Friends - December 2007

2007-12-09 03:35:21 · 3 answers · asked by aydinho 1

She's been in my life for about ten years.
We've been friends for about seven of those, but I feel like I pull the weight of the friendship.
She's cute, but not gorgeous. I tell her of how pretty I think she is. Especially when she's down on herself.
I did tell her I had a crush on her once, so I guess she knows what I think and feel about our friendship.
So even though she can be kind and caring, she can also be manipulative, because she knows I will do anything for her.
I don't want anyone else, I want her... Why???

2007-12-09 02:58:13 · 16 answers · asked by Kari 4

im 14.. and my mom doesnt let me go anywere!! i want to go to the mall with a few friends today and she said no because their are going to be to many people.. i told her that it is a mall and there is going to people there... i wasnt beinng rude or anyhing... so im writting a letter.. so far it says.....


I don’t get why I can’t go to the mall with *name*. It’s not like I’m going to go up to people and start talking to them. I’ve already walked around an amusement park by myself, and you trusted me and the other people there. The mall is the same, if not a little safer. Mom it’s a mall, there are always people there.


what can i do to convence me to go!!!!
and i dont want to stay home cause... i need to get out of this house
all my firends are responsable

2007-12-09 02:38:25 · 7 answers · asked by im_suuweeet 2

2007-12-09 02:37:42 · 4 answers · asked by joe arie 1

my best friend's brother died before 3 years ago...yesterday while we were at the school ,i over-heard him crying in the boys bathroom ..then he got out and his eyes were red and he looked like hell ! i asked him what's going on? he said my brother, i miss him , i want him back! then he started crying and he totally broke down !!

please can you help me?
what can i do to make him calm down?!

2007-12-09 02:35:44 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs.Leonardo 4

i had to ask my friend something and she was hanging out with her guy friend. i tryed to ask but then her guy friend said i don't like her and she doesn't like me and left why did he say that?

2007-12-09 02:34:33 · 6 answers · asked by HopeSo 2

theres this guy in school who started calling me names and stuff, at first i was like whatever hes just a guy and i dont care about what he thinks about me. But then, he started making fun of me infront of people and for some reason its really depressing me. I tried telling him to stop but it didnt work. Anyways after that, someone told me that he smokes, and one of my classmates whats like i know you smoke cuz someone told stacy(me) that you do ( She knew that because i told her my dad and I saw him smoking, and in our school if youre caught smoking you get suspended and blah blah). And then, hes like tell me who those two people are and he kept nagging and shouting and stuf, and my friend was like sorry i promised stacy not to tell, then hes like TELL ME, and he didnt say it in a funy way, he was being serious. I dont want to tell him because i dont want him to feel like he can make me do what he wants. Anyways, today she asked my friend and shes like sorry, and hes like omg im going

2007-12-09 02:29:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a few questions to ask about my friend who is dying. My friend has been a cancer patient since age 12 and is now losing his battle at age 17. At his last visit to the doctors they gave him 6 weeks to live. It's been 15 weeks since that visit. Recently his condition has worsened to the point that he's on oxygen.

People at my school keep asking about his condition when they refuse to call, go see him or even send him an e-mail. It gets annoying and makes me very depressed while in school. What's a polite way to tell them to go away?

My next question is about next year. I'm a high school senior and I've got a full scholarship to a tech school in Arizona. I currently live on the east coast should I take the scholarship even though I'll still be mourning my friend's death?

My last question is about my friend's family. Currently they try and include me in everything they do, but when my friend dies I don't think I'll be able to face them. What should I do?

2007-12-09 02:08:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Were just friends but when i mention what i like in a guy he'll say wierd things to me. Like one time i said i like guys with muscles and he said i guess i have to start working out then in a joking way. then yesterday i said like guys with tattoos n he said well im getting one next summer in a non joking way. i dont know what to think and we flirt like alot. i do have feelings for him but im not sure if he does have feelings for me. he likes this one girl but its wierd cuz around me he gets strange. And the last time i askjed about her he said they havent tlaked in a few weeks. i know when a guy likes me and he acts like he does but im not sure if its just us being close firends with one another cuz we do care about each other alot. i don't know what to think.

2007-12-09 02:01:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every time my friend comes over before 1 a.m. The fun is still to be had, but she just can't stay awake. She says she wants weto do all these things, but then all i hear is snoring!

2007-12-09 01:56:17 · 30 answers · asked by fairygirl01876 1

2007-12-09 01:45:38 · 1 answers · asked by rachael R 4

2007-12-09 01:45:05 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy Tequilla Girl 3

My BFF has a friend, lets just call him Owen, and my BFF gave me his AIM one day so we have been IMing on and off for the past week. So anyways, I know him, he goes to my school, and is one year older than me. He doesn't really know me that well, so we where exchanging pics and telling each other about ourselves. Well, one of the pics in my inbox was his thingy (you all know what I mean!) I didnt know what the message was so I just opened it and there it was! So the big problem is, he has a GF that is crazy and if she knew what I saw, she would kill me, not him! BTW I was fully clothed in the pic I sent him. So anyways, if his GF finds out she will tell everybody and I'll be ruined (although I dont have much of a socail life!). I fell really bad keeping it from her, but I dont know if I should tell her. We arn't great friends, so I dont think she whould understand. I need your help! Should I tell her? Should I feel guilty? And what should I do with the pic?

Thank so much you guys!!!

2007-12-09 00:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 00:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hiii frnds.....
My online frnd proposed me in d march of this year....
i too loved him... bt didnt xpress due to fear, as he is a ol frnd n nt knowing wthr he is correct or not...Bt i love him n he too know tht... so ven i was abt to xpres my love.. i was known by his frnd tht he already has an affair n i too found tht its true n talkd to tht girl ... ven i askd him abt his affair...he said tht it happnd previously...bt i love u n need a life vth u....
1 thng is.... vch i was unable to make it out is whethr he really loves me ... or....
bt i love him a lot... n pray 4 him to lead a happy life....

2007-12-08 21:30:54 · 3 answers · asked by sweety 1

I am being bullied at school by people who i thought were my friends.it started with one boy then others joined in.
i dont want to speak to my parents because i cant trust them and i dont want to speark to my teachers or hoy because i have no proof coz they all gang up on me

the reason is because
i like vidio games even though i am a girl
i like pokemon
i used to have a boyfriend and i dumped him because i told him i dident deserve him
because i like to draw but i can only draw boys

i need some suggestions on what to do?????????

2007-12-08 20:58:33 · 12 answers · asked by Katie Cousins 4

tell you they're just calling it as they see it? as though that exhonnorates them from twisting the knife? Couple years back, had a guy I'd known well since gradeschool pull that with me. It caused a big gulf. Ya got a story for me?

2007-12-08 18:07:59 · 5 answers · asked by Zipperhead 6

ackground story: I have a friend (A) who is pregnant, another friend (B) of mine was mad at A and said all kinds of mean, hateful, and harsh things about A, her husband and unborn baby. Now B is mad at me. Nobody ever told A about the mean things that B said. Now B is throwing a baby shower for A. I wasn't invited to the baby shower (obviously) because the hostess is B and she doesn't want me there. Which is fine, I mean it is her house and all. From the very begining of A's pregnancy I have been looking forward to giving her a very special gift that I made for her and the baby.
The question is: Is it wrong to send a gift to a shower that I'm not invited to?

2007-12-08 18:04:11 · 5 answers · asked by Lily Flower 2

Thanks for your time for my question. I’m a 16 year old senior high student. Relationship is making me dizzy. If you could give me some advice, I\ll really be appreciated.
1\parents
It seems like we can hardly understand each other. We both know that remaining silent can’t solve the problem but each time we come down for conversation, it ends up in a quarrel.
2\teachers
My parents think I should be initiative to keep in touch with my teachers cuz they have a lot of students and won’t have time to offer help to me personally.
For example, last week I needed a recommendation letter for the university. I telephoned my parents to ask my maths teacher to write one for me. I didn’t go to the teacher myself because I was not sure where he was at a certain time. The next day after maths class, the teacher looked at me and I was waiting for his answer. But finally he didn’t say anything. It was embarrassing. I didn’t talk about the recommendation thing because I was not sure whether it

2007-12-08 17:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by cuteyboy2001 1

cheer me up? I've just had the WORST night of my life so far. I just feel like crying. Can anyone cheer me up please?

2007-12-08 15:55:59 · 11 answers · asked by Juicyxo 3

on Halloween my friend let me use her flashlight and I was going to give it back but then I lost it and she just told me I owe her $300 I cant even imagine how a flashlight cost that much to me it liked a regular old flashlight. the question is how am I going to tell my mom about this. she is going to be angry as hell.

2007-12-08 15:52:18 · 28 answers · asked by haley 1

Share your story.
Or if you know a close friend that did something mean, or had something awful done to them, you can also share.

You don't have to mention names, and don't feel obligated to share anything you don't want to. I'm just in one of those moods, and want to read some stories.

Thanks!

2007-12-08 13:51:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just an hour ago I shared my darkest secret with my husband after 3 years of marriage, I told him that I was raped when I was just 7 years old and the person who did it was his best friend. The problem is that my husband just stops talking whenever he's upset and now he's doing the same thing and I am wondering did I do the right thing telling him my secret since he's always inviting his friend over to our house and I hate him to death. I have never told anyone this secret and I feel like I should've never told him.

2007-12-08 13:16:50 · 20 answers · asked by ammyliz 2

she told me she would call me around 5 and never did. she went to her "friends" house.and went shopping. Now she is at the bowling alley haveing fun. She has been doing this alot lately. Im way too forgiving. This time i need to do something. What should i do?

2007-12-08 13:10:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend and i made plans yesterday to hang out today
and she told me at about 4:00 that she had to finish her senior theme before her parents would let her do anything
and she was going to go to a certain collge library and finish it by 6:30

well we have been texting back and forth and we decided that we were also going tomorrow but i double checked with her that we were still going to get together tonight also
and she said that we were

i'm kind of upset b/c i was going to make other plans if we weren't hanging out tonight
but now it's getting to late to make plans with anyone else

like i said before she said that she was going to be home by 6:30 and it's now 7:30 and i've tried calling her cell and texting her to see if she knew what time i should come pick her up at
and so far i have gotten no response

or since i told her that we could hang out tonight should i wait and try and call her house and get in touch with her or see whats up?

2007-12-08 12:40:31 · 13 answers · asked by Nicole 3

find it fun to put myself in situations where girls could make me dress up as a girl and then get myself out of it, its an adrenaline rush because i really dont want it to happen but each time i do it the different girls get closer and closer to wanting to do it....should i stop now and be safe?? or keep playing the game and just accept the embarassing consequences when it happens??...how bad do you think it would be for me?

like you know...making bets where id have to dress up if i lost, or joking around and teasing and callin girls sissy and worthless, or offering to let a girl pick my halloween costume, just situations where a girl could make it happen....and then if they try to make me do it its a big adrenaline rush cause its scary as hell....then its kind of a game cause i have to talk my way out of having to do it

2007-12-08 12:38:45 · 5 answers · asked by asphault12 1

current girl wants to be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. she said she wants to spend time with her friends, be single, and have fun. is this the end?

anyway to get her back?
I just called her earlier, she is at a friend's house with a few guys voices on the background. It is so hard to deal with the friends thing after the relationship is over.

2007-12-08 12:11:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend Elle is all the time mean to me. She makes me furious. She goes out with a guy from my school that I really hate, but I approve because she's my friend and I want her to be happy. She once hated him though. Now I don't have a friend to hate him with! Elle told me on the phone, "Derrick just might not like you because you're bratty all the time! You always deny everything people ask you." I know in my heart that she's thinking I'm an ugly person; Not at all attractive and that's why she said that. What should I do with a friend like that?

2007-12-08 12:10:41 · 7 answers · asked by Kitten 1

My friend can't date untill she's 16 (she's 13 right now) But she fools around with all the guys and often passes out phone numbers. She likes to hang out with the older kids and She's my best friend.

But everyone can tell that she's going to get hurt one day. And I don't know what I can do for her? Help!

2007-12-08 12:05:25 · 27 answers · asked by ~*Felicity*~ 3

i love school and im doing good in a class that i used to suck at the school year is half why over do i join clubs ditch my buddys? I like this guy and we had a dance friday i wanted to ask him but im afaid of rejection do i ask him and enjoy this drama fulled year or avoid?

2007-12-08 12:04:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous