Friends - March 2007

Shes one of these peoples who always asks why? in ever answer you reply.

2007-03-28 09:11:34 · 18 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6

We used to be best friends for 2 years then she said i betrayed her, which i did but she did worse things to me and she told me we shouldn't be friends. I am heartbroken and now have no friends. My Mom called her Mom (not knowing we are now not friends) and asked if i could sleepover at her house because my parents will be away. Her Mom said yes.

Then at school my ex bff's sister told me that Halie was really mad at her mom for saying yes!!!!! I am in such a bind! Don't tell me to change pants, cuz i can't!!!!! What should i do at her house!??????

2007-03-28 09:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-28 09:07:24 · 20 answers · asked by pam 1

like any other worldly guy running after her for that something! How to make her see the difference?

2007-03-28 09:02:11 · 5 answers · asked by Kapil 2

their name is morris tuttle from the state of Maine
lived in lawrenceville, ga in 1972-1974 in a boarding house
on the main street brown hair listen to metal music like the who baba oriely met them when i was 15 yrs old and gave me album of the who with that song on it . have not heard from them since just wondering if anyone knew this person by this name would like to get in touch with them. yeah he was a hippie everyone was during that era so what but can someone try and help me locate him thanks

2007-03-28 09:00:02 · 1 answers · asked by bitburger 2

My friend has been there for me through thick and thin and i love her to bits and wish she was my mum cause i dont get on my with real mum well. has anyone else experienced this?

2007-03-28 08:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just moved. What's a good way to stay in touch with my friends besides myspace and e-mail?

2007-03-28 08:57:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend and I have been friends for over 15 years. I have stuck with her through everything! She has been married and divorced and through several men but I always stuck with her. Her mother died of liver disease some years ago. Just before her mother died in Hospice, she asked me to take care of my friend since I was the "only true friend she has ever had". For the last 6 months she has been dating a new guy she met on the Internet whom I can't stand. She says she is happy with him but for many reasons I feel that he is not right for her. I told her it was not my decision. She says that they are getting married. Now, due to recent events, including the fact that my friend and I went out to lunch after he told her not to talk to me, she says that she can not stand any more of the 'drama'. I told her that we may need to stop talking and being friends, however, it is really hard for me since we have been friends so long. Your advice is appreciated.

2007-03-28 08:55:43 · 4 answers · asked by Elizabeth H 2

how do you define real love? best answer gets 10 points. thanks for answering!! have a nice day!

2007-03-28 08:51:15 · 10 answers · asked by jv637 5

do you get along with other girls?
If you were to meet your best friend, would you be friends?

me and my friends were talking about this, and we decided that we would probably hate eachother if we didn't know each other.

2007-03-28 08:49:55 · 21 answers · asked by Jaroo 4

My friends and i would hang out and now they are shunning me out. They exclude me from conversations, mall trips, etc. One day we were talking a lot and the next week they don't talk to me much. I understand I can't hang around a lot because I'm not in their class and the fact that my parents are split so I visit my mom a lot. One time I invited them to stay the night at my house and all of them said they couldn't. I soon found out they spent the night at one of their houses. This has upset me largely. My stepmom says tough it up but you know, you need someone to talk to and trust especially when your very depressed through your parents' divorce. What could I be doing wrong?

2007-03-28 08:48:50 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica D 2

I have a very good girlfriend that I enjoy very much and she treats me well, but she is emotionally unstable at times and she does things that are hurtful to herself emotionally. Also, she can be very unpleasant to other people but substantiates her feeling of herself on whether or not men love her or feign after her.

She just does not do anything to help herself, no matter what ideas I suggest or the therapist I recommended with absolute love when she seemed to be in extreme emotional agony.

Question is...Would you remain friends with this person? It's so frustrating to see her defeat herself over and over.

2007-03-28 08:46:38 · 2 answers · asked by Holiday 3

My friend [and follower] really wants a guinea pig. I think it's only because I have one. I personally do not think she understands the responsability of a pet, and I've told her mulitple times that guinea pigs take a lot of work. She says that she's going to keep it in her bedroom, and that she will never take it out of the cage because her mom won't let her. She's told me other things that make me believe she won't provide the proper care for it, but how am I supposed to tell her this without her taking it the wrong way? I've tried to talk her out of it many times but it's never worked. I really don't want an animal to suffer just because she want to be like me, and I don't know how to explain it to her. Help me pleeeaaase!

2007-03-28 08:46:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is gay, so he thinks that its ok for him to hit us, we'll somtimes shove him or poke him or something, no harder than we do with each other, we don’t go around hiting him yet he seems to think that everyone takes joy in hitting him, and if we so much as poke him he'll slap us and it really hurts. He is a lot stronger and bigger than us.
Also because hes gay and he seems to think its ok for him to join in on all our girl stuff, but it gets annoying because we can't talk about a lot of stuff with him, like tampons and periods etc.
Hes always depressed, a lot because he doens't have a bf, i don't know how to make him relize that a bf doesn't make everything great.
Latley he says everyone is drifinting away from him, its because hes pushing us away adn he doesn't relize it.
I went out with this guy he likes and it created a big rift between us, i broke up with him because i wasn't happy and didn't think it would work, he got mad and started calling me a horible person, He thought I was horrible for hurting the guy, even though we only went out for about a month, yes I did break up with him on im, but the next time I would have seen him would have been at a party and it would have been bad to tell him there, because I knew he was looking forward to seeing me and he wouldn’t’ have been able to ask questions. According to my friend I broke up with that guy on an idea. Also he thinks hes in love with the guy that he got mad at me for breaking up with, which angersme, he doesn’t know what love it, and hes not in love with him, hes never even gone on a date with him. He puts too much ephasis on the physical parts of a relationship. He is also depressed because he thinks that he will never be with him, because hes with another one of my friends (btw this guy is bi ) but there not serious and will most likely break up.
he would always be putting me down, like when he would comment about something another friend did and say that “she did a better job than you could ever do”.
I have this other friend that I dated for 6 monthes and still remain close friends even though we broke up. And my gay guy friend really dislikes him now, he claims he always needs to be the center of attention, even though he is the one that always needs to have the attention. My friend is a total hypocrite.
He has this I want to save the world and I live for my friends attitude, and he doesn’t’ even relize how much he hurts us and how he puts, not only me but severl others down.
This other friend I have , he can never tell what mood shes in and she says it bugs her and he has this angle like view of her, if he took even 2 min to really get to know her he would relize this is not true.
Often he writes blog about personal stuff on the net. I originally got mad at him in jan because he wrote me a letter telling me not to invite my ex (previously mentioned) to the dance because”no one likes him”, which isn’t true. And telling me if I planed on breaking up with my bf to do it gently. He was basically telling me what to do and he went on to insult my ex, a great deal, which made me mad because hes one of my best friends and he was the only guy I’ve ever loved. Also at the time I go tmad because he posted a blog that kinda said I was going to break up with my current bf (the one he likes) and that I didn’t deserve him. This is what it said(Meh, I can't find anyone. Just my luck, eh? I guess I've kinda accepted it, but I'm still depressed. The only guy I have a crush on is a) Taken by my best friend and b) hetero. The sad thing is that he's a really sweet guy, and this is his first gf, and she may dump him because thye have nothing in common. He deserves better, and sometimes I think I can give him that. But he's hetero, so I pretend I don't like him. ) [in my opion if you post something on the internet anyone can read it , it was on his myspace]
Heres another of his blogs
(Well, I'm sad because I kinda realized I have no (or very few) close friends any more. Me closest friend was[me], but she got mad at me when I told her I didn't like[my ex of 6 monthes], and things went downhill from there. I mean, yeah, we're still doing a bit better, but there is that wall there now.

I used to be good friends with[the female friend I mentioned], but she andI are kinda drifting away.

[another one of our friends] was like, "I hate you" the other day, but she's kinda happy with me now, and I'm not sure why she was mad at me in the first place...

The older kids at starlight[theater group] just kinda seem to be ignoring me now... Not nesc in a mean way... but they never say Hi or anything... or even try to talk to me.

[another friend] is always kinda yelling at me. Even if it is in a joking way, it still kinda hurts.[this is exactly what he was doing to me too]

Oh, just wondering, why do people think it's fun to hit me? I mean WTF? I never did anything bad to anyone, but people enjoy hitting me.)
He also complains about his life a lot. He thinks he has it so hard. His life isn’t bad, his parents give him pretty much everything. There are so many other who have it worst. He says his mom hates him, I know his mom, shes not bad to him, my mom I don’t even see everyone month, because my parents are divorced.
He is openly gay and that fine with me, but it bugs me sometimes how he is so in your face about it, I’ve heard him say jokingly “oh it’s a hate crime so its worth it” basically saying its ok. Its like he just wants something to fight for and he uses his gayness as an excuss for things, like hitting us.
He is also slightly depressed, which he also uses as an excuse.
Also hes in this theater group with me and he doesn’t come to many rehersals anymore and has almost dropped out because a group of older kids, who were really good friends with him in dec. have kinda drifted away, but its their senior play and that just what they do, I wish he would just get over them and pay attention to all the others there that are equally awesome, even though there not seniors.
He also thinks were always leaving him out and were not. We have some inside jokes and he gets upset and says were leaving him out when we so much as say one thing hes not in on.
Basically hes really bugging me latly and me and that friend I just mentioned have thought of talking to him, but if we did he may get really mad at us and he’d end up telling everyone and making us to be these horrible peple, when what we really want to do is help him.
Sorry this is so long but its been going on for a while and I can’t take it anymore what do I do. Please help.

2007-03-28 08:44:40 · 3 answers · asked by Jessie 1

Me and 2 other girls used to be friends.But now they do not talk to me because the one of them told lies about me to the other.Why she did something like that?I always thougt that friendships last.You must know that I never gossip and never tell lies to my friends.She said that I told some bad things for them But that is something that never happened.Why she suddenly decided from a friend to be a stranger?

2007-03-28 08:41:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

.......I ever forget you?
I told you how i feel and I meant everything that I said.....
I really am so very sorry....Please respond to my e-mails....

2007-03-28 08:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4

My best friend thats a girl is a big part of my life and the idea tha I might be falling for her is running in my mind. should I go about telling her or not, and if so, how?

2007-03-28 08:27:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-28 08:23:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so me and my friend are always being stared at by these group of girls, i dont know if they are jealous haters or what, i mean i think that these girls are insecure and see me and my friend as a threat or something, im not trying to be conceited or nothing. they are girls who have to dress really nice to see themselves as being presentable to the world, they are always worried aout their appearance. i admit me and my friend are attractive but they act like we are ****** halle berry or jessica alba or something, what do u guys think? i feel so uncomfortable when they stare, i just wanna know how i should look at the situation and what to do!

2007-03-28 08:22:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my boyfriend doesn't know whether to play baseball or start working a save money up fo rafter school!! I know he loves baseball but he keeps on telling me that he only wants to play so i can see him play i don't know what to tell him please help!!!

2007-03-28 08:19:55 · 18 answers · asked by ashie bug 1

if you went away on Holiday and were unable to continue e-mail contact and when you were were finally able to get in contact someone you really cared for has deleted you completely from their online contacts because he felt ignored and hurt by you?
if this contact is across the ocean and you can't contact by your mob because your mob does not have the option for Inter-National calls and you told that friend you would be gone and you would try to contact them as soon as you could?
I have e-mailed him and get no response and I really feel so bad that he won't contact me...I think he is trying to make me feel as bad as he felt, but I am and I did tell him I would be away....I miss my friend so much....
What would you do?
Maybe he really did not love me the way he thought....or thinks I don't...My feelings for him have not changed at all....I just wish I were home now so I could call him, but am still away on holiday...........

2007-03-28 08:19:43 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4

here we go im only 17 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been on and off for 4 years and he used to sell weed but he changed hisd ways ever scenc he got on a year probation but every time my aunt or my sister here his name or when he calls they dont wont to talk to me any more for what reason why ? casuse someone sniched on him, in school last year but eveyone loves his twin to death do you think i barked up the wrong tree or something cause i dont know at all he treats me like im a prencess or his queen we are suppose to get merried on christmas in 08 i mean am i doing the wrong thing to hurt my family i mean me family is not even close so do yall think i shuld go my own way with my life? HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-28 08:17:06 · 6 answers · asked by MaShelda B 1

here we go im only 17 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been on and off for 4 years and he used to sell weed but he changed hisd ways ever scenc he got on a year probation but every time my aunt or my sister here his name or when he calls they dont wont to talk to me any more for what reason why ? casuse someone sniched on him, in school last year but eveyone loves his twin to death do you think i barked up the wrong tree or something cause i dont know at all he treats me like im a prencess or his queen we are suppose to get merried on christmas in 08 i mean am i doing the wrong thing to hurt my family i mean me family is not even close so do yall think i shuld go my own way with my life? HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-28 08:16:17 · 13 answers · asked by MaShelda B 1

When I was in junior high, I lied to an acquaintance about my ability to do a couple things, namely skateboard and play drums (lame, I know, but I did it to fit in). I was 13 at the time, and the things I said caught up with me and ruined my friendship with him and one other girl. I am in my 20s now and I have not lied about my life since (I learned my lesson...I did a stupid thing). A current friend who I am close with is friends with the girl from junior high. I don't know if she has forgotten about it or not, but I fear that she will tell him and it will ruin my friendship with him. I am not the person I was back then and I have never lied to him. Should I come clean with him and tell him of this past event before she does, or should I stop sweating it and let it go?

2007-03-28 08:11:49 · 6 answers · asked by KC 1

2007-03-28 08:10:22 · 3 answers · asked by J. G. 4

2007-03-28 08:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by Calif_Girl 5

I mean nobody won't even talk to him or go to the movies. What can I do to make him cool like the others.

2007-03-28 08:06:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

All my friends r girls, (exept my ex witch I hate anyway) I'm sick of the the drama. theyre all overdramatic and annoying to me now. How do I tell them this and how do I get new friends? (males)Who do I go to?

2007-03-28 08:06:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend was playing with his head and he is going all gangster so i called him sick in the head! Then he flicked me off!!

2007-03-28 08:05:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well right now in my life its really weird, most of my close friends are away at college and Im attending community college, i work a full time job and i go to school at night, i then go to the gym. It just seems that im not into the same things that my friends are, and they are the only friends that i have here. I want to make new friends because they just want to go out to the same clubs and im not really into that anymore where can i go to meet new people that are more on my level and I dont mean that i want to meet people who are just like me that would be boring but have some similarities. I like to go and do new things like go to the city or snowboarding or to the movies and even broadway shows, i like to even stay home and play board games and have some wine but my friends are not into that and plus none of them have cars or jobs or school and everytime we go out i have to pay for them! its really fair i love my friends but, i moved to a new town so that doesnt really help!

2007-03-28 07:55:41 · 6 answers · asked by XQZ-moi 2