I met a guy online 4 years ago and I moved 1200 miles to be with him. I am 39, he's 36 and when we met, he was living with his parent's and had no job. When I moved, he said he would find work and help out. Over the course of the 4 years, he has worked 2 months, but he has also been sidelined with some medical issues. I have tried to be loving and supportive, and eventually we split and he moved back home with his folks, and I work and still live in the same area. We have started dating again, but he still hasn't made much of an attempt to find work. It's a sore subject with him when I bring it up. I do love him as we do have a history together. My family feels he's lazy and verbally abusive, and feel I deserve better.His parent's don't encourage him to find work, and he is not on disablity, so his family is suporting him. He wants to be the man of the house, but it's hard to sometimes overlook the fact he doesn't contribute. I do love him, but should I stay or move on?
2006-06-21
13:17:21
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Blonde Ambition
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