what's wrong with me now?

Question

i like a guy who likes me too,but i used to like a guy before him who is a friend of my crush,but i left him because he already had a girlfriend ..................but now whenever i see him, i feel as if i like him till now.............i feel the same way i used to before...............do i love him or something is wrong with me?

Answer 1

I'm confused too...I don't know how many boys are in that story...but to me it just sounds like being a normal young person....thats what crushes and obsessions are all about. You kind of just have to ride it out and try not to do anything dumb (not an insult to you, but I definitely remember doing dumb stuff bc of boys)

Answer 2

You're confused, because relationships (and the associated emotions) are new to you. Once upon a time, you found other things confusing, and over time you learned to understand them.

At your age, it's natural to question your feelings (since you don't understand them), but you need to recognize that you're going through a learning process -- and if someone else gives you advice that's wrong for you, you might form a connection between your emotions and what you believe they mean that isn't right for you, and will cause you trouble down the road.

So talk about your confusion, but don't look to other people for answers -- over time, you'll get the hang of this, just like you did walking and riding a bike and learning to manipulate your parents.

Answer 3

You sound just like my diary when I was younger =) You will change who you like more than you change your hair (as you can see from your own question). I don't think its love, love is so different that you can tell when you are in it. Just keep your eyes on school as much as you can. Boys are always going to be around. I know people will tell you that and tell you to stay away from boys until you are older, but honestly its because we didn't listen when we were young thats why we try to urge you girls on here with questions about boys to just wait til you are older. It hurts a lot when you get close to a boy and think you are in love and because you both are maturing at different rates the chances of it being something more than just a little short lived relationship are slim to none.. Try as hard as you can to be friends with them and have fun but be safe.

Answer 4

When we can not satisfy all of the emotions with a crush, because he has a gf, its only natural to hang onto those that have not been full filled...I don't think its love maybe lust, I don't think you know enough about him to love yet...direct these filling toward the guy you like know....like the song goes...love the one your with..good luck.

Answer 5

nothing is wrong, you are find. but the quick question you should be asking is do you like to be with the guy you like now. since he is friend to your last crush, you have to except that you will see him around. but if you love your last crush over the guy you like not, don't go with him. nothing is wrong with that. just follow your heart

Answer 6

Nothing is wrong with you. Just be friendly and let the guys be attracted to you. If they don't like you, they are just missing out on something really cool.

Answer 7

becoz some times when u dont stay enough with some who u likes him so much its normal whenever u see him it feels that still u like him ....trust me if would have stayd with that guy for sucha long time and had enough sex u would be the first one would have broken up with him ....

Answer 8

Eww, I've had that feeling before, you're just a little lost. You'll get over it soon when some other guy catches your eye. ;)

Answer 9

It's just a crush not love.Don't worry you'll get over it.I'd say you better concentrate on the new guy.
Good luck.

Answer 10

OK, heres what you do.

have sex with everyone you can, then when your old enough for a real relationship, settle down and make some intelligent decisions