I am asking this question because I wanted to know if there were any guys that would prefer a nice, family-oriented girl over a wild, partying girl. I am a very family-oriented, calm, not wild type of girl, but my exboyfriend left me after claiming that he loved me to go out and party with other types of girls, like the ones that you can find at the clubs and other places. I feel like being the way I am is getting me nowhere.
2006-06-13 14:03:52 · 23 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I just basically wanted to know why do guys choose the wild party girl over the good girl.
2006-06-13 14:04:39 · update #1
I think most men prefer a "good" girl over a whore, I mean, "party" girl. Party girls have a tendency to sleep around, even if they have a boyfriend. Stay a good girl and your guy will come eventually. Move on. Be patient. when you find the right person, it will feel great and you will be happy. Don't change who you are for one person. There are over three billion male humans in the world, he is but one. Just be happy. Life is too short to not be happy.
2006-06-13 14:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by spudric13 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
not all guys go after the party type. you should find some guy who is less, well wild himself. if he likes to go clubbing and partying he is obviously not ready to settle down, and isn't looking for anything serious. There are many guys out there who would rather have a calm, family orientated girl over the wild one. The hard part is finding them, so keep your eyes open.
2006-06-13 14:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's basically this simple, if you are a single guy, looking for fun only, then you seek out the party girl.
When you have sown your wild oats, and ready to settle down, then you seek out the good girl.
It's the good girls that get to meet, the man's dad and mom. They are the ones, that bag the prize, that ring around their finger.
So if you are in this for the long run, be a good girl, if you are looking for a bad reputation etc. Then party hearty.
And yes there are lots of men, who are looking for that good girl.
Remember all those weddings that take place every June, or so, have a man as the bridegroom.
2006-06-13 14:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ABSOLUTELTY prefer a "good girl," but to answer your question, "party girls are a good type to go to if you are feeling extremely horny at the time and can't wait any longer. I know, sometimes I choose the party girl for that very reason.
2006-06-13 14:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Section 8 rehab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably cuz the wild ones are more open to doing things. BUt yeah definetly there are guys out there that would rather go for your type. dont change the way you are cuz youll eventually meet someone that appreciates you.
2006-06-13 14:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by FireDemon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know once I thought that I would not find a guy that wants a "good girl," but I found myself the most amazing man. They are out there, if you just be patient and don't settle the right man is out there. The one that will just sweep you off your feet! Just be yourself and you'll find what your looking for!! Good Luck!!
2006-06-13 14:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by little_angel_in_eugene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your smart,I say if i go to the club i,ll never do anything productive for humanity, dont let anyone bring you down, I look like the party ?square type I know girls at the club are not for me.The only way I,ll go to the club is if someone pays me.,to show up
2006-06-13 14:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are dumb,I would like to be home with my g/f then partying with a bunch of wild girl who don`t care who they end up with
2006-06-13 14:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by lazyman614 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, you're in the MARKET!!! If I were in the market for a lady, I'd be all over you! Don't let these morons try to waste you for their own desires. When the time is right, you'll score the right guy, Don't worry yourself about these idiots. Really. It'll happen.
2006-06-13 14:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by toolshopjohnny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to find a "good" girl but it never seems to work for me, trust me its a huge turn on for the "good" girl and just keep that. Now that I think about it I need to start dating again...but anyways don't worry about your ex.
2006-06-13 14:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋