And before ya'll have sex, they tell you they have HIV. Would you stay and risk it or leave them for being dishonest. Or some other alternative that I haven't thought of.
2006-07-19 04:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by Good Gushy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would be upset that they waited until AFTER i fell in love with them before they told me they had it. I would feel lied to, so the relationship would end there and then.
2006-07-19 04:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know what I would do. There's a lot to think about. You are never completely safe from getting HIV, so there is always the risk of it being passed on to you. If you did stay and got married, children would be at risk to be born with the virus. It would be a lifetime of sickness and constant worry.
Some people have such strong love, they would rather be with the person despite all the risks. A complicated life with the person you love would be better than a life without them.
2006-07-19 04:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i don't think i would stay in the relationship, not saying that sex is everything but you should no be a relationship with some one that has HIV it is too risky but if your love for them is great enough to stand by them then do so ...
2006-07-19 04:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were truly in love with this person then i would say stay with him /her. If you are both talking about sex You may want to use 2 condomns that way the risk will be reduced dramatically.
2006-07-19 04:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tony B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of there's a ingredient human beings that must be significant. it is why we see this section flooded with questions of "what's the meaning of existence?" it is why God is this style of arguable subject be counted, it is significant to us, to understand that we recommend some thing. We seek for recognition and whilst we don't gain that we are able to sense particularly down. Love is a few thing that conquers this and extra. We sense a feeling of connection, we sense significant, significant. human beings dedicate their complete lives to reaching those forms of thoughts. yet right here it is, all interior the only equipment. And coming all the way down to the fundamentals, all of us have sexual want, that's enriched whilst we do such act with somebody we like. sure there could be a painful component to it, yet from a philosophical stand component, purely you may enable somebody to wreck you thru taking issues to coronary heart. can we want it? i do no longer think of so. yet can we want it? sure. Why does no longer you? The positives outweigh the negatives.
2016-11-02 08:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's really love I would stay....yes, I would be upset that I wasn't told earlier but my love would be to strong to let that stand in the way. Magic Johnson's wife was never infected....plus there is always condoms!
OMG! please don't use 2 condoms that's just ignorant. 2 condoms cause friction and break. Be safe with 1.
2006-07-19 04:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I couldn't stay in that relationship. I couldn't take the chance of being infected.
2006-07-19 04:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by evil_lyn77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love them but no sex who wants a first class ticket to the resurerection?
2006-07-19 04:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by spoiled r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation. If you believe in God then you should not fear death. If you love this guy and you die of aids and you are a good person, God has a place for you in heaven...
2006-07-19 04:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Rolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me i think that the sex is the start of the end of any realtionship.
i tested it and im sure.
try to ask and check and u will find the answer
2006-07-19 04:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋