2006-06-21 07:21:50 · 19 answers · asked by LISA F L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, you do the best you can. You try to focus on what is good in your life in other aspects, whether it is your job, school, or family. You try to keep busy doing things you like. Hang out with friends, go to the movies, cook, whatever interests you. I went through a seven month separation with my husband whom I love dearly, and it was the hardest thing to do. But I survived through it by doing the things mentioned above. I felt at times that I was living surreally, not really there, but kind of plodding through, and eventually it got better. For me, it got better when he moved back home. Not sure when or how it will get better for you, but rely on your friends and family to help you through it and keep active. Eventually, it does get easier, I promise!:) God bless and good luck!
2006-06-21 07:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by katrina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Loss is painful. Let yourself mourn your loss for a time, but make it just for a time. Set a date. Mourn for a few weeks, a few months, maybe even a few years if this was a long term relationship that has ended. But set the date when your mourning shall be finished.
On the first day after mourning has ended, begin again. There is someone out there for you. Given how many people there are in the world, there are probably several thousand people who would make really great partners for you. All you have to do is be available for them to find you, and to keep your eyes open so you can find them.
While we will never forget those we have loved and lost, as long as we live, we possess the capacity to love again, to love others, to be loved by them, and to grow more fully in love.
2006-06-21 07:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do it with a tremendous amount of longing, everyday. I know this, because I am living my life with out the person I Love. I have turned an otherwise totally depressing situation into a positive thing though. I am a writer and as a result of the deep longing I have felt in my life, for a number of months now, my creative flow has turned into a fresh flowing river of ideas! Good Luck
Cheers
2006-06-21 07:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by freefloatingelectron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of a tough question because everyone deals with living without a loved one in their own way. But time does heal the hurt eventually, however, you will never forget that certain person. If you have good memories that will keep you going.
2006-06-21 07:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're alive and not with you, u must know that true love is loving someone whether they are with you or not. Love is not about acquiring someone and holding onto them whether they want u or not. It's about loving someone for who they are, regardless of their feelings for u, and letting them go on their way if they do not desire u. If u love 'em u want them to be happy. If they have passed away, you go on with happiness in your heart that you were able to spend time with the one that you loved. Not many people get that chance and you should cherish the fact that you did. Also, don't give up on love in the future.
2006-06-21 07:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by stillatello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way on a serious level its very hard to. And I really don't think anybody can tell you how not to. When you have emotionally come attached to someone and lose them it feels like your life has ended.
Time.......that is all that is going to heal you is time.
Crying......will help you also. If you don't grieve like your suppose to your going to hold on to feeling for a very long time and it will not be healthy at all.
Friends.....find your real true friends and they will help you get through you roughest time of all. At this moment your really going to need them.
That's all I can tell you I hope it helps.
2006-06-21 07:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that person doesn't love you , you learn to face reality. The worst possible fate would be to be with someone who doesn't love you. Can't you see that?
2006-06-21 07:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can never live without the person who i love for sure lol
2006-06-21 07:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by edward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time - one minute at a time, if necessary. Eventually you will find someone else to love. Good luck.
2006-06-21 07:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Samlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend living with someone really hot who is totally infatuated with you. Believe me, the distraction really makes a difference.
2006-06-21 07:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋