Friends - May 2007

Ok, I'm a guy and my friend never tells any of his friends if something is bothering him. Everytime we ask, he just says he's tired and didn't get enough sleep. I've talked to him and he's shared a little with me, but not much. I get worried about him because I'm afraid he's going to bottle everything up and its going to overwhelm him one day. It happened to me and I don't want to see him go through that. I've told him multiple times that I'm there for him and that I would like it if he came to me if he needed to talk. I wonder if he just has trouble talking about his feelings. We have a group of about 9 or 10 close knit friends and none of us know him that well. Maybe I'm worrying too much and there's nothing wrong with him, but there are times when it's kind of obvious. He's told me about times where he was upset so he screamed into his pillow. I told him it's better to go to a person, he said he knew that but his pillow works fine. He said he'd come to me next time, but I doubt it.

2007-05-12 19:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by Kendo 2

We have been friends forever, and he's in that confused stage of trying to find out who he is. I have like him forever as well. Is it possible for him to ever love me like I love him? He means that absolute world to me, and I want him to be happy, but I want to be happy too.

2007-05-12 18:59:57 · 4 answers · asked by Ron M 2

so this guy that i used to work with liked me. he knew i had a boyfriend and knew nothing would ever happen between us. then it seemed like he was trying to make me jealous. he could never say my boyfriend's name even though i always use it. he'll be like "how are you and your" ... and just kind of pause until i said boyfriend. (it always seemed that if the guy can't say you're boyfriend's name without some smart remark it meant he was jealous.) then he got a girlfriend. and he would come up and pretty much just be like i just had lunch with my girlfriend. i thought it was wierd only because he brought it up out of nowhere. then about a week ago i stopped by and ended up talking to him again. one of the first things he said to me had to do with the fact that he had just got off the phone with a girl and they had plans for sunday.
why does he do that?
does it mean he still likes me?

2007-05-12 18:59:46 · 6 answers · asked by agarcia 2

I have been friends with this guy for over a year. We're in the same school & grade and hang out in the same group of friends.
Lately he & I have been talking about more intimate and personal topics than we normally would and we can talk to each other about anything, & over the past month he & I have become steadily closer.
On school camp, a bit over a week ago, I felt left out amongst a couple of my closest friends (even though I knew it was unintentional), & I'd had a really bad day & was pretty upset.
Once he heard I'd been crying, he searched the whole campus to find out what was wrong. The next night, we sat with his arms around me just talking about what'd happened.
Since then we've still been talking about everything & we also hug a lot more than normal (for a long time, we wouldn't hug, as we didn't have that kind of "touchy-feely" friendship).
We've been flirting heaps aswell. I really, really like him. Could he like me, or does he just care about me?

2007-05-12 18:56:23 · 5 answers · asked by Astrid 5

Make new friends
But keep the old
The first is silver
The last is gold

I am having a tough time keeping up with old friends and still having time to hang out with all the great new friends I am meeting. As a full-time working mother, it is becoming harder and harder to find time to nurture ANY kind of friendship with all that is going on, but I know that it is very important not to get caught up and lose touch. I thought of creating a schedule for when I should contact my friends, but this just seems so very "unfriendly". In my mind, the whole thing is supposed to be sort of a "been thinkin' about ya... how are ya?!" Kind of thing. It feels weird to have to schedule or "pencil in" my friends! Why is this so hard for me? When I was in high school, the first thing I'd want to do is get on the phone. Now the time investment just seems so high when balanced with kid's homework, his activities, etc. Sorry for the babble. Any answer will be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

2007-05-12 18:43:30 · 5 answers · asked by SambaGirl 1

Well, first of all, let me point that I'm not gay; but even though I think I've fallen in love with my best male friend. He's been a support for me in a lot of situations and everything was OK 'til I knew he actually was dating his cousin. He's really into him (I've talked to him about the subject, and he doesn't consider himself as gay not even bisexual) and they're both in love. But when I get a chance to think about it, I get jealous and profoundly wish I was his cousin...why did this happen to me?...We really treat each other as if we were brothers, but I'm afraid that if I tell him anything about this matter, I'd destroy our friendship.

2007-05-12 18:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by Alejandro H 1

okay...i have this friend and we used to be close but we're not anymore because we fought a lot and had lots of disagreements. we're going to this summer camp for like 4 days and i kind of want to hang out with him during those times. it's like it'll be a great chance to become "normal again" . the problem is if i should say it or no. i kind of want to tell him that we should hang out during camp so that we can be "normal". do you think it's stupid? how would you feel/?

2007-05-12 18:31:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it stupid if you take back your "lie"?

my friend asked me if i was jealous of his relationship with his friends, but i said no.

now that i think about it, i kind of am. should i tell him that? or no?

2007-05-12 18:28:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like 2 boys im 7 and ones 11 and ones 6 the six year old is cute and the eleven year old is old he blushes all the time when i tell him he smells like poo i have been realyy mean to both of them and i wanted to hear some advice to win back there hearts and also WICH ONES THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME

2007-05-12 18:27:26 · 10 answers · asked by soccer babe 1

I give them to my aunts, my husbands Godmother and my grandmother. (My husbands mother is deceased)

2007-05-12 18:19:28 · 11 answers · asked by NY_Attitude 6

I used to be very shy and I grew up in an emotionally abusive house. I have social anxiety disorder, which I am on medication for and it seems to be working. Im also seeing a therapist about it. However, even after all of the progress I have been making, I still feel like I dont have many close friends. I love to be around people, but I have a hard time connecting with them. Ive been through depression because of this. I just feel sometimes like I am invisible, and like Im the only one who has gone through this. Has anyone else gone through this??? Did you get over it? If so, how did you overcome it?

2007-05-12 18:08:27 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2

My friend recently got a tramp stamp ( tatoo above her butt) and she showed me, and later was by my husband pulled her shirt up and was sctraching at it underneath her shirt. My husband happened to notice and said what are you doing? She instantly stopped itching and said oh my tatoo was itching...I just got it see....and bent over sticking her butt out and showed him. It was like she was waiting for him to ask, so she could show him. I don't know why but it pissed me off. Am I being weird about this?

2007-05-12 18:07:38 · 12 answers · asked by Leslie S 2

One of my close-friends asked my guy-friend if hre likes me and told him I like him when I was not around. I feel kinda mad at her but at the same time i feel stupid for getting angry over that. Should I?

2007-05-12 17:48:22 · 18 answers · asked by Alexa 1

ok look i added this girl from my friend bridgette.. or whateva anyways i've made friends with her and all but its seems like she wont talk to me on myspace. i always so hi to her and ask her whats up on myspace and all she does is talk to other people.. should i forget about her and delete her or talk to other people? hm? i've been trying to be nice and all...but she .. *sighs* and look i know she doesn't have to be my friend.. but she wont say anything... i think she's scared of me or something i dunno... but i feel hurt... so what should i do? :(

2007-05-12 17:46:22 · 5 answers · asked by animegirlkiki2000 3

Mine's pretty loud, I need a break,maybe just silence. Please. Ear plugs, anyone?

2007-05-12 17:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by marriedw/children 3

and she's been tryin' to take him away from me by making up fake fights that never happened. and she asked him out like a millionnnn times. and i've only asked him once. but yeah she's gettin on my nerves and it makes me mad whenever she texts me like saying he's soooo hottttttt. and i'm like. i like him too. durrr. why you tellin' me this??? what should i do?

2007-05-12 17:37:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay for a lot of people you understand when you and your friends are joking around when they say bad stuff, but what if you can come with a comeback most of time. what should i do cause i makes them focus on me more because i dont get back at them.

2007-05-12 17:32:25 · 2 answers · asked by IgotwatUn33d 1

That you wish was NOT?
But you really have no choice,but to stay friends?
How do you cope?

2007-05-12 16:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had about 100 dollars in my drawer hidden behind a broken mirror so i though nobody knew about my secret money stash but me and my best friends. A few weeks ago, some of tht money went missing but i didn't think nething of it cuz i thought i might have missplaced it or spent it on something then forgot what i bought.
i went to buy slurpees with my friend two weeks ago and i had about 60 dollars left in my drawer and i remember saying to myself, if this money goes missing then i know someone's been steeling from me.
last night i checked my money stash and it was gone.
my "friend" comes over alot, i showed her where my money is one day when i got some for candy. she wants money really bad to buy the wii and i'm not sure if she would steel my money because she was so desperate. she's the only one i can think of who might have taken it, what do i do??

2007-05-12 15:42:29 · 13 answers · asked by skidthekitty 2

what do i do if someone acused me of stealing their stuff? i have a skateboard that i took apart and put the trucks on a different skate board. And one of my friends friend is acussing me of stealing them from him and i didnt. he told his mom and dad. and that all happed today and they are looking at me funny. he said that his skateboard was stolen about 2 months ago. but i didnt steal it, WHAT should i do?

2007-05-12 12:49:31 · 14 answers · asked by HELP ME!!! 1

not to be messed up but this kid that is not even my friend keeps on coming over and its getting annoying because the only reason he comes over is for the internet at my house and to grind my geeres even more he says a bunch of sh!t about me and people and last time he came with 2 other kids i dont know please help give me some advice to get rid of his a$$ for once i cant say nothing messed because hes the son of my dads best friend but like i said just because our parents are friends doesnt mean i want to be his HELP!!!! CAN'T STAND HIM

2007-05-12 12:44:33 · 10 answers · asked by Adrian O 1

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2007-05-12 11:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a very close friend that I chat to daily and txt during the day when we don't see each other. Usually I reply to txt messages within minutes of receiving them, though sometimes it has been a few hours at most. Now last night I sent a txt saying that I was off out, as my head was fried with a lot of things that have been going on over the past few days, and I was going to a place I find remote but relaxing.
The problem is this place doesn't have a good mobile reception, and prob didn't help that I moved on from my usual haunt to somewhere even further afield. Well I missed a txt last night and also a couple this morning, so my friend was extremly worried that something had happened to me.
Then late on this morning, I received the txts and made a very quick and short reply, not really giving much of an explanation..

My friend is extremely upset and no matter wot I say doesn't seem enough...

How can I show I am really sorry??

2007-05-12 10:27:43 · 23 answers · asked by soulessjam 1

to grow up and u dont want to cuz u LOVE having fun as a teen and people r always like nahh GROW UP stop being immature but u love being immature and having fun and staying on the phone for 3 hours everynight and always missing curfew i hate it when people do that and im always like no i wont not yet im still young

and they r always UGH so iratating what would yall say if they wouldnt listen im always just like f*ck you leave me alone and yet no listening i hate that i try not to listen but its hard and me and my friends always gettin dissed saying we r so immature uhhh and my dad hates me fighting so i dono

2007-05-12 09:10:57 · 3 answers · asked by angel cage 1

Its not really all that important to me to go to a high school granduation for my significant others son. Its just trying to do the right thing. Should I just forget trying to do something nice or should I send a present.
I really could care less if I attend or not. My kids are all grown and I could be out doing something less boring.

2007-05-12 08:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6

2007-05-12 08:29:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-12 08:18:19 · 5 answers · asked by mekerlac 1

I am a 15 year old guy. Me and one of my best GIRL friends haven't talked for almost 1 week. We go to the same school, live near eachother etc... She is mad at me, I'm not mad at her. She isn't talking to me. Anyways, this has happened before and I can usually get out of it by just talking to her.
This time it seems a bit worse, although, do you think I should talk to her about it, or just let her be for now?

Need help please

2007-05-12 08:15:18 · 17 answers · asked by Ja Rule 1

ok there is this old man who wanders around our school. he goes into the cafe @ lunch and always watches peoples buts when they go dump their trash from lunch. he massaged my friend's shoulders and is always licking his lips. some ppl say that he locks his door when ya go into his office. when we r switching classes he always asks girls if they wanna come in. he told 2 of my friends that he would like 2 c them makeout! when he talks to u, he takes u into empty rooms, and gets up close in ur face and rubs ur chin, also he will make random ppl sit with him at lunch. even some of the teacher's said he is a perv. i kno a girl who is neighbors with him and said that he had the house beside him burned down because he thought it was haunted. he was brought 2 court 10 years ago 4 mollesting a girl but charges were dropped. some parents have notified the school board but...... omg do u think hes a perv?

2007-05-12 08:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by nobody's kid 2