2006-06-21 07:43:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont think it's possible to leave someone without hurting them.
2006-06-21 07:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by hotmama3712 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably is no way to leave someone without hurting them...and I'm sure in some way it'll hurt you too. But if it's best for the both of you, then just do it. You know her, so you have to decide how to do it! I don't know your situation, but you should sit down and talk with her...just don't leave while she's not looking, ya know?
2006-06-21 07:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five minutes after you are gone, she will forget all about you. You are ignorant of the nature of your relationship with her, is the problem. Just tell her you don't want to date her anymore and break off all contact. Don't be surprised when you see her with a new guy the next day (probably someone she was seeing the entire time she was with you). It is the nature of the thing.
2006-06-21 07:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will hurt them no matter what and you can't be in a relationship with someone you feel sorry for.
2006-06-21 07:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by socalledstarknite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what action you take, its going to hurt someone.
Im sorry, but you are going to have to be honest.
Tell this person everything they need to know and tell them youre sorry.
And afterwards, keep your distance for a bit, and then repair it. Time cant heal wounds, but it can help.
Good luck, and be as gentle as you can
2006-06-21 07:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're hurting them more by being with them just b/c you feel sorry for them. Be nice!
2006-06-21 07:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to hurt them no matter. the way that you do it.but if it was me i would just leave so that they will begin to heal and get over me.hope this has been some help.
2006-06-21 07:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough. Been there done that. As nice as you might want to be, that person will still be crushed and will most likely never want to speack to you again. My advice end it soon. Don't let to much time pass because them it becomes harder to do.
2006-06-21 07:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You worry more about being honest with them and less about feeling sorry and hurting their feelings; which most likely is unavoidable.
2006-06-21 07:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible. They will get hurt. Just let them down easy.
2006-06-21 07:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by chadmcasselman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋