I have a dilema, I've been with this guy for 10 mths, love him to death, we have our problems, but who doesn't.... confide in a friend about my problems and she takes them to heart, the last time me and my bf broke up she told me she couldn't be the same friend that hse is now if I got back with him... I am back with him and I hide it from her cause I don't ant to lose my friendship, but shouldn't she no matter what still be my friend regardless wether I'm with him or not..... It slipped today that I have been talking to him and ever since she has been really different with me, what should I do?
2006-06-21 12:10:14 · 4 answers · asked by weezegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a real friend loves you regardless, thats all i am saying...
2006-06-21 12:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by highgamer6969 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with highgamer6969. There is two ways we can go about addressing this matter. Here's how.
1. Your friends is noticing more than just the problems that you say you and your bf are having and cares about your feelings. Your friend is wanting you to seperate with your bf for this exact reasor.
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2. Your friend may think that you're spending way to much time with your bf and is getting jealous so she wants you to brake up with this boyfriend of yours.That way you'll began to spend more time with her.
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3. She wants your man.
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4. Your friend is trying to benefit you from any trouble that may be in the near future that you may not see yourself heading towards with your bf but your friend is definetly noticing and she's having a hard time to deal with this.
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5. You might just need to talk to your friend about your feeling on the situation and be open to her feelings. Allow yourself to be open enough to except what she may have to say even if you may disagree with them.
2006-06-21 19:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Re15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you if you worry about who your freinds think you should go out with then you have problems. You should tell the freind your sorry for confiding in her but it is your life and you will live it. Remember the word freinds means they don't judge you there for you all the time no matter what and freinds do not put condision in freindship
2006-06-21 19:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just cares for you and knows that he is not a good boyfriend... and I am sure you know why!!! anyhow she should at least be there in the end to say i told you so!
she will get over it
2006-06-21 19:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋