ok ive been with the same guy for a year in a half and im a couple times a week kinda girl and hes a once every 6 months kinda guy i dont wanna leave i dont want to buy a toy i just wanna have sex with him. he thinks im a nympho for asking. i think im being resenible.
2006-07-19 04:06:51 · 19 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like my wife. its hard but you have to decide if the sex is that important
2006-07-19 04:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by tony c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're being reasonable as well. i think you should tell him exactly how you feel and i understand that sex of all things should not be the end-all of a relationship.. have you two ever thought about setting one time every 2 weeks to have sex? i know that it doens't seem very often, but if he truly is a once every 6 months kind of guy this will be plenty often for him and it will be more often than nothing for you. then if this works, maybe you coiuld try to set a time to have it once a week. perhaps too, you're boyfriend might be very stressed out often and this has put a permanent curb on his sexual apetite. try to make him feel like he's special and not by groping at him 24/7, give him a nice relaxing massage and see if this gets his sex drive going, but don't put your expectations too high, just in case it doesn't... good luck ^__^ i hope this at least helped you a bit
2006-07-19 11:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old is he? If he's over 50 once or twice a week is enough, but if he's younger than that I think I would be concerned about his sexual orientation. Just a thought if he takes medication that could be the problem.
**there is no such thing as a nympho.
2006-07-19 11:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This, alas, is a very difficult problem for you. I wish I could solve it with just a few glib lines of advice. But if you're serious about improving your sex life, I will make the sacrifice to give you intensive therapy/training. Just be at my place at 10:00 pm every Thursday and Saturday evenings for the training sessions.
And don't worry. You don't need to buy any books. I have a 10 inch volume waiting for you here.
2006-07-19 11:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is more of a reflection of your relationship on a whole. I have been with my lady for 2 years and we are a several times a day kind of couple. It just gets better and better. However. . . we are complete soul mates and absolutely love each other's company. Neither of us dated a lot previous to each other and we both were searching for a soul mate without settling for one night, one week, or one month relationships. We are both immensly attracted to each other physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I guess were are two of the luck few. Maybe just try to talk to him about it. Find out what he is really feeling. You can always try dressing in some funky outfit as well. . .french maid. . . cheerleader. Sadly it may be possible he is no longer interested in the relationship and thus no longer interested in sex with you. Good Luck. . hopefully things work out for you.
2006-07-19 11:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should respect each other and come to a compromise, whereas once every 6 months may be too long to wait, but a couple of times a week may be too much, find a median and meet there, try something like once or twice a month.
2006-07-19 11:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can answer this question whole heartly. I love my baby I love sex with him, but the way he works we cant be together alot, because hes so tired. I would like to be with him every other day or close to it. Sometimes you just have to be patient with your man. Good men are hard to come by so dont drive him away by being to hard on him about sex. I learned that good men who work hard every day are tired and there bodies get tired. So be patient with your man. Keep on trying
2006-07-19 11:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by motherof3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once every six months?? He needs to go to doctor and see if he can get on Viagra or something. If he refuses, you may just have to buy a toy even though u don't want too!
2006-07-19 11:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is not interested in sex with the woman he loves, then there is either a physical or emotional reason. Seek counseling.
2006-07-19 11:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and talk with him. Communication is the best route. If that doesn't work you have to ask yourself if you are willing to only be intimate every 6 months. If you can't accept that and he isn't willing to be intimate more then you should re-evaluate your relationship.
2006-07-19 11:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Wants2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already discussed this situation with him and he's not willing or able to meet you half way, this is not going to work out. Do the guy and yourself a favor and move on.
2006-07-19 11:10:04 · answer #11 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋