This is a long story, but I'll try to make it short. My dad had surgery about a week ago, and didn't tell me until a few days after it happened. I talked to my brother and sister that same day, and they didn't know about it either. It wasn't anything serious, but Daddy is not so young anymore ~ even non-serious medical problems can turn into something more serious. Here's our problem: when our mom was alive, she was the one who kept us informed about everything. Daddy's sweet, but he's forgetful and not the greatest communicator on the planet. I talked to him 3 days before the surgery and he didn't say anything about it! Should we be upset that our step-mom didn't take up the responsibility of keeping us informed? Keep in mind, she told her sons about the surgery but said nothing to the 3 of us. I'm just afraid that something terrible could happen to my dad and I wouldn't find out for a week. Any thoughts or suggestions?
2006-06-21
07:21:54
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browneyedgirl
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