A friend of mine, that i went on a few dates with and then found out he has a girlfriend, is always cheating on his girlfriend. He has been with her for about 2-3 years and they recently moved in together.
We are still friends so i know about all his cheating and continous chasing after other girls. I just don't understand it! I haven't asked him straight out but it just confuses me! He is also always messaging me and calling me, nothing has happened between us because of his girlfriend and he knows i wont do anything but he still chases after me!
Why is he with her if he doesn't want to be...??
Can any one shine some light on why he would still be with her...
2006-06-13 15:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by **ELLE** 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh he wants to be with her she serves a purpose. most of his wants and needs are serviced . He just thinks he's so cool he can get away with it. Either the girl dosn't know and thinks he loves her, or she is accepting of this behavior because she has low self esteam and thinks she has to accept this. He is a player god knows how he lies to her and lies to the next to pleasure his sick self. He does because he can. Maybe after he gets played when he really cares about someone he will learn a lesson, Just don't be another knotch in his belt he can brag about or ruin your rep in the process. Stay away and just watch the action, and u will see I'm right. You will bless the day you didn't get caught up in it.
2006-06-13 15:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Maryanne D 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
She sounds insecure. All you can do is can do is continue to be the hard working man you are.Someone should suggest she has some issues with herself that she needs to resolve. Whether or not she is talking to other guys Im not sure but she is for sure insecure. Im surprised you are still in a relationship w/ no trust b/c trust is just as important as love. Best Of Luck To You!
2016-03-27 03:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Young lady some guys are just pigs. All they care about is
getting the extra trim, no more no less. WOMEN are just meat
to these guys. It gives good guys, like myself, a bad name.
It makes it harder for a woman to trust a good guy.
2006-06-13 15:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants the best of both worlds. He wants a girlfriend to come home to who will always be there for him but also wants to experience different girls. I hope he gets burned and I hope his girl dumps his lame a*ss!
2006-06-13 15:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a "player" he likes the thrill of doing it, and one day he is going to get cought, He probabily in loves the girl his is living with, but just just like that little extra somthing? You can LOVE someone but it is another thing to "BE IN LOVE" I can love my playstation but am I in love with it? no I like to play it all the time, but there are more in portant thing that need to be done, Like this, I LOVE to help but that dont mean I fall in love with ever person... Do you get were I am going with this, I hope this helps
2006-06-13 15:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he isnt a one woman guy! He prolly has lots of other girls he likes and flirts with them. There are one woman guys out there so just keep lookin!
2006-06-13 15:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for many reasons. One maybe he dosnt want to hurt her. I know he is but he goes by (probably) what she doent knows hurt her. 2nd) he rather do what guys think is cool think he top dog or player player. 3rd) he takes his gf for advantage.
2006-06-13 15:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by ello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, why don't you ask him??? Some guys like the game. Not very mature, is he??!!!
2006-06-13 15:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like ur typical player. he dont know wut he wants cuz he got too much on his plate. this guy sounds like a dick.
2006-06-13 15:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by phili(pino) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cake and eat it too,,,and you let him?
2006-06-13 15:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋