need advice, gf just dumped me?

Question

current girl wants to be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. she said she wants to spend time with her friends, be single, and have fun. is this the end?

anyway to get her back?
I just called her earlier, she is at a friend's house with a few guys voices on the background. It is so hard to deal with the friends thing after the relationship is over.

Answer 1

translation she wants to date other people and she still wants you in her life but she just dont want to be tied down give her the space she needs and if she really cares to you it will work out she might even date other people first but this will give you time to see if shes what you really want so be her friend when she needs one- shell see u really care

Answer 2

just tell her you dont want 2 be friends you want 2 be more then that .and that u cant deal w. her dating other ppl and thats she's like the only 1 for u ,and u cant live without her

Answer 3

Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. She never said that she wanted to break up, she is hinting at the fact that she wants to loosen the collar a little and give each other space. Do as she wants- give her space. Just be yourself. If she doesn't want you, she doesn't, let her go. I know it sounds hard to do, especially if your emotionally attatched.

Answer 4

I daresay it does hurt. But if she doesn't feel ready to commit, the worst thing you can do is try to pressure her. It will only get you both hurt worse.

Grieve for a while if you must- then get back to the business of living. You may one day be glad she asked you to slow down.

good luck!

Answer 5

do u really want her back? think about how you feel and how she feels about you. maybe she's not committed. its always hard in the beginning, but you just gotta hold out. theres someone out there for you. i found the love of my life a 2 years ago and its amazing. dont worry!