Friends - December 2007

Okay, so I'm 13, and in middle school. My friend has been being mean to my boyfriend, hitting him, yelling at him for no reason, and last week poured water on him. He's getting hurt, even though he's done nothing to her. He won't say anything to her. It's hard to watch and I finally told my friend that I wasn't going to let her treat him that way, and now we don't talk; she's been sitting at another table at lunch. Another friend told me she's plotting something, but she isn't sure what. My bully friend is the type to not care about what other people think and does whatever she wants. I'm afraid she's really going to hurt someone, or there's going to be humiliation involved. I, of course, have thought about going to the counselor, but I know even if I send an anonymous email, she'll know it's me when the counselor tries to talk to her about it. I'm trying to keep my friends safe, but I'm scared that keeping quiet will allow something to happen. Yet, what would happen if I told? Thanks!

2007-12-14 17:54:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think this is like SO retarded? My really good friend quit being friends with me, is spreading rumors about me, amd texting me really crappy messages because 1 of or other friends called her a hoe and she is blaming me 4, saying it was my fault our friend called her that when I had nothing to do with it!!!!

2007-12-14 17:31:06 · 6 answers · asked by volleyball_katie_gurl 3

Well, I found a friend that I new in college from the Reunion site. I was so looking forward to hearing from her. She called and started sharing with me about HER LIFE ONLY. It was all one sided. What is odd that I realized she was a poor me person and that know matter what happen in my life did not matter. She met me at the mall one day and we had lunch, I was thinking it just she had not seen me in 40 years, but she could not let go, she stood in the Main Store crying about me leaving her there and that the person I was meeting later did not matter but her. What Kind of friendship is that?

2007-12-14 17:14:15 · 4 answers · asked by Sweetpea2008 1

I am in high school i am also a freshman.I only have 5 friends.4 of them are bad influences on me and sometimes i spend some weekends drink and smoking weed. But lately I don't wonna do that every weekend. So i wonna hang out with more people on the weekend so i don't smoke as much weed.Other people at school don't trust me cause i got kicked out of middle school for smoking weed but im not sure how many people know of it and i feel like i can't talk to them cause they might already have a opinion of me. And everyone is already in groups so i feel i cant talk to them. My social skills have gone down the toilet since i got comfortable around 5 kids. I don't wonna hang out with potheads as much as i do now

2007-12-14 16:51:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

he said he was not and just wanted to be good friends.
we were just so close and very very nice to me. That confused me.

I had my boyfriend.

if you were me, what would you do? avoid him? made him go away?

2007-12-14 16:34:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok today i told my friends that a while back that i had gave 4,000 dollars to a charity for children with cancer and i told them i felt good when i gave it but they told me that i should have spent it on shopping and all that but i told them that i would rather give all my money to a chraity then spend it all to my self.but now they always call me stupid because of the charity thing and i don't know what to say or do. and they r the kind of the girls who don't care nothing but them selfs.and they won't stop calling my stupid or dumb. HELP.

2007-12-14 16:30:59 · 22 answers · asked by Cheergirl-411&JONASFREAK101 2

Me and this so called friends know each other for years, but for a while now, his always trying to put me down, always tries to correct me, and everything i say, he tries to prove me wrong even if its a simple, " it might rain today" comment, he will freaking go online and ****, and try to prove it wont.
Not to Mention, i get a feeling that he lacks self confidence, and tries to use me as a punching bag to gain whatever his trying to get back, he betrayed my trust a few times in the past, but came back, crawling, and ran with it in a way, that didn't make it look like it was his fault.

i am getting tired of this, he use to be a decent person, but he changed, what should i do ?

2007-12-14 15:05:01 · 24 answers · asked by Vince J 2

2007-12-14 14:03:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 13:26:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should I get a really good male friend of mine who's gay for Christmas? He's a hairstylist and he's one of my best friends in the world. He's like a "sister" to me. And he's always there for me when I need him. Like when I broke up with my ex and got very depressed, he stayed with me on the phone till 2am to counsel me and he came over and motivated me to get up from my bed and get dressed so we could go out. When I was sick he came over with homemade chicken soup and rented funny movies for me to watch! When it was my birthday, he planned a surprised birthday party for me without my knowledge and made a homemade birthday cake. He also makes me laugh till my stomach hurts. I want to get him a special gift that he would like that values our friendship. I'm clueless! Help!

2007-12-14 13:15:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this kid and my best friend LOLO thinks sence were siissstttaaas i should tell her who it is!!! but i dont really wanna but i said i would what would u do??????????

2007-12-14 13:05:30 · 8 answers · asked by Ashalaylay 1

ok the rich girls hate me and i have never done anything to them. I am not bragging but i make better grades, teachers love me, i am close to a starter in basketball and i am a starter in softball and i am first leg in track? They are just as good as i am in sports. When i do something good the get really mad and when i do something wrong they laugh. What is there problem

2007-12-14 12:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

All i want to do is make friends. At the end they are just plain mean to me. I dont even know what i did to deserve it. And it hurts my feelings so bad and so awfull, i end up shedding a tear or two.

2007-12-14 12:37:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 3

my best friend just got married.We have been best friends scince we were 11yrs old ( now 24).we have been like brothers and always did everything together,and i covered him countless times,but for whatever reason,he decided not to have me stand up at his wedding (i was invited though and i did go) but instead he had my younger brother and his AA sponser (who he had known for about 1yr now)be groomsmen along w/ his brother(understandable). maybe we aren't as good of friends as i had thought.I feel really hurt by his decision and i really don't think any explanation he could give would make things alright( i mean i'm not in any of the pictures).i'd hate to see this ruin a otherwise good friendship.has anyone had something simmilar happen to them?any suggestions on what to do?thanks.(p.s. mostly just venting)

2007-12-14 11:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by sean k 1

ok so i just found out that my two bestfriends are talkin about me behind my back sayin how i always get an attutide with them but they dont understand i only started doin that because they were doing that to me.Especially one of them but she's doesnt believe that she's mean and acts like she never has an attuitude or yells at me which really irritates me.Then the other one just has issuses because her old bestfriend did her wrong and now she stays gettin an attutide at the wrong person and yells at u if u ask her a simple question but trys and act like she was joking but how im i suppose to no the difference .Any way were only in the 9 grade what should i do.

2007-12-14 10:19:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

k so like every monday i'm super hyper and my friends and i are always laughing over the stupidest things
Our teacher always tells us to >grow up< !
any good comebacks??:P

2007-12-14 10:11:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi does anybody know how to get out of something you dont want to do i need some help my friend has invited me to the movies but i DO NOT WANT TO GO


HELP HELP SOMEONE PLEASE SOMEONE HELP

THANKS

SONYA

2007-12-14 08:58:46 · 10 answers · asked by sonya f 1

2007-12-14 08:53:38 · 1 answers · asked by Duane T 1

Ok, so I had a friend for about 2 years. We were best friends. We had a fight and haven't spoken two words to each other in 7 months. She was a liar, she destroyed all other relationships I hade, and ultimately ended up being the cause of my girlfriend breaking up with me. oh yeah, did I mention she said "Good" when she heard that I was hit by an 18 wheeler? I'm finally starting to get my life back together and my ex and I are thinking of getting back together when she tries to start talking to me again in an empty hallway. I had just walked out a room and I hear my name. I turn around and its my old best friend. She asks whats up and I say nothing much and keep walking, pretending like she's not there. I tried so hard to fix things between us for about 2 months finally I get over it and pick up the pieces and move on happily. Now she wants to be friends again. Was I right to walk away? I think so...

2007-12-14 08:39:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had been "goin out" with this guy in 2 of my classes for maybe a month or more. We only talked on the phone, and never at school.Lately i was thinking about how stupid it is to have a relationship like that. one of my friends( not really friends, like i know her) was going out with this other guy named kyle, and he called her, talked to her on the phone, at school, sat by her at lunch held her hand, and all that stuff, the perfect boyfriend! it made me think....so over the week i lost interest in jacob(the first guy), and gained more intrest in this other guy kyle( my "friend" and him broke up, and he was in all of my classes). Then last night, i told myself, "end it with jacob, take a chance with kyle". so i did. but the stupid thing is, i asked my bff to do it for me!!! then i found out, that from kyle's friend " NO WAY!Why would you thing Kyle would like YOU?!!??!!". i still don't beleave his friend, but i feel bad about jacob. i don't want to start it again, but what do i do?

2007-12-14 08:29:30 · 29 answers · asked by ~♥~♫~Jess~♫~♥~ 2

Did you physically change much from your teenage years? Were you shocked at the transformations since graduating?
Please share your experience.

Mine is coming up and I'm curious of how others have fared. (Gosh, did I just give away my age?!)

2007-12-14 08:11:56 · 10 answers · asked by Dr. G™ 3

I turned 21 the other day and my sister who is 29, and her husband are pressuring me to go out tonight with them and their friends because my sister says she is going to get me "trashed." I dont drink and I never have. I dont agree with her pressuring me into doing something that I dont want to. I told her that I would have a drink... but not drink to get drunk..let alone, "trashed". I keep telling her that I dont want to get drunk but she keeps telling me OH YOU ARE TOO! I am so different from her also. I am not the type of person to go out to clubs and drink w/friends, and she is. I dont really know what to say to her... any suggestions?

2007-12-14 07:27:29 · 3 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1

I work with a girl who never wants to go to company get togethers or parties. She's in her late twenties and married, no kids. She is very nice although quite quiet - works hard but usually not anything over 40 hrs a week. Anytime someone brings in cookies, she immediately says no thanks when offered. Outings to lunch - always shot down. Even the company Christmas party.

I'm curious to think of what others who work in an office, or work in general think of this type of person in the work place. Be as honest as possible, and as detailed.

2007-12-14 06:47:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a15 year old O.K type girl

2007-12-14 06:26:42 · 11 answers · asked by awesome girl 2

Hi, I'm 18 cute and all. I have this best friend she's so hot but on myspace she shows off so much and she knows I love her and I want her so bad. How can I make her want me ? Is a fade with a mini afro cute on me? geeky colthes preppy with desighner frames? Well that look cute?

2007-12-14 05:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we all hang out normaly exept this last time, he was alone. I guess they had been fighting and he showed @ my door. So we just hung out for a few hours, then she shows up poundingon my door, i let her in, and she's trippin. BIG TIME. I understand her side, but i don't want to stop talking to either one of them. We weren't doing anythin wrong. What should i do?

2007-12-14 05:32:32 · 31 answers · asked by Rickie R 1

Im a really private person but recently i told two friends some of the secrets that have been building up for the last couple of years. I just did it one evening, but since then i am constantly worried and fell exposed. I hate it and find myself trying to distance myself from them now and i don't know why. Whats wrong with me? Why cant i tell people things?

2007-12-14 05:11:27 · 18 answers · asked by des 1

at school today it was the last day before christmas break and a really good friend of mine gave me and my sister and her bf a note before he left and he walked off, we tried to convince him not to as much as we could before he got on the bus....any thing i can say to him or help i could give to make him change his mind? he is stubborn and prideful i know he would refuse professional help

2007-12-14 04:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by Amy 2

I don't have any friends and there is only me (and my parents who've gone off for the day to Cardiff), so any realistic suggestions would be helpful,i'm 25 and finding birthdays these days a grim prospect as I never do anything special, thanks!

2007-12-14 04:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by Rainbowz 6

dose anyone know of anyone by the name of george Hemmings in his late 50s or early 60s they came from liverpool harris drive bootel i woud be so happy if they did to let me know . havent seen them for about 40 years & would like to get intuch

2007-12-14 03:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous