why do females think that they can just get up and run with the kids and not feel no remorise about how the man feels?
2006-06-21 13:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by jon q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ive seen ur past questions...im soo sorry, i hope you find your daughter and that she is ok, if u gotta talk to someone, my yahoo IM thing is on my page, i have a 2 yr old son and was away from him for months while overseas and realized how hard it is to not be with him
good luck
the man was not necessarily harmful, be reasonable, maybe the mom is a ***** and just took her daughter away from her daddy.
i know what its like to carry a baby for 9 months and give birth...and it isnt nearly as bad as most women make it out to be, and just because we are the ones that HAD the child doesnt mean they just belong to us. it takes a man too and he is just as much a parent as hannah's mom is
2006-06-21 13:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sugar I wish I can answer that but I can't. I have never been in that situation but I would never do that to my husband. We came together to have a family and we will separate(if the day ever comes) as a family. I think it is just because the media has built the image of divorced men into bachelors and then turned the bachelors into party animals. I think women sub-consciously think all their ex-guy is going to do is go have wild flings with women and get drunk and be irresponsible, whether it is the case or not. Be strong and hang in there
2006-06-21 13:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question, I am a woman with two kids, who has stayed in a marriage so my kids could be with their father. His ex wife is a manipulative piece of trash who has done nothing but used their child as a chess piece for the last 14 years. He is a decent person who loves his children and would never harm them and she would up and move and give no contact for years.
I dont understand it either. I think it would have to be one of two reasons.....
selfishness or to manipulate. Women like that give women like me a bad name, and I am so sorry you have to deal with any of it.
2006-06-21 14:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by wanderin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some cases it can be out of anger!!!
but in other cases it cause the mom had the childen in them for 10 months and im sori buddy but theres no way a man can every understand that same boond....
but the main reason the women run off is in fear!!!
i hope it helps
2006-06-21 13:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumtimes she is just a b i t c h. u should not assume we are all like that. i know plenty of men who have picked up and left n never returned 2 c his kids again. that does not mean that all men have the same tendacies. or if you are a lousy person, drugs, partying violence...she should feel no remorse. i am not insinuating ne thing. i dont know the situation.
2006-06-21 13:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by mommaslosthermind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because the man either doesn't voice his opinion or the fact that men (or should I say boys) do it all of the time.
2006-06-21 13:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by vgibson81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc the man has treated them like ****. only explanation, and the only explanation needed. in one way or another thats it. and the woman, grew and CARRIED the child for NINE LONG MONTHS inside of HER, and oh ya, she GAVE BIRTH TO THEM! she is their mother!
2006-06-21 13:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the man was abusive or intolerable.
2006-06-21 13:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋