About a month ago, she returned from a week long trip to Bonaroo and told me that she believed that someone else was her soulmate. A man that she's known for 13 years! I've got a lot of frustration, anger, and sadness that I'm dealing with because of this situation.
However, I do have some hope that she'll want to be with me. She's said that she needs some time to "figure out what she's doing with her life". This time will include a trip to see this man who lives 1400 miles away. Clearly, I am choice number 2. As much as it hurts to know this, I still want to be a supportive, loving part of her life.
I'm working hard at just being her "friend" right now. However, I also am sad and a bit obsessed with her and I hate that feeling.
How do I deal with my own feelings, emotions, and life and remain a supportive, loving person to her?
2006-07-19
04:22:20
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jkomisar
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