yet. i dont want to do any of this with him. will someone help plz.

2006-11-10 15:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by rolltriberoll 1

I hope you guys can help me come up with some original christmas surprises for my children...........

They don't have to cost money just things they will remember when they are adults the two it is most likely to be played on our my 11 year old, soon to be 12 so he knows Santa does not exist and my 7 year old who still believes..........

I always allow them whatever they want for breakfast Christmas day which they love and look forward to (Hotdogs last year lol)

Come on guys remember your childhood xx

2006-11-10 15:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5

soon replay

2006-11-10 15:26:39 · 2 answers · asked by pavan p 1

im 18y.o and im scared to get close to guys.. wat is wrong with me!! i've always wanted to feel loved and special but when the chance comes i always hold back because i fear getting hurt by them, but im hurting more holding back.. im low on confidence and dont believe im worth being loved and treated with respect :S. it makes me feel soo empty and confused, why do i act this way?! aww does anyone have any tips to help me overcome this fear? im starting to doubt myself soo much, soon im going to lose control of everything!! help please!!

2006-11-10 14:44:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a very special person who is incarcirated in a detention facility in Riverside California I was wondering if there was a special number to use so he can call collect HELP

2006-11-10 14:37:21 · 13 answers · asked by smartkat7 2

HOW DO YOU KNOW HE/SHE IS THE RIGHT ONE

2006-11-10 14:35:05 · 7 answers · asked by Tinti 2

My old roommate came over to hang out and talk late one night. I haven't seen her in almost over a year. My present roommate put tobacco in his shisha and let us smoke from it. 2 pieces of charcoal light the tobacco on top of the shisha.

My old roommate leaned across the coffee table to the other couch to get a blanket. She knocked the shisha over and the charcoal put holes in my carpet, FAVORITE rug, velour blanket and a black spot on my new coffee table from the charcoal. Some how she threw the blanket on my new(er) couch and now there are charcoal stains.

She said SORRY SORRY etc, but I am still very upset. Do I just suck it up and live with it? Am I responsible since was the host?

2006-11-10 14:31:54 · 4 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

2006-11-10 14:31:42 · 21 answers · asked by countrygirl 1

Do you see yourself changing in the future?

2006-11-10 14:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by whrldpz 7

I have a boyfriend who died 10 years ago. I dream about him once in a while, and in my dreams he never actually speaks to me, but i have had physical contact w/ him in my dreams, and actually woke up sitting up in my bed like i was really hugging him or what not. I want to believe hes reaching me. It makes me feel better. I know other people this has happened to. What do you think?

2006-11-10 14:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by cynlord_07 1

When I was a single mom i worked two jobs but always had time to see my kids, I never felt as though I didn;t see them enough. Now that I am married I have had to get a different job, now I have to work mostly evenings and I never get to see my kids, but if i don;t work we will not have a home. My husband works as well, so its not like I am supporting the whole family. For along time after getting married i stayed home and only worked a part time job, this is a shock to everyones system, and I am feeling so guilty that i just want to cry, have been crying actually. I am at work now and do not sit on the computer while home with the kids.

Does anybody have any suggestions for me on how I can "get the most" so to speak out of the time i do get to see my kids?

2006-11-10 14:09:40 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6

It seems like my boyfriend is always yelling at me and im not the type of girl that takes it...but i tell him about it n stuff and he always says that hes not...and he keeps doing it...he is always raising his voice at me...i cant just leave him because i just know its something thats never going to happen...how can i make him stop? how can i get him to believe that i DONT have an attitude. please help. thank you

2006-11-10 14:09:18 · 12 answers · asked by mommy911 2

He has lived with his Dad for 2 yrs. I don't do football and play playstation games. I am 45 and teach school. His sisters and I can shop....but I don't know what to converse with him about?
Any ideas somebody? When he was little it was so easy. Now he is into his truck, his friends, and his music. He says I repeat myself and he seems bored with me. It kinda hurts my feelings. He is a little on the quiet side anyway. Once in a while he will turn into a chatterbox and rattle for a long time. But those days are few and very far between. How can I connect with him? I feel like I am losing a son.

2006-11-10 13:54:22 · 6 answers · asked by lucy p 2

WHY AFTER NOT SEEING MY DAUGHTER DAD FOR 7 YRS ...............WHY AM I SO HAPPY TO HERE FROM HIM AND WHY THE HELL WOULD I WANT TO SEE HIM SO MUCH AND WHY ON EARTH WOULD I HAVE A ODD DREAM ABOUT HIM
?????????????????????????????????????????????

OMG

WHAT IS WROUG WITH ME I MEAN GIVEN THE CHANCE I WOULD HAVE SEX WITH HIM JUST LIKE WE DID BACK THEN.

HAS ANY ONE EVER FELT THIS WAY ??????????

2006-11-10 13:40:22 · 12 answers · asked by jlw78418 2

Some one close to me says that he and a friend use to play with each other, even oraley, when they were children. I asked if it was embaressing at the time and he says no which is hard for me to understand. Is it normal, be hones guys, for this to happen? Put any input that you would like.

2006-11-10 13:35:09 · 14 answers · asked by flesh_of_daisy 4

We have talked a lot. He's always finding a reason to phone me. When I go to his office we talk about US and finally He asked me out. I think he's the nicest man I've met, I had a c-section with him, he loves my baby, and I met him when I was pregnant. I like him but I thought he would be just a doctor to me and I thought he was just being nice to me until I realize that he was very interested about ME and finally he asked me out. I really like him. I'm 22 and he's a lot older than I, he's very nice, but what do you think about me dating my gynecologist, I sometimes think it would be weird, now he wants me to be more than only his patient

Additional Details

25 minutes ago
my baby's dad, or better said, the one that got me pregnant, left me for a woman that has got loads of money

18 minutes ago
He's not a creeper. And the first thing he told me before ask me out, "you should get a new doctor" and asked why and he said "cause I want to ask you togo out with me"

2006-11-10 13:33:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

like smells , or your looks .
like what do they prefer ?

2006-11-10 13:32:11 · 16 answers · asked by cant fight the feeling 1

I'm thirteen but my mom hasn't even told me a word about sex...nothing...except it is something that adults do. Whatver I know about sex is from health class and friends...what do I do? I don't want to bring it up though....so what do I do? Do I just sit here and let it go by? I know it is a talk I should dread, which I kind of do in a way, but shouldn't she at least tell me a little about it? What do you think is the right age to talk about it? Do you think my mom is making the right decision of letting me learn it in school and from friends? I'm just confused! I can't tell her anything, though, because she goes around and tells everybody. Is she just trying to protect me or something? What is she doing?

2006-11-10 13:31:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm studying abroad all alone... I feel really depressed coz I'm the only student from my country here.... I just can't bear 3 months again here until term 1 finishes. I wanna go home NOW!!!!!!! i'm 14 and I don't know why should I be here!!!! aNy suggestion to fight this problem? I'm depressed to hold on for another 3 months!! Seems like years.. Don't tell me to go home. thx.

2006-11-10 13:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by wonder why 2