just because i came back a bit late from work, my bf said i was having an affair with another men and i was bz sleeping with other men. I am not tht kind of a girl but for 2 yrs i've been putting up with all his pain.Why shd i go thru this?He said i'm a dirt and i'm a BI***. i luvd him so much. My heart is so painful.. I can't take this pain anymore.
2006-06-10 23:31:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave the loser
2006-06-10 23:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by sicivic05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand ur situation completely...Its more painful when a person whom u love so much puts up this allegations on you..Well what is required is 2 of u pls go off for some short vacation wherin u can spend quality time together..If u cannot go for a vacation atleast spend 2 days in a week with him just having fun and making him realise how much do u care abt him...If he still continues blaming you and pointing fingures at you without understanding you then its time you should ignore his comments and get along in life...I am sure if he loves you ur ignoring him would make him realise what has he lost...........
2006-06-11 07:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How late were you and why? Did you let him know you would be late? Have you ever done anything to make him think this? It sounds to me as if maybe he is done with the relationship and needs an "out" so he is using that, if not, he is a jaelous control freak and you are much better off w/out him ans his bull$hit!
2006-06-11 06:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sad.u should talk to him when he will be in a good mood.probably he is narrow minded or so possessive about u.if ur not married than u have time to take correct decision.if ur than first explain him that he should change his mind, bcoz of him ur feeling hurt.if he doesn't wanna change himself than its a big problem which u will face in the future also.don't carry painful relationship anymore which will hurt u in future.god bless u .
2006-06-11 06:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for an outing with him when his mood is good and ask him y he think that...try to make ur point clear to him that he is the only guy in ur life...After doing so still if he hurts u make him clear thats it hurts and no more acceptable to u...I think he needs to be out of ur life...If he wants that y to love a person like him...If u wants no more pain make ur mind and decide abt him (stay or leave)...
2006-06-11 07:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sohail Kashif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Now. Five minutes ago. He's just hurting you. Its not like you are married to him. Find you a guy that supports you instead of tears you down. Don't stay with a guy that throws all of his insecurities at you like bullets. Its not healthy to be with that kind of man.
2006-06-11 06:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask urself, do u deserve all these. plse let go of him u will get a better person if not single life is also better no heart aches and stress. there is lot of things to achieve in this word instead of clinging to this person and waste our life getting hurt
2006-06-11 08:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by sri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wht you mean, i had the same thing happened to me...cept' mine was a worst case scenario..thinkin tht i was cheatin on her, she slept with another guy...wht im saying here is, communication...you guys need to talk, its because the lack of it thts leading one to believe something thts not true/never happened... hope you have better luck then i did..tc
2006-06-11 06:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't deserve you and don't waste any more time with him
if there's love there's trust.
The person who loves you, would like to see you happy and wouldnt be calling you names and all. Leave him!
2006-06-11 11:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by ann-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget that b'coz he is not trust u
i can tell u one advice if u don't mind believe is most impodent in love relationship ok
will u b my frnd if yes pls... mail me at gaurav_bholla@yahoo.co.in wht ur waiting 4 ur reply
2006-06-14 06:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by goldenweb12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up dear. You are better than that, and you deserve better than a control freak.
2006-06-11 07:30:22 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋