see i do know what love is.Loving is to accept the good and the bad,the deception,the lies that may occur and even the depression, but also accepting the heart,the passion and a conciousness that u never knew existed.they say being inlove is a clouded state of mind but LOVING someone is real.like loving your family.i dont believe that.i believe that being inlove is a way of describing feelings in a simle 4 letter word that actually isnt so simple.what do you guys think?
2006-06-10 20:10:55 · 20 answers · asked by Tri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there's nothing wrong to be in-love at age 17, but that is immature love, you must remember, that's not true love because Love is - Unconditional love; the kind of love God gives. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
you know girl I'm married at age 19, at age of 17 i in gage at premarital sex where in i though i feel in-love with the guy whom i gave my self. lately i realize that is not a true love, and that's feeling of mine at that age is an infatuation. you know girl until now I'm turning to 24, married and have 2 kids but still i can't say that my feeling ( I've been feel is true love) until now my feelings i **** to my husband that i taught "love". you know girl at age of 17 the love you say is not true, an immature feelings an infatuation, believe me.
good luck girl.. :-)
2006-06-10 20:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by lonely trix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my younger cousion is in love and she was younger then17. she has been with the same guy for almost 2 years. you can fall inlove at anytime or age of your life. 17 is just a number, and love is a great feeling, so love should win out no matter what age you are. To me know its not wrong but some people may not believe you can or know what love is, just be perpard what a good answer to make them understand that you do.
2006-06-11 03:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never wrong to be in love the real question is is it possible to b n love at such a young age. i believe i was at tht age but i also wasnt ready 4 love and usually guys around that age either so you are at risk 4 alot of heartbreak. there r so many different levels of how you can feel about a person so you have to really evaluate if ity is love or not the bible gives a great breakdown of what exactly love really is and isn't. what does worry me about your statement is that love means to sccapt lies and depressoin because those things hurt and love should never hurt you or make u feel bad. of course there will be sum problems but overall it should help u grow not stifle u and help u ba beter person. if not than it is not worth it 2 be w/ that person whether you"love" them or not
2006-06-11 03:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Triple K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with you EXCEPT for the (your words) "Loving is to accept...the deception, the lies that may occur..."
It's honorable to love someone through thick and thin, good times and hard times, but to continue to be played by someone who is deceitful is not healthy. Lying is despicable and if someone has been deceptive toward you then they don't HONOR you!
If they already have been that disrespectful and shameless, what makes you think they'll ever honor & revere you?
2006-06-11 03:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient; love is kind and envies no one. Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude; never selfish, not quick to take offense. There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, its hope, and endurance. In a word, there are three things that last forever: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of them all is love. (Corinthians 1:13)
I believe that love does not have one true definition; it is too deep of an emotion for words to do justice. The meaning of love is defined by how you feel, how you express your love, what you do because of love. Who you are because you are loved, because you love, because you have been loved.
Love is ageless, and I do believe you can be in love when you are 17. But it takes time for the love to become true, for it to become solid, for it to grow into a lifelong commitment between two people. If you think you are in love, go with it, take it slow, enjoy it...you have plenty of time to realize if it is true or not. The best thing of all is enjoying how you feel, and knowing you are happy because of it.
Good Luck!
2006-06-11 03:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that at the age of 17 you really would not want to tie yourself to somebody except yourself. Form a few loving friendships like best Friends and see where that leads you later in life.
2006-06-15 01:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that love is accepting lies and deception, that's called being ignorant and foolish. Why would you love someone like that? That's horrible.
Love is the strongest emotion and it should NOT be tossed around.
2006-06-11 03:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to be in love at 17--but you may find that what you have at 17 isn't satisfying later. Love and loving take commitment to work.
2006-06-11 03:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..of course not..17 is an age when u r on the thresholds of adulthood(acc.2 indian constitution)...u can xperience love..it is not unusual..however there r two kinds of love...immature and mature...
Immature love says"I love u 'cos i need u"
Mature love says"I need u 'cos i love u"
Spotted the difference?Decide which love r u experiencing and act accordingly..it doesn't matter whether u r 17 or 70...
2006-06-11 03:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by avani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong but maybe a bad choice...someone that young should wait until they are out of college,and find a God loveing and God fearing man...all the stuff you do in between is just done in vain...meaning its all fake...i know it sounds old fashioned but it works...try it...you'll see
2006-06-11 03:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋