2007-12-14 13:26:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeh all the time .. but then i think that running away from things wont really solve it.
2007-12-14 22:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you feel like this and wonder what the reasons are for these feelings? Is it you feel you have little or no confidence in yourself and your abilities, or no self-esteem or self-worth?
Perhaps you have too much time on your hands and are not keeping as busy and active as you ought to. Running away solves nothing anyway if you are perfectly honest so you may as well face up to what is causing these feelings and deal with them.
Is there a member of your family such as your mother or father or even a grand-parent with whom you can confide? Or do you think you would benefit more if you sought professional help? Much depends of course on what is causing these problems and what to do next.
I cannot decide whether this is just an abstract question or whether you genuinely feel like running away and so my suggestions may or may not be relevant. We all get feelings or have fears when Life seems to get on top of us or out-of-hand but I am a firm believer in "a problem shared, is a problem halved" and it never seems quite as bad as one first thought.
We only have one Life and we need to make the most of it in every way possible. So some practical and positive suggestions may do the trick so here goes..............
Depending on your age what about
(1) a job that will stretch you physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually?
(2) a sport or hobby that will give you an interest and so introduce you to other like-minded people?
(3) doing some voluntary work - there are always people in your community who are far off than you are not just financially but socially?
(4) getting in touch with your local church and become "involved" in some way. Much depends upon whether you are this way inclined of course.
(5) renewing old friends or even getting out and making new ones?
Years ago when faced with a situation I did not know how to handle, I made a pact with myself and this was to be positive and constructive in word, thought and deed and to have nothing to do with negative input or people feeling sorry for me. Then I had to find courage and determination which, at the time, I had neither, to see this through. It was one of the many turning-points in my life at the time and I was so glad to have made this REAL choice.
Over the years, I have learned to take stock of my life, discarding the people and things that are no longer relevant and putting into place those that are. As we grow older, we all change one way and another, our values and interests change too but it is for the good in the long run. It is the same with friendship - I have had one special friend for 45 years (a long time in anyone's life) but she and I have been there for one another in the highs and lows of life but the consistency remains in tact.
I did not mean to "lecture" and can only hope my words will encourage you to stop these negative thoughts and put in their place, positive ones plus positive actions. Life is for living fully so go for it. It will be a challenge and it is entirely up to you whether or not you have a go at it.
Good luck, be of good heart and have a go.
2007-12-14 23:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by phoebe1932willey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, you would never be able to forgive yourself or forget her if you left her. And she wouldn't want to give you a second chance. If you love her enough, forget everything else and put you, her and the baby first. This is about you guys, not anyone else. Abortion is NOT the answer. I have known couples who had an abortion and really regretted it. 21 is not too young to be a father. You will have to get a regular paid job and let your girlfriend know you will support her no matter what. Maybe you could stay in the band and travel with her and the baby? Give it a chance if you love her. You'll soon work it out. Hope everything works out for you. (:
2016-05-24 00:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by bev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,
But If You Relax And Take Things 1 At A Time It Gets better :)
2007-12-14 23:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Emma :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the time.... i even think of suicide, lots.
but i never could do it... i just think what bout my family?
Friends?
The people who care....
i just get out the house, and run...
run as if im running from fate...
trying to get away!!
Its hard oh so hard, but you got to try overcome it... get out the house!
Run away... but always return, with tears.
But you have to make the most of life so why not make it an awsome exciting one? ;D
2007-12-14 17:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Every day
2007-12-14 13:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by totally_betrayed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-12-14 15:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by cherish405 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No take the things one by one on priority basis.
2007-12-14 13:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by akbattafarid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt like it too many times.
2007-12-15 02:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea ... just 2 b away 2 relax
2007-12-14 13:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋