Do i give up on her?

Question

my friend and i made plans yesterday to hang out today
and she told me at about 4:00 that she had to finish her senior theme before her parents would let her do anything
and she was going to go to a certain collge library and finish it by 6:30

well we have been texting back and forth and we decided that we were also going tomorrow but i double checked with her that we were still going to get together tonight also
and she said that we were

i'm kind of upset b/c i was going to make other plans if we weren't hanging out tonight
but now it's getting to late to make plans with anyone else

like i said before she said that she was going to be home by 6:30 and it's now 7:30 and i've tried calling her cell and texting her to see if she knew what time i should come pick her up at
and so far i have gotten no response

or since i told her that we could hang out tonight should i wait and try and call her house and get in touch with her or see whats up?

one thought i had was that mabye she got in a fight with her parents and they took away her phone
or that her battery died
but still you don't think that she would try and contact me if either of these had happened

someone made me feel very upset because they said i was being selfish
and i just wanted to let everyone know that i respect the fact that she had to finish her school work
but i know that she was almost finished when i last heard from her
and the library she went to closed at 6:30 today she she couldn't have stayed to work on it past then even if she wanted to

and i would also like to point out to the person who answered me telling me that i had no life

if they would have actually read what i wrote i could have in fact made other plans but i choose no to because i really wanted to spend time with this friend and i was upset because i had put my day on hold for her and she wasn't communicating with me


and btw she just called and i was right
she had an arguement with her dad and he took her phone up and she said that she'll call me when she gets home so we can go somewh

thank you to everyone who answered politely and had helpful information though :]

Answer 1

I hate to tell you this , but you have too much time on your hands! You need to fill your life with more things. Your friend has a multitude of things to occupy HER time.. Besides, you don't have to fill every minute of your life ,do you?? Relax, catch up on whatever it is you do.. Finally, YOU go to the library and forget about your friend ,its obvious she is busy!! You need a hobby, that can occupy your mind between events in your life.. That's for real !! SOLOMON

Answer 2

Honestly an hour is too long to wait around past said time. Seems like she is not coming, and you've already tried communicating with her, in more than one way. I would just forget the plans and find someone or something else to do, as I don't think she'll show up today. Although, she could do you a favor and call and tell you that she won't be able to show up-thats the least she could do*. What a friend she is. Sounds like she's a flake.

Answer 3

I look at the past history with a friend to decide what I'll do. If this is a rare happening with this friend, I'd assume her homework is taking longer than she thought, and perhaps her cell phone has died. If she usually lets you know what's happening, give her the benefit of the doubt; she may be worrying that you'll be upset with her.
You could easily call her house and ask if she'll be able to get together with you this evening, asking politely, particularly if you ask one of her parents!!!
A mature way to deal with this is to wait until you see her and can be calm. Then suggest that if there's a doubt that she can get together with you, could she please let you know this so you could make other plans earlier in the evening.
She may well appreciate your kindness to her. Karylee

Answer 4

You never know what might have happened, she might have gotten into a fight with her parents. Does that happen often? If it does then that's probably the reason. Try contacting her some other way, maybe stop by her house and make sure everything's okay or IM her on the computer. Try not giving up on her, but if you do don't sweat it. There's always tomorrow.

Good Luck <3

Answer 5

I think you should wait until you find out what happened. Did you call her house? Her parents probably have a phone, right?
And I think you should pay attention to the fact that your friend has schoolwork to do and plans to do it. You should respect that. Don't you sometimes have school work that takes priority over 'hanging out' with a friend?
Lighten up.

Answer 6

Try to call her home phone. Mabye her parents will answer and give you the news. If they don't answer then I would still not go anyware

Answer 7

stop being selfish for one, if the girl is trying to finish a project, especially one that will define whether she graduates or not giver her that time. Its one weekend buddy, one thing is to be in love, another thing is to be over bearing. Let her be, when she is ready she will appreciate you for waiting and trust me it will be all worth it.

Answer 8

Next!

Answer 9

If she has dissed you before, than i would end the friendship.
But if this is a first time thing than don't give up on her.

Answer 10

dont worry about her,shes just stuffing you around.
Go out with your other mates and party up while you still can......run run...tell her shes a dik for wasting your time..