Other - Family & Relationships - 13 June 2006

my boyfriend of over a year and a half and i have a wonderful relationship. the only problem is that if he does something that i don't like or that bothers me...he usually can tell and he asks me what's wrong. i always say nothing, to avoid stress and conflict and a fight or whatever. i know this is not healthy, and we've talked about it numerous times.

any suggestions on how to help me open up? please help! thank you.

2006-06-13 15:14:57 · 3 answers · asked by vagirl098765 1

i meat this guy on the internet should i give him my number or not

2006-06-13 15:14:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-13 15:13:12 · 13 answers · asked by babygirl 1

A friend of mine, that i went on a few dates with and then found out he has a girlfriend, is always cheating on his girlfriend. He has been with her for about 2-3 years and they recently moved in together.

We are still friends so i know about all his cheating and continous chasing after other girls. I just don't understand it! I haven't asked him straight out but it just confuses me! He is also always messaging me and calling me, nothing has happened between us because of his girlfriend and he knows i wont do anything but he still chases after me!

Why is he with her if he doesn't want to be...??

Can any one shine some light on why he would still be with her...

2006-06-13 15:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by **ELLE** 3

I am dating a fantastic guy. I also happen to have a 14 month old daughter (not his) that he treats like his own. Problem being, he and I do not live together (he wants us to move in), we are not engaged yet (I don't have a ring, anyways), but he calls himself "daddy" to her. He does not change diapers when we are together or anything, he just does all the fun stuff. I am the one up all night with colds and teething and ferberizing and he still gets the title.
I am getting resentful and pissed with him when he tries to tell me what to do. I know he loves her, and I know he loves me, but right now he is in Iowa (for his job), and I am in Maryland, and he is telling me how to get "our" daughter to sleep through the night.
Am I over-reacting by wanting to tell him to screw off at times? Or is it wrong to be a upset that he does not have to deal with any of the messy stuff (lack of sleep, projectile vomit, early mornings), but still uses the title?

2006-06-13 15:10:28 · 6 answers · asked by Tyrtyl 2

Let me give you history on myself. I am African American & for the last 11 years, I have been told by friends and family, that when we are out in public (like a grocery store or Walmart/Target) that other women stare at me.
I never noticed this because I don't stare at other women. At one point, I was walking thru the mall with my male cousin and when we walked past this girl, he stopped her and asked her if she knew me because she was staring at me like she knew me.
For about the past 5 years, I have now began to realize that my family & friends are right. I will be out shopping, minding my own & I will look up to find another female staring at me. Some turn away when I catch them, others don't.
I don't walk with a limp, I don't have a second nose or anything weird. Why do they stare?

I will describe myself. I'm light skinned, my hair is a little shorter than Beyonce's (mine is real), some people think I'm mixed, but I'm not. Black & proud. Nothing special about me. Not ugly

2006-06-13 15:10:00 · 9 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 6

I WANT TO BE FRIENDS AGAIN WITH MY EX BECAUSE BEFORE EVER GOIN OUT WE WERE COOL FRIENDS AND WED TELL EACHOTHER EVERYTHING HED TELL ME HE WOULD TRUST ME AND I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT HE TRUSTED AND TOLD ME EVERYTHING AND I WANt US TO SATY FRIENDS again HOW CAN I MAKE HIM LISTEN TO ME ESPECIALLY SINCE IM HAVEING HARD TIMES RIGHT NOW I FELL LIKE HE ALWAYS UNDERSTOOD ME WAT CAN I DO?

2006-06-13 15:08:58 · 9 answers · asked by m$ shii 1

he was great but i dident think it would work and i let him get on with his life and he did but seeing him with his girlfriend wasn't fun so i stopped
but the thing about memories is that they always seem better than today
do i really wanna search for this guy or leave it?

2006-06-13 15:01:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

its like this.. my mom found out that my dad have a gf.. she tells me.. but i'm afraid if they to going to a divorce.. what should i do.. i'm only 14.. i love them both so much. what if they really going to do tha. i'm in a lot of presure now... what can i do..help! anybody..

2006-06-13 14:58:55 · 5 answers · asked by Honey Gee 3

Getting married ?
Having kids ?
Having a career ?
Traveling the world ?


Mine is to get married. I'd love to travel the world but if I got married I'd possibly be able to do that w/ my husband when we go on our honeymoon :) Not the WHOLE world, but maybe go to Europe on our honeymoon :) The idea of traveling so far away to go on your honeymoon sounds so romantic :)

P.S. I put it in this category in hopes of more peeps seeing my Q & replying to it :)

2006-06-13 14:55:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-13 14:48:23 · 4 answers · asked by lil ma'ma 1

what was your biggest misunderstanding with your partner that almost lead to break up..how did you solve it..who did the first move?

2006-06-13 14:23:30 · 7 answers · asked by blossom 1

Is there something over the internet she can do for now. She obviously has no money, and no car. Any ideas to get her going. I live with her and her mom. She is driving us crazy with wanting to use our cars and wanting money for this and that. Someone Please Help!!!!!!

2006-06-13 14:15:48 · 16 answers · asked by ssmithblueskies 2

2006-06-13 14:15:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-13 14:14:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-13 14:12:57 · 2 answers · asked by twebb50 1

We dated for a month but liked each other for over 6 months be4 that! we were really close friends and loved each other! He ahs asked me he i still feel about him and i first told him i have noe then he got all jealose on me. So i told him how i really felt and he did not agnolage i said nehting! we didn't break up b/c we didn't love each other we broke up b/c of some problems we separtly had. We almost got back together but the just decided to be fwb...which got us going farther than we did when we dated....that was abouta month ago and he is sending mixed stuff still. how does he feel and what should i do?

2006-06-13 14:06:05 · 2 answers · asked by cheerbabe104 3

2006-06-13 14:05:52 · 4 answers · asked by SonnyRadio.com 2

I am asking this question because I wanted to know if there were any guys that would prefer a nice, family-oriented girl over a wild, partying girl. I am a very family-oriented, calm, not wild type of girl, but my exboyfriend left me after claiming that he loved me to go out and party with other types of girls, like the ones that you can find at the clubs and other places. I feel like being the way I am is getting me nowhere.

2006-06-13 14:03:52 · 23 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2

Ok so I am in the military right now and it just really iritates me that alot of the men that are servin in the military marry these girls that were ok when they got married but are crazy now. They are lazy don't get jobs, expect their man to do everything, stay at home all day but don't cook or clean, and neglect their children cuz they're too busy callin him all day? Oh and they don't like for him to do anything but sit in the house with her all day. I mean damn it kills me cuz men shouldn't be treated like that if they're doing the right thing and going to work everyday and bring home food and clothes for his family. I guess it's just Military wives that do it but still it's not cool nobody deserves to get treated like that. So why do Women get retarded and lazy when they get married? (especially when they get married to a military man)?

2006-06-13 14:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by obshhesm 1

its when your so deeply inlove with your man/girl...sometimes you just stop and think a while and you remember some funniest moments in him/her..care to share?

2006-06-13 13:58:56 · 31 answers · asked by hearty 1

As a male I realize most many men fine 2 girls = Hot | 2 Guys = Not

I'm interested on the Female take on this

2006-06-13 13:57:33 · 26 answers · asked by Don T 2

My husband was on here on my name and he asked a question why should I pay child support. It is not that he is trying to get out of paying child support. What he is wanting to know is that she want allow him to see the child if I am around. We have a DNA test pending. There is along history around this other girl she was my friend and she did not have any where to go so I let her move in with us. But that was my mistake that want happen again. Also, How do you now who you can trust as far as friends go?

2006-06-13 13:57:17 · 7 answers · asked by bluedophin005 1

I have liked this guy for 6 years now, and we sort of went out in the first year , but then we sort of broke up. I still like him, and we seem to be hanging out a lot over the summer, but i wish i had enough guts to ask him if he likes me and if he wants to go out with me again!!!!

2006-06-13 13:55:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

not celebs thats boring real enemies please

2006-06-13 13:50:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-13 13:48:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are some people so scared to say I Love You?

2006-06-13 13:44:13 · 12 answers · asked by moon_fariey 3

witch answer do you like beter and why

2006-06-13 13:43:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son was 11 months and 6 days old when he passed away. How do you tell yourself that life will be okay with out every second of every day just bringing back the day that it happened. He was born very early and had a lot of problems keeping him in the hospital for 6 months. Then he was home for about 6 months and boom he was gone. How do life go on after something like this? How do I get passed all the visions of that day holding him as he went to sleep and never woke up? Any one got any answers?

2006-06-13 13:41:22 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole R 1

I've been dating this guy for 2 yrs now but the thing is that he has another woman also. He was the first guy I fell in love with I've been trying to end the relationship but he keeps me from doing and in a way i don't want to be with out him. The problem is how do i tell him its me or her with out losing him? Yet also should i leave him alone if so how can i go about doing it?

2006-06-13 13:40:45 · 30 answers · asked by rudegurld-lo 2