exactly how do you do that?! i don't wanna be nice to the people who make fun of me in front of my crush! how do i show them i;m not a punk and to leave me a lone!
2007-12-15 06:18:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't let bullies do this to you geez
I would of punched each and every one of them
i dont take that kinda crap
2007-12-15 06:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, tough question. I have had a recurring problem with this myself, and it unfortunately does not go away as you get older. You need to learn to find acceptance within your self and question why you choose to associate with people that will insult you in front of your crush.
This may not be the answer you are looking for, but people make fun of you because they are insecure and are looking to knock you down a rung on the social ladder. They do this because they think it will make them look better.
The best thing that you can do is to Keep The Higher Ground. Don't sink to their level. Any defensive answer you give to people who are experienced bullies will be more fuel to add to their burning of you.
If you really feel you need to answer them, learn to make fun of them in a more intelligent way than they do of you. As an example, someone says "Did you buy that shirt at goodwill?" and you can respond with "I picked up this shirt at the same place I picked up your mom." Or something equally silly that throws them off, doesn't negate their insult, and instead turns the tables on them.
As the saying goes, everyone loves a good sport who can lose with a smile. Some of us have to lose more often than others. Keep smiling, and if you crush is a good person you will find that what others say does not matter.
Perhaps it's time to find new friends too!
2007-12-15 14:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Colonelpanik 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I suppose if they think they're pissing you off, you do the opposite.
If they "make fun of you", go into lengthy detail about exactly how their jokes are funny, and compliment them on pulling off such clever jokes.
The main thing is to NEVER let it show that you're pissed off. If you can pull it off, its a nice trick.
Personally though, I prefer killing them with piano wire.. or a clean headshot.
2007-12-15 14:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Meta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh. you just be confident and act as if they dont exist. my motto is, "say what you want. just dont put your hands on me." ya feel me? but they must be jealous about something or lacking somewhere within because why would someone consistenly pick on another. they've got issues. and remember live your life and dont let anyone bring you down. making people look stupid is always fun. sarcasm is key. unintelligent people always buckle when you use it on them. so the next time they say something...just look at them confidently with a blank face ...and ask, ok, are you done now? if not, let out all of what you're feeling 'cause it's gettin' old. LOL. I Bet you they're gonna feel stupid. I'm sure it's one in the bunch who really lays it on thick...so target him or her. Now...if they turn violent...i would suggest running like the wind. LOL. i'm kidding, but good luck kiddo. ;-)
2007-12-15 14:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm reminded of a scene from the Monty Python movie - The meaning of life.
It involves a man being executed by being chased off a cliff by topless models.
2007-12-15 14:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by dryheatdave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them or tell them off. Which way isn't important. What's important is being nice to your date and having a good time. Jerks will only bother you if they are getting off on it. Peace.
2007-12-16 21:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignored them and act confident ask your crush out and show off even more let them get more jealous they will get hurt by your positive attitude and success sweet revenge without using your hands but your mind.
2007-12-15 14:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Voodoo curse
2007-12-15 14:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick there a_s_s , there is no way to kill them with kindness and not look like a punk
2007-12-15 14:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by killaWill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you don't like it and to leave you alone. Maybe a threat or two?
2007-12-15 14:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by Stephen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋