i was going through the phone bill the other day and found a phone number i akk him he denide it i called it a girl number what do i do i really think he is cheating im35 he is 29 what should i do ?. he acts very suspect .
2006-07-20 06:55:31 · 23 answers · asked by pamela j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thats cause dudes dont like black girls with fake blonde hair!
2006-07-20 06:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible that he is cheating or is thinking of cheating if he hasn't yet. Maybe he is just not ready to be in a committed relationship with you. I mean you two might be in different places considering the age difference. If he's lying to you and you really want to know call the number back and talk to the woman. Ask her how she knows your boyfriend. But also consider this, if she's not and it's just a number of some woman and he finds out what you did he might think you are crazy and break up with you anyway. I think it is important that you talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels about your relationship together and where you might be going with it. If you two can't communicate about something like this without getting angry with each other you have problems any way.
2006-07-20 07:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit him down, tell him that you called the number and it was a women and ask him who it is etc. Or you can always call the women back and ask her what is going on. Just keep watching him if you notice any change in him, (stuff he never done before) such as trying to look hansome for no apparent reason I would say that he is cheating but good luck to you hope all turns out well
2006-07-20 07:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Kempa♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are being played!!!!Get yourself out of that situation quick!!!! The longer it goes on the more stupid you look. A smart person looks at this with open eyes and not with their heart. Love is blind but stupidity is stupidity. You are 35 years old. You should know better than to believe a man who has all the reason in the world to lie to you. You deserve better!!! Kick him to the curb and find a real man.
You should post his picture on the website below and his profile. It is perfectly legal and that's where he needs to be. So you can warn other unsuspecting women about him. Best of luck and find a real man!!!
2006-07-20 08:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Richard E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, accusing him w/o proper evidence (and the number on a phone bill belong to a female, isn't enough). Not unless you asked the woman on the other line, who she knows at your number, or if she even knows your boyfriend's name, and if she does, what's their relationship.
Otherwise, you are just not trusting him enough, and possibly overreacting to someone that might of had a wrong number, or is just a female coworker or friend of his.
Other females do not always equal cheating.
2006-07-20 06:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he call it just once or was it on there multiple times. Maybe it was a girlfriend of his friend or a sister. If this is the only thing you are going by then I don't think this is enough to say he is cheating.
2006-07-20 07:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call that number from another phone number, and ask to speak to him. :) THAT will freak her out if they have something going. If there's nothing going on, she'll just sound REALLY confused. Either way, you can pretend then that you were calling someone else (change the last name at the last minute...)
2006-07-20 07:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not be cheating but could be contemplating it. you being an older woman than he is, he may feel you control the relationship and if you decide he is out, then he is, it's a trust issue, when guys get dumped it can be brutal to his ego. he may not feel he is worthy of another g/f so he is just banking the odds so to speak. maybe he has noticed your enthusiasm on one occasion or another when you were speaking to an older guy and feels his time is limited with you. maybe you need to talk to him instead of trying to read his mind.
nothing wrong with having a fallback gurl in case you are looking for the BBD (bigger, better deal). reading minds usually results in failure to communicate. good luck...
2006-07-20 07:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what does ya gut tell ya? bc its usually right. did u ask the girl who she was? call it say found ya phone numba in my names pants n want to know how u know him..so be a woman n give it to me str8..then when she tells u ask her if she knew he had u. if she says yes then u can go off on her.
2006-07-20 07:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS HAPPENS EVERYWHERE, it depends how much are you willing to take in a realationship.
dump him if you think your gut feeling is rite
confront him & talk to him
its best to move on in life & leave the old baggage behind
2006-07-20 07:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man chooses to have any realtions with other women that don't involve you (such as friends that he has introduced you to, etc) then HE HAS MADE HIS CHOICE ALREADY How can you argue with that? Move on, honey. He has.
2006-07-20 07:21:06 · answer #11 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋