Other - Family & Relationships - 10 June 2006

I found out that I have been sacrifying for other people too much but myself. I am the bread winner for my parents, my sister & brother, I supported them for study oversea and I am trying to work to buy a house for my parent. I take care of my mother because she is sick, I encourage my father because I know he is tired when his wife has been sick for long and he has dedicated his whole life for his family. I am exhausted by doing that and unbalanced because I dont have anyone to share. My boyfriend failed to understand and share with me. We have been in love for 6 years and now I am not ready to marry him even he wants though. I ignored a lof ot good men who came to me because I want to keep my faith in him. It seemed that I dont love him much but I dont want to make him sad & I am scare because I am old now. At the age of 28 in a peak of fame, I want to die because I dont think I can live with this life for long, where I am the shelter for everyone but myself. I am lonely!

2006-06-10 23:39:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

just because i came back a bit late from work, my bf said i was having an affair with another men and i was bz sleeping with other men. I am not tht kind of a girl but for 2 yrs i've been putting up with all his pain.Why shd i go thru this?He said i'm a dirt and i'm a BI***. i luvd him so much. My heart is so painful.. I can't take this pain anymore.

2006-06-10 23:31:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anisha81 2

How long did it take to get over it and the anxiety it carried? Were you ever able to stop thinking about it?

2006-06-10 23:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6

2006-06-10 23:26:59 · 7 answers · asked by Night King 1

I am happy, but i find myself always trying to arrange the next big thing in my life, and not living whats going on now.

2006-06-10 23:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3

please dont tell "just be your self...just be your self..."show me a functional way.

2006-06-10 23:24:26 · 3 answers · asked by billnim 1

I and my bf, we had been couples for 2 yrs now. He's 41 n i'm 25.The problem is that, my bf is very possesive and overcontrolling. how did i come to this conclusion?First and formost, wherever i go or whatever i do or with whoever i talk to, i must REPORT to him and tell him b4 i embark on anything.Even to eat or bath i have to tel him.2yrs i had been going thru this torture.If i dont do this, he wud either call me names,mentally abuse me or the worst-link me with other men.I have cut myself, cried hurt and done everything to prove my love to him and tht i'm not a cheap gal.After i cry and cut myself, he'd come and pamper m and say he loves me and we'd make it up.The prob is, 1 week back i had been having heart pain and i told him i wasnt feeling wel.He said maybe due to exam stress but I guess its due to all the pain been inflicted in me and tht i had all these years cried in silence.Today,when i was coming Back from college n my handphone battry went low and the phone offed

2006-06-10 23:15:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anisha81 2

what do u think bout me although u donno me????

2006-06-10 22:54:43 · 21 answers · asked by Summer 2

2006-06-10 22:23:27 · 12 answers · asked by myheavenlylove4u 2

Do you think men outgrow this and get tired of the drama and want to just settle down?

2006-06-10 22:14:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-10 22:08:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-10 21:56:54 · 17 answers · asked by z_m_f_1970 1

2006-06-10 21:53:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever been with a married man ? Did you like it and would you again ? Ive never seen the actual thrill of it for some women, just wonderin why some women find it exciting and just love the pleasure of it ? Penny for your thoughts please !

2006-06-10 21:51:01 · 3 answers · asked by princedeej30 2

Hi...I just wanted to know from fellow women like me...Is it really the length of the penis that matters to u more or the thickness?For me, thickness really matters since it sort of spreads my vaginal lips to the core and gives me a feeling of fullness...It's also way too pleasure some to be with a guy who is thick since I had a bf when in college who had a 5 " girth and I never failed to reach multipleorgasms with him each time...And I have been with about 9 guys till the time I got married...So I should know :-) But then I have a friend who prefers the penis to be more in length than thickness...She says she had once slept with a guy who was 11" and she loved every moment of it...So each women prefers something different....I would like to know opinions of the ladies around here....Thanks

2006-06-10 21:35:50 · 11 answers · asked by manali 1

ations? And can you get help from the government?

2006-06-10 21:35:37 · 4 answers · asked by *rasberryswirlgirl* 2

i am a white girl and i have a black boyfriend but i have lost my children from making a decision to leave my ex because he assaulted in view of my children. i live alone but visit my boyfriend quite often (maybe we are seeing too much of each other) my ex has prevented my youngest child from living or seeing me.whilst i respect her decision (she is 14) is it not normal for her to want to see me and think to herself that what i have done was for my own safety not because i have run off with a black man.i cannot comprehend how she could witness her dad assaulting me and then she does not get in contact with me

2006-06-10 21:32:28 · 12 answers · asked by stephanie d 1

Simple question....or is it?

2006-06-10 21:22:38 · 19 answers · asked by D 4

2006-06-10 21:03:41 · 24 answers · asked by and we all have loved before 2

2006-06-10 21:00:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

The story is: He's been sick with a stomach problem (similar to ulcers) for quite some time, from taking ibuprofen too much for an old shoulder injury and other muscle/joint pain. I saw the stomach photos from the doctor, he had something bordering on an ulcer....BUT...we have not had sex in almost 8 months and I've been suspecting that the stomach issues are not as bad as he says. He says he feels 'gross' or 'not in the mood' The doctor said, with the medicine, "he should be better in a week or two" and this has not happened. I have no reason to believe he's cheating, since we live together and also get along just fine otherwise. I'm growing weary of waiting for a normal sex life, and I know I'm ot bad looking (but I'm not the size 4 I was when we met). Please help me understand what is really going on! We've known eachother for just about a year and a half...but almost 10 months of it have been like this!

2006-06-10 20:58:14 · 7 answers · asked by shescrafty 2

I have a friend who from now is becaming a very nice relactionship. Both are having the same fellings, but we don´t fall for each other yet. I´m going to change my place in order to improving my profesional carer as Interior designer. So I´m going to leave the city and living 3 hours far distance from my friend´s residence. Could be the slightest chance to fall for each other one day in spite of my living 3 hours far distance from my possible lover friend?

2006-06-10 20:57:17 · 2 answers · asked by anais 1

I see you looking at me, and your car is always outside my house.

2006-06-10 20:49:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was engaged to the father of my 3 children and while pregnant w/ the 3rd he left me and got w/ a girl i thought he may have been cheating on me w/ i stood by him 4 almost 2 yrs while he was in jail and he is out 4 a couple mnths b4 we move in after being engaged and he cant stand by me for even 1/2 of a year. i thought what we had was real. the 1st time he got me pregnant on purpose and know he hasnt even seen r twin boys and has nver seen the new baby. i just dont understand how it all fell apart how someone could hurt me so bad when all i did was love them has anyone else been thru something similar i needadvuce on how 2 truly move on on the surface i tell myself i have but honestly it still hurts alot sometimes i just breakdown and cry

2006-06-10 20:47:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-10 20:46:49 · 13 answers · asked by Cricket 5

I understand if they don't know but I flash them my ring and they still keep it up. Do they think it's funny or something?

2006-06-10 20:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in a relationship with a guy who has 2 kids boy 17yrs old girl 16yrs old. im 27 with a son 11 and now we have a daughter 16mths old. should he disipline my son and should i have a say about what goes with is 2 kids? we live together now for 5yrs. what do you think?

2006-06-10 20:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 3

2006-06-10 20:20:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there anyway that he will come and be with us anymore?is there any way to talk to him?i miss him badly. pls dont think that im a small girl.im 22 years married women.pls help y god is doing such things like to me

2006-06-10 20:19:40 · 9 answers · asked by sss 1

see i do know what love is.Loving is to accept the good and the bad,the deception,the lies that may occur and even the depression, but also accepting the heart,the passion and a conciousness that u never knew existed.they say being inlove is a clouded state of mind but LOVING someone is real.like loving your family.i dont believe that.i believe that being inlove is a way of describing feelings in a simle 4 letter word that actually isnt so simple.what do you guys think?

2006-06-10 20:10:55 · 20 answers · asked by Tri 2