I WANT TO BE FRIENDS AGAIN WITH MY EX BECAUSE BEFORE EVER GOIN OUT WE WERE COOL FRIENDS AND WED TELL EACHOTHER EVERYTHING HED TELL ME HE WOULD TRUST ME AND I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT HE TRUSTED AND TOLD ME EVERYTHING AND I WANt US TO SATY FRIENDS again HOW CAN I MAKE HIM LISTEN TO ME ESPECIALLY SINCE IM HAVEING HARD TIMES RIGHT NOW I FELL LIKE HE ALWAYS UNDERSTOOD ME WAT CAN I DO?
2006-06-13 15:08:58 · 9 answers · asked by m$ shii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
say SORRT ;()
2006-06-13 15:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally can relate from where you are coming from. My ex and I were great friends before we started dating. I sometimes wish we had never got together. Talk to him and see if he feels the same way. You should be aware that some people will be negative about you wanting to be his friend. It is utimately your choice. You hae the right to choose who your friends are. If you and him had really bad problems and you shared that with some people. Those are the people that are going to make you feel bad and as if you should never talk to him. People are going to have negative thing to say, no matter what. Don't worry about that do what your heart feels and if you are making a mistake you have the right to figure that out on your own. Good Luck with everything!
2006-06-13 15:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Making Changes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy was the issue with me and my ex we tried to stay in contact and talk to each other like normal friends ,but it just led to mad problems I would not recommend being to open with personal life for a while . till you really know its cool to discuss but other than that I have never had a problem with that w\ any EX of mine U just have keep a mature mindset and dont flip out if u hear something u really didn't want to
2006-06-13 15:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by jp5150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel and maybe things can work out between both of you as friends. But Be really careful, and keep in mind that he is your ex boyfriend. I tried being friends with my ex boyfriend only because i still liked him. But now I know that ex boyfriends are in the trash, and whatever goes in the trash, stays in the trash ; D
2006-06-13 15:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by DARI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you two really cared for each other and not be physical nor be jealous then you too could be friends!
2006-06-13 15:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by evasive_eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both matured and feel that a friendship may improve each other's life, then go ahead.
But first things first, you may both still have feelings for each other, so please understand that the "friendship" may lead somewhere again.
Good luck.
2006-06-13 15:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something, at least not stand there asking question!
2006-06-13 15:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS AGAIN BECAUSE YOU NEED HIM TO BE??
WHY DID YOU STOP BEING FRIENDS??
SOUNDS PRETTY ONE SIDED TO ME.
2006-06-13 15:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by linda2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a true friend is somebody you can dare to be yourself ;
2006-06-13 15:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by coulduck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋