Friends - December 2007

I've had a friendship with a girl, let's just call her Sara.

We have been friends for about 9 years now, and there was a gap between our schools from middle school to high school. I'm a sophomore and she is a freshman. Since that gap of time where we weren't in school for a year, she has changed so much.

She used to be fun, outgoing, and talkative, and all around jump first into a situation person, just like I am.

Now she is, a boring, quiet, and weird person all the time. Meanwhile I am the person that always talks and yells and is almost overly outgoing, and we used to be like a pair that was identical. And now whenever I'm around her, I am just like "Ugh, you are so annoying now, why am i friends with you?"

I feel like the past 4 months of this behavior have resulted in the degradation of our relationship, and I feel it is the best choice for me to just put her behind me as a friend and move on.

Is this the right choice, or not, what should I do?

2007-12-15 10:50:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this so called friend know each other for years, but for a while now, he always try's to put me down, always try's 2 correct me, and everything i say, he tries to prove me wrong all the time, even if its a simple, " it might rain today" comment, he will freaking go online and ****, and try to prove it wont.
Not to Mention, i get a feeling that he lacks self confidence, and tries to use me as a punching bag to gain whatever his trying to get back, he betrayed my trust a few times in the past, but came back, crawling, and ran with it in a way, that didn't make it look like it was his fault.
i am getting tired of this, he use to be a decent person,
but he changed, what should i do ?

Should I confront him,
to get all this **** off my chest ?
because even if i ignore him and forget about him
i will feel like i have a scar 4 life
i will still have all this negative/bad memory's of him inside my head. And how, any suggestions ? because he always trys to ignore serious conversation

2007-12-15 10:41:04 · 2 answers · asked by Vince J 2

i have a friend who not so much a friend anymore! i really want to talk to her!! i mean she was my bestfriend!! i want to say sorry to her but she need to be saying sorry to me!!!she started the whole arguement, why cant she just say sorry!! i will forgive her!

2007-12-15 10:14:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

She Treats Me Like Sh*t Talks To Me Like Sh*t
All She Does Is Talk About Herself
And If I Wanna Talk About Something
She Either Agrees With It Or Goes Quiet And Then Changes The Subject To Something About Her
She Has Frustrated Me So Much That I Have Actually Cryed Several Times
What Should I Do???
Please Help Me?!?!

2007-12-15 10:11:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

do i have a freind

2007-12-15 09:58:33 · 13 answers · asked by favoritegirl2009 1

well, i'm a 15 year old guy and i know im gay, but last weekend i was at my friends house (a girl) and her dad came on to me... lets just say i might have been just a little tipsey and didnt resist... he has been pestering me ever since and i dont know what to do ... can i tell my friend!?!...ps i liked it :S

2007-12-15 09:23:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this boy but he use to go with my best friend. She's not my best friend any more but we still talk.(She was my bestfriend from Kindergarden to 6 grade. We didn't fall out or anything we just grew apart. But when i was in 7th grade i liked this boy and she started going with him so i was just like i don't like him any more. But then me and the boy started talkin and became really good friends.(while he was still with my ex bestfriend) and everyone was saying he liked me. And i kinda still had a crush on him. But now i am in 8th grade and he is a freshmen and he always come back to my school to see me. And he broke up with my ex best friend before he graduated so should i go with him beacuse he keep tellin me he likes me? But my ex best friend is in all my classes andwe still talk and she might get mad.

2007-12-15 09:00:01 · 4 answers · asked by y$topdo!nw@t!mdo!ng 4

My name is Karmina, i have 14 years.

2007-12-15 08:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

technically i left her. she changed into a popular girly girly [the dark side] and i told her that i was tired of this act. she told me i was stupid nad just jealous [i DONT want to look like an anorexic freak, thank you very much- that's what they are at my school].
so now i kind of miss her. not this popular one, the old one.
i constantly wonder what she is thinking about me, if seh hopes i burn in the depths of 'down below in fire' or she is wanting me back.
what is a good way to keep my mind away from her. she's bad for my mind.

thank you for all the answers!
look at the past questions!!

2007-12-15 08:36:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend. okay?
and i can't stop thinking about mi ex. i mean, i broke up w/ him, and every time i see him, i think "i don't want him 2 go back out w/ me"

but it's complicated. there's so many songs that make me think i want another chance.

I haven't had a chance 2 talk 2 mi boyfriend lately, and so i talk 2 mi ex.

Is it wrong
what should i do?

2007-12-15 08:30:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

in comp.lab i was sitting next to my friend and they got up.my crush sat down next to me after comp.lab my friends started aggravating me about it and he was right behind us.help?

2007-12-15 07:35:16 · 14 answers · asked by miley cyrus rox 2

ok When my bf and me broke up (I'm 14 by the way) I realized that I still wasn't really over him. So I wrote him a note during class that said "So r u over me or what?" so he wrote back "not really, I still like u about 30%" so I wrote that I still liked him about 30% too. But then he wrote: "I sorta have a girlfriend now" So I decided not to write back, because I felt kinda bad when I read those words. Anyways, when the bell rang, he went straight up 2 this girl and made sure I was watching him before he gave her a note. Anyways, a close friend of my ex likes me, and I think I should give him a chance because I'm beginning to like him now and because I just want to forget about my ex. Do you think it's a good idea to go out with my ex boyfriend's friend? By the way, I knew him since we were 9, so I really know him well (my ex's friend)
So my questions are:
1.Is he trying to make me jealous or what?
2.Should I go out with my ex's friend?

Thanks!!

2007-12-15 07:27:15 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ღαsнℓэч vαиэssαღ♥™ 4

2007-12-15 06:34:20 · 7 answers · asked by eirefaeriemom 3

exactly how do you do that?! i don't wanna be nice to the people who make fun of me in front of my crush! how do i show them i;m not a punk and to leave me a lone!

2007-12-15 06:18:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend, who i love more than a friend and is cutting. he said he doesnt think there's anything wrong with it, so i need good reasons that it is wrong. please help

2007-12-15 06:02:11 · 4 answers · asked by ChristianRider14 4

haha.
my friends mom has a couple of daughters who are girl scouts,
and she accidentally glued the patches on wrong.
how do we get the glue off of the sashes/vests?

2007-12-15 05:47:35 · 1 answers · asked by taylor [: 1

I've tried addressing things with my friend last year and instead of listening, or apologizing for her actions, she backpeddled and got extremely defensive. I tried to make this relationship work but the same stuff is still happening. Should I just ignore her or just tell her I'm done?

2007-12-15 05:20:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a foot feetish but she doesnt no tht. weve nown each other for a while + have talked privately + alone. shes in her 40's and has soft feet. i once saw them and i can tell that they were soft smooth soles. they were very shiny. i want to rub her feet so bad. please help me. i wuld do anything to be able to touch those soles. i wuld even be her foot slav. + also wuld luv to smell them if i can. if any 1 has a story similar to this or an experience i wuld relly appericate if u could share it with me. shes a very nice woman + has big feet. please try to make ur response long. i dream of massaging her feet everynight. i have a huge foot fettish.

2007-12-15 05:06:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I have known her for about 6 years but now I feel uncomfortable around her. Her mom was diagnosed with a life threatning blood disease, and couldn't talk for about two weeks( her throat almost was swollen shut) and almost died. While she was in the hospital we stuck together...but now that she has been out of the hospital and is getting better I feel wierd around her. They always thought church was boring but now they go and believe, and she doesn't listen to our regular bands anymore, but seems totally different and I feel awkward. I understand all the change and accept it, but I have had 4 of my grandparents die in a year and she barely offered and sympathy. When I told this to my other friends they helped me. I am soooo confused. We are really close, but I feel as if we are spliting apart. Help anyone?

2007-12-15 05:01:37 · 9 answers · asked by Carey 3

2007-12-15 04:42:08 · 9 answers · asked by KennedyDesireeTM 1

My friend is really nice and she is one of my best friends, but she cuts herself. Do you think I should hang with her or not?

2007-12-15 04:24:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my week hasn't been normal and my friend knows that. we were go to hang out on Thursday then i had to switch shifts to watch my niece and nephew, who were suppose to come in but didn't. my friend was thinking about hanging out with us but they had another friend who had a Christmas show to put on. i told them last night i felt like i need a day to myself. and they ask if i am trying to be mean and scam them and only need them when i want and that is not true. i have planned a trip with this person whom i have promised not to pull out on. i have already got my requested days off and all. and i plan on going on this trip with this person. did i betray this person and if so how do i apologize if not is this person oversensitive since they have been hurt before in a different situations but similar incident?

2007-12-15 02:19:23 · 4 answers · asked by bettyb 5

I am petrified of rodents. Most people, including my boyfriend react to my fear by telling me "it's more afraid of you..." I clearly find no comfort in this but it's all I ever get. Last nite to my boyfriend finally tried a new approach. While I was freaking out he sternly told me to stop it, then he ignored me. After a few min. he then acted annoyed by the situation. After calming down and reassuring him that I was all right and to not worry anymore he then told me to stop it again, only this time he yelled. Perhaps this is a new treatment for phobias I don't know about. Who needs therapy when they have this kind of support from their loved ones huh?

2007-12-15 01:48:49 · 6 answers · asked by babycattos 4

I haven't seen him in 13 years. When I met my first boyfriend (who was black) That entire side of the family disowned me (including my father) I since then have had a child of mixed decent. (in the obituary they did not claim her nor my sisters baby who is also mixed) My mom says I should go pay my respects to my grandmother and go to the funeral (I definetely don't wanna go to funeral because I think that is kinda hypocritical and my father will be there who abused me) In a way I do wanna go see her but I am confused. they did disown me and have made no attempt to see me or my child. When I was a young girl we were very close and I still love both of them to this day. I need opinions on how this situation should be handled. I have always been the one to say why after someone dies do people want to reconnect....shouldn't a reunion be before a death and not after?? Help please

2007-12-15 01:13:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does this mean he is unhappy I am getting married? Jealous? Or that he doesn't think I must get married?

2007-12-15 00:39:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

well there is this one lace we wanted to go and we have been friend sence kindergarden and we talked about going to this place alll the time! and i mean all the time! and she said i promis me and you will go there. well insted she invites our other friend to go insted of me then goes well maybei can invite you! is that a true friend?!

2007-12-15 00:19:34 · 9 answers · asked by little_mama_on_the_block 2

There were 3 of us...We were good friends..One day he and that other person fought...so there's only two of us...he's always there for me, I'm always there for him...he always cares for me...We were bestfriends...but the day they started talking once again...I was always left out in the group...I was rarely invited ...They talk like they're the only people around...I was always alone...but I don't understand why they still want me to hang out with them....It's ALWAYS LIKE THAT RIGHT?? AM I JUST AN OPTION??!!! MAYBE I REALLY AM JUST BOUND 2 BE ALONE!! It's not the same as before T_T

He's my bestfriend....but why did he leave me???
I can't take it...I can't confront him coz I'm still not ready...

2007-12-14 23:36:07 · 11 answers · asked by acerbus18 1

I lost touch with a good friend in Melbourne, Aus. I believe the suburb he lives in is called Southbank. Are there any sites asides whitepages.com.au to try to locate people on? I live in the United States, so its hard.

2007-12-14 22:44:34 · 3 answers · asked by Jackie _ 2

What did you do?

2007-12-14 22:16:11 · 9 answers · asked by Incognito 3

At my school we have an index card that they give you and the put a check if you did something wrong. I drew on someone's homwork and was about to get a check until i i remebered that i left my card at home. If you leave it at home you would have to pay $25 dollers. Well, my friend let me borrow her card and the teacher didnt notice that it was hers so she checked it.At the end of the day, the teacher picked up the cards and my friend didnt have her card, i did. I turned it in and she had to go to the princable's office. I feel bad. What should i do?

2007-12-14 18:55:26 · 3 answers · asked by Mandy 1