I've told him before how I did not like it but he continues to be that way and says thats just how he is. Any suggestions on what I should do?
2006-07-20 06:05:38 · 13 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
keep letting him know that when he does that he hurts ur feelings, try to reason with him and make some sort of deal and if that doesn't work dump his a*s
2006-07-20 06:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
*EVERY* time you see him do it, point it out to him so that
he can't say he doesn't know when he is doing it.
If her persists beyond that, then clearly he would rather
flirt than be with you. It would make me wonder just
how committed he is to his relationship with you.
That being said, people flirt with each other even when there
is no possible chance of it going anywhere. I regularly
flirt with 80 year olds (I am in my 40s). They flirt back.
Life is good and we're both still alive.
So ... you may want to rein in your jealousy abit, but if
you can point out specific instances of him doing things
that annoy you and he persists ... dump him.
2006-07-20 06:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've told him you don't like what he does, and his way out is telling you that's how he is, let him go. If he really loves you, he will try, even if that's the way he is, to stop doing it b/c he know it hurts you, and why would he want to hurt you on purpose?
2006-07-20 06:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by mgrlygrl83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find out let me know! :-p
My bf is incredibly charming and women just seem to fall for him, I've become a lot more relaxed now I know he truely loves me...hes not going anywhere!
You have to remember that he's probably insecure about you to
2006-07-20 06:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is trying to impress you or it's his nature. In either case it is best if you discarded him and got yourself a new bf who appreciates and respects your presence and feelings.
2006-07-20 06:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can't respect u a his girlfriend. get another man who will treat u with respect. or give him a dose of his own medicine and see how he like it. them dump his azz
2006-07-20 06:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by soloyo67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard of Lorena Bobbitt?
2006-07-20 06:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gain an interest in girls and flirt with him. It can be fun to do something together.
2006-07-20 06:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by bretto24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him that it makes you feel insecure. And if he doesn't care how you feel, maybe you should break up.
2006-07-20 06:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really care he'd try to change coz it annoys u...but if he's not even willing to try and change then DUMP HIM!
2006-07-20 06:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋