I work firsts and my boyfriend works thirds. All day I work or do things around the house, and he plays video games while I sleep, Now he wants to meet other people who work thirds which is fine, But he wants to meet people between like 2am and 6am... I mean I dont care if he wants to meet new people the hard thing is the time he wants to meet new people is like when people go out for sex and things... I mean wtf, I dont rush out to try to meet new people I say since we are in a relationship we should meet people in the evening together and all... He didnt have any friends when I met him, why does he want some now Ugh... LOL.... Maybe im being way to over controlling, maybe I should just say fine and let him go out and do whatever in the middle of the night...
I truely hope this He working thirds and me working days doesnt make us break up..,.. too difficult for me... Ugh!
2006-07-20 06:09:48 · 2 answers · asked by irreplaceably_rare 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with the answers already.... Now My quesiton is... if I switch to Thirds what is there to do at night like that? What can I do with him? I mean there is always walmart but thats it... LOL... I need some help here... there sound be third shift places... for people to hang out and meet others!!
2006-07-20 06:29:34 · update #1
Tough situation to keep the relationship going. Sounds like he's getting lonely and needs companionship. It's good he wants friends but there also may be the temptation to stray. Can one of you change shifts? It will be hard to keep a long term relationship going with that schedule.
2006-07-20 06:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by toomuchtime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is soo tough. I think its nothing but trouble if someone in a relationship is going out alone...
2006-07-20 13:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by sleepwalkin smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋