Was I Right?

Question

Ok, so I had a friend for about 2 years. We were best friends. We had a fight and haven't spoken two words to each other in 7 months. She was a liar, she destroyed all other relationships I hade, and ultimately ended up being the cause of my girlfriend breaking up with me. oh yeah, did I mention she said "Good" when she heard that I was hit by an 18 wheeler? I'm finally starting to get my life back together and my ex and I are thinking of getting back together when she tries to start talking to me again in an empty hallway. I had just walked out a room and I hear my name. I turn around and its my old best friend. She asks whats up and I say nothing much and keep walking, pretending like she's not there. I tried so hard to fix things between us for about 2 months finally I get over it and pick up the pieces and move on happily. Now she wants to be friends again. Was I right to walk away? I think so...

Answer 1

Yep. She's manipulative. Don't give her the opportunity to manipulate your life, because she will.

TX Mom

Answer 2

I'm sorry , I still can't get over you being hit by a 18 wheeler and lived to tell about it...huh.

Answer 3

Your definitely right. Does she even remember what she has done to you? I mean she like ruined your life. Dont be her friend again shes just gonna do it to you again just when u have things a fixed.

Answer 4

yes u were and i dont think that she was really ur friend at all if my friend done that i would defiantly ignore her.. and if she was your friend then she would be happy for you if u were in a good relationship not tare u down.. maybe she was jealous of all the other girls in ur life ever think of that?? i still think that u done the right thing

Answer 5

It seems you should end your friendship with her, but better would be to have a quick conversation with her and tell her so, as against to never making it clear explicitely and not just responding to her.