Other - Family & Relationships - 20 July 2006

Ok please read all of this before answering. Last night I came home from work and my boyfriend ( we have 2 kids together) had hooked up a vcr in my living room .Well this seemed odd because we NEVER watch Vhs videos, only dvd's. But he said he put it in the living room in case the kids wanted to watch cartoon movies. Well this morning as I got ready for work I found a porno video hidden under some clothes in my closet. Well I did not confront him yet because he was asleep so I just left a note telling him that I know he lied and to come clean or he can leave because I dont like being lied to. And that is what it comes down to. I am a little upset that he does this behind my back ( the porn) but I am VERY upset that he felt he had to lie to me and be dis honest. How do i approach this situation? AM I making to big of a deal? Im sooo confused? I know its gonna be an arguement when i get home because I HATE when people lie to me.

2006-07-20 07:02:08 · 11 answers · asked by *♥* Igotorbs*♥* 4

Serious answers only please.

Hi there, I am confused.

- Is one an adult at 18?
- If you are buying train tickets, ages 12 and above are considered an adult. Why's that? (Parents still have to accompany them anyway!)
- So whats 18 then? Just the right to vote?
- And alcohol comes in at 21.
- (And I know that there are other things like driving, being drafted etc.)
- So when is one an adult? and at what age?
- Why do some departments consider different groups as adults?

Any idea? Thanks!!

2006-07-20 07:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been seeing a counselor for 10 sessions now, relationship was going okay, but now things are getting out of hand. He is becoming very verbal and physical and tells me there is nothing I can do about getting him out of my home!!! Please there has to be somthing I can do to remove him other than the police. I thought that he had changed his behavior but all the anger management skills seem to have gone out of the window.
Thank you.

2006-07-20 06:57:49 · 17 answers · asked by joann 1

I'm 30yrs.Female have two kids and Married. But also I'm Bi. should i stay married for my kids or do (discreatly)what makes me happy!

2006-07-20 06:56:10 · 3 answers · asked by :*:Juicy:*: 2

i was going through the phone bill the other day and found a phone number i akk him he denide it i called it a girl number what do i do i really think he is cheating im35 he is 29 what should i do ?. he acts very suspect .

2006-07-20 06:55:31 · 23 answers · asked by pamela j 1

2006-07-20 06:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by HeaRTbRoKeN 1

2006-07-20 06:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by jess_brenda_04 2

To make things worse, I have just contacted him again thru email. I just love and miss him so much. I yearn for him. Oh jeez, you guys, I'm in trouble. What must I do with this wild and beating heart?

2006-07-20 06:50:14 · 18 answers · asked by suki's mom 4

for the past 2 nights ive had the same dream..me n my boyfriend were having a baby n i miscarried the baby. i dont understand it the only difference in the dream is that one night the dream was in black and white and the other it wasnt. and also in the 1st dream i lost the baby earlier than in the 2nd

2006-07-20 06:46:31 · 6 answers · asked by madly in love 2

2006-07-20 06:44:56 · 5 answers · asked by SHINE 071371 2

Yes he cheated and I forgave. We were young when it happened. We both still lived with our parents and were going through very rough times!

2006-07-20 06:40:57 · 27 answers · asked by HeaRTbRoKeN 1

we have been dating since april of this year and he just told me that he got a job offer to move and to make more money and he told me that my kids and i are the only reason why he does'nt want to move but he offered me a chance to go with him and all of my family lives where i am right now nad i really don't want to move then again i really want to see what the rest of the world is like. he told me that he loves me and that i think makes things even more confusing for me i just need some advice will you help me out?

2006-07-20 06:40:27 · 4 answers · asked by je041376 1

I moved across the state a few weeks ago, 2 months after school ended. I haven't talked to the guy since the last day of school. Thing about him is, ever since Valentine's Day, there was something different between us. We weren't friends anymore, but something beyond that. Now I requested to be his MySpace friend, and I think he denied it. I can't stop thinking about it... what do I do? When I send him a message he just reads it and doesn't reply... (he knows I moved because I had another friend tell them all goodbye)

2006-07-20 06:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have fell in love with a man that I chat with everyday for that last 2 1/2 years .

2006-07-20 06:36:52 · 3 answers · asked by sherianne_29 2

2006-07-20 06:35:54 · 25 answers · asked by francie_oh 1

God said,'Love your neigbour as you love yourself'. Democracy also means freedom to do whatever you want to do,as long as it does not infringe on the rights and freedom of others. Whose rights and freedoms do the gay and lesbians trode over when they mary their kind?

2006-07-20 06:33:48 · 28 answers · asked by kaloyzious 1

Back in sixth grade, I had one rumor that was affecting my life. It was about me and my best best friend Abby. We've been friend since second grade, and now everyone thinks that we're dating. Now, the year's over and it still haunts me. How can I make it stop?

2006-07-20 06:29:05 · 2 answers · asked by Sean R 1

2006-07-20 06:27:09 · 21 answers · asked by scooter47 2

I had unprotected sex with a neighbor on the 5th of july, my period isnt due till july 25th, but im going crazy wondering if im pregnant.. and my breasts are tender as hell.

2006-07-20 06:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by nurseholly_1971 2

2006-07-20 06:23:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-20 06:20:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

A girl had a bad break up now she only dates women she's Gay.
My sister is 9 she likes to rough house and climb trees, her school is telling her she may be Gay, I'm serious. WTF she's Fuc**** 9 let her play soccer and a ride bike. My house is clean and I Like to cook for my self, and people start looking at me funny. What the hell, I don't care about Gay people so I'm not in your way as far as rights or whatever. I'm growing tiresome of this pop/fad gay thing that seems cool for now. I'm cool with it because I don't have to deal with it, but teachers at a Grade School telling my sister sh** like that Fires me up, for good reason. They shouldn't do that.

2006-07-20 06:17:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We talked about it before and he wants to give me a nice wedding party and to me his love and commitment will make me happier than having the best wedding out there.. what do u think?? I would love for him to propose for my birthday next month which is also our 5th year anniversary..

2006-07-20 06:12:25 · 4 answers · asked by Delfinazul 2

My friend said that all women that are on drugs, that are homeless and beg on the street, that are insane etc. should have their tubes tied ( this usually holds for five years) to minimize or prevent poor or mentally ill or unstable babies being continually born. Do you agree and why?

2006-07-20 06:09:59 · 4 answers · asked by EIliot 2

is anybody in love?

2006-07-20 06:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by sexychick 1

I work firsts and my boyfriend works thirds. All day I work or do things around the house, and he plays video games while I sleep, Now he wants to meet other people who work thirds which is fine, But he wants to meet people between like 2am and 6am... I mean I dont care if he wants to meet new people the hard thing is the time he wants to meet new people is like when people go out for sex and things... I mean wtf, I dont rush out to try to meet new people I say since we are in a relationship we should meet people in the evening together and all... He didnt have any friends when I met him, why does he want some now Ugh... LOL.... Maybe im being way to over controlling, maybe I should just say fine and let him go out and do whatever in the middle of the night...

I truely hope this He working thirds and me working days doesnt make us break up..,.. too difficult for me... Ugh!

2006-07-20 06:09:48 · 2 answers · asked by irreplaceably_rare 3

why do guys only think about sex and why do guys like girls butts?

2006-07-20 06:06:56 · 6 answers · asked by Emily R 2

2006-07-20 06:05:50 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've told him before how I did not like it but he continues to be that way and says thats just how he is. Any suggestions on what I should do?

2006-07-20 06:05:38 · 13 answers · asked by TheLight 5

Nordstrom's and a few other department stores actually sold them for women as recently as a few years ago. I got a great pair off the net and want to know what others think.

2006-07-20 06:04:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous