If you have though about it, what do you think? If you've done it, did it effect your relationship?
2006-07-19 05:11:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i never brought someone into my relationships and i never will. i participated in one though a very long time ago... and trust me, it ruins everything... to sit there and see your man put his thing into another woman, may not bother you at the time, because of the sexual feelings you may have, but it will catch up to you. i know that couple broke up soon after that, and the girl, who was my friend, stopped talking to me... the one time she did, she told me nicely that she didnt want to know anything about me anymore, and that she couldnt shake out the thoughts of me and her man. i felt really bad to have caused that since they were sooo in love, and even thinking about marriage. that was the last time i did something like that.
you have to be a VERY strong woman, to be able to handle something like this... especially if you are only doing it for him.
but if its something you both like, then, i guess, do whatever you feel.
2006-07-20 06:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by LiLiTh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been the "extra" woman and as far as I can tell it only enhanced the couple's relationship in a good way. I have never been in a serious relationship where this has occurred but I have often thought that it would be a good way to spice things up as long as everyone knows the rules. Communication is the key to making this type of "play" work.
2006-07-19 12:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by misha1420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have, I was/ still am in a loving relationship, yet I wanted more than just sex with Richard (my boyfriend of 4 years), we were madly in love and good at sex. Yet I needed more. Then 6 months i was playing tennis with my best friend Sally, who had just split up with her boyfriend. We got into the shower, and then I had an urge to kiss her as she was all hot and sweaty. In then turned into full sex in the ladies changing room (luckly no one walked in). We then met up every week for sex. After a few times we started to film ourselfs.
3 months ago I walked in on Richard (he thought I was out shopping) having a good time with himself on the couch watching the films. He apologised. and 2 weeks later Sally came round for dinner. Beacause Sally was into group sex (I had never done it before) and Richard loved are tapes we gave him a 3 some. We all loved it so luch we now meet up for sex a few times a month.
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2006-07-19 12:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by freedom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the question, and i have thought about and still wnat to. But, if an agreement can not be made..guess what it will remain a fantasy of mine and his....
lOOK OUT FOR MY QUESTION: SHould fantasies no matter how deep or silly remain a fantasy?
2006-07-19 14:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by DELICIOUS EYE CANDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I dont understand how anyone that says they are in love could watch the one they love f*cking someone else. I really just dont understand. Its not something I am capable of one bit.
2006-07-19 12:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have thought about yes, but i get a bit funny about it im scared that it would damage my relationship.i love my man and i dont wanna share him or have him leave.
2006-07-19 20:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly*effect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gf brought her gf into the relationship
every few weeks we get together
it is great for other relationship
2006-07-19 12:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋