he says he really loves me and i am not sure if he means it but all he talks about is sexual things. i dont know what to do because we havent even been dating for a month yet. i dont want to do any of this with him. will someone help plz.
2006-11-10 15:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by rolltriberoll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
JUST SO NO!!! I thought they were teaching this in school!! hum.........
2006-11-10 15:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by candispassion.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be a sex addict and this is the only thing on his mind. If you are not like this then you are in a situation to be abused. Get out before you get hurt. People like him can leave emotional scars that last for years! Is this a person you would like your best friend to date? If the answer is no, then you have to go!
2006-11-10 16:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. I think you seem mature enough to realize that relationships aren't just about sex. Especially if you're younger, which I don't know if you are. But if you aren't interested in a one night stand I suggest you wait until you are comfortable without a doubt being intimate with him... and if this happens please protect yourself! There's nothing wrong with waiting and if he continues to pressure you then he obviously does not respect you or your feelings and its time to kick him to the curb. Good luck!
2006-11-10 15:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Cantrelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he can't respect that you want to wait then he DOESN'T LOVE YOU.... plus I don't think he REALLY LOVES you because you guys have only been together for a month!!! Love just doesn't happen like that..... well not TRUE love anyways.
If he doesn't want to wait to do the deed then he doesn't deserve you!!! Dump him if he keeps forcing it.... I know it might be hard but he just wants one thing...... and it's not your love!!!!
2006-11-10 15:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by LadyT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SET YOUR STANDARDS.
DON'T GIVE IN TO HIS GIVE ME SEX OR ELSE. HE WILL JUST USE YOU AND MIGHT GIVE YOU A DISEASE.......OR A BABY.
WATCH THE MAURY PROGRAM ABOUT HOW MANY HAVE REGRETTED HAVING SEX..........SO MANY DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO THE FATHER IS OF THEIR BABY!!
ONE MONTH IS NOTHING AT ALL. YOU CAN DATE SOMEONE A YEAR AND STILL NOT REALLY KNOW THEIR TRUE CHARACTER.
BE VERY CAREFUL AND USE YOUR BRAIN. SAY NO AND MEAN IT.
IF HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU THEN WHY WOULD YOU WANT HIM. HE CAN SAY HE REALLY WANTS AND LOVES YOU...........THATS JUST USUALLY A BIG LINE THEY USE.
2006-11-10 15:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by 4263 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmmm, I think we are having a same problem, but I think your could be solve, since you said you guys have been dating for a month, so you do not know much about him, can you feel that he is in love w/ you? and you said what he was talking is about sexual things. you should concern about it, since guys only pursue what they do not have.
2006-11-10 15:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him kno just how you feel sometimes honesty is the best thing and tell him if you were interested in being with me for the person that i am not for whats between my legs you would respect me but say it in a nicer way
2006-11-10 16:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM YOU WANT MORE THAN SEX OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP. IF HE'S PRESSURING YOU OR IF YOU THINK HE'S USING YOU, THEN YOU MAY WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HIM AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE! BUT TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. IF HE DOESN'T RESPOND TO THIS, BREAK IT OFF (THE RELATIONSHIP. LOL) IF YOU'RE NOT READY FOR SEX, HE'S PUSHING, AND NOT BEING RESPECTFUL, HE'S NOT THE GUY FOR YOU!! OK? GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-10 15:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...He obviously only wants sex. If sex is not what you want then you guys already have differences. It shouldn't be that hard...only a month.
2006-11-10 16:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to learn the power of being a woman. string him along and make him buy you things and get pissed off when he talks about sex
2006-11-10 15:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is obvious that he does not love you he just lusts you let him go.
2006-11-10 16:00:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋