how do you define real love? best answer gets 10 points. thanks for answering!! have a nice day!
2007-03-28 08:51:15 · 10 answers · asked by jv637 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Real love to me is a overwhelming feeling of happiness that caries it own set of insecurities and fears. Dreams for the future for hopes of unconditional love and understanding. It will have days of tears and days of laughter. Love has no real boundaries the feeling can last for days or months or years. Or end so suddenly with no real answers. Love however is to great of a feeling not to felt or explored to see where it goes.
2007-03-28 09:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is Not Jealous
Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.
Love is Not Brag
Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
Love is Not Arrogant
Love is not conceited, boastful, cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course, this is not love.
Love always covers
This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn't critcise and broadcast to the world the faults of others. Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
Love always Perseveres
Love always stands its ground and holds out. It will outlast anything. It will even love in the face of unreturned love.Real love will last though all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.
Love is Not Provoked
This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended. Love does not seek its own This is the heart of love. Love is other-centred rather than self-centred. Love says, "I love you, I want to give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"
Love does not act unbecomingly
This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishourably or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when you walk together.
Peace love happiness
Love is forgiving
Lastly, this is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remain resentful. Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins.
2007-03-28 15:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Grace's Mommy.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real Love... Two people willing to DO anything for each other, give themselves completely to each other, best friends, partner in crime, forgiving of each other mistakes, understanding it is a 50-50 thing to work right, respect, trust and two people who can have fun with each other being their selves and not worrying about what the other person is thinking. No awkward moments.
2007-03-28 15:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woke up this morning and was caught with surprise. Something made me smile. A thought of you, but something more. And I'll never know what did it ...
Maybe it's the look in your eyes when I'm lying next to you that renders me speechless, when I can't do or say anything but smile at you. Maybe it's the way you hold me just a little tighter than usual when you want to know you have me, when I'll let you know you'll always have me. Maybe it's the smile you give me when you look at my face and know there's nowhere I'd rather be, nowhere but here with you. Maybe it's the words you say to me that make me believe in anything, the words that make me believe in you, in myself, and in us. Maybe it's the way you sleep, when I wipe back your soft hair to see your dreaming eyes, how you keep me up at night. Maybe it's the kiss you gave me, the kiss we share, the kiss that feels brand new everytime, our neverending first kiss.
And I'll never know what did it ...
But I woke up this morning, the mewithoutyou, and for the first time, I forgot how it feels like to feel alone.
^that's real love right there.
2007-03-28 15:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know what real love was until I held my newborn daughter in my arms. I felt, thought, and knew as much as any poster here does. But when I had my kid, it was like--POW! THAT is real love. I would literally walk through fire for her.
Just wait til you're a mother. You'll get it then.
2007-03-28 16:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you won't understand real love.. cause you haven't even learned how to write a sentence never mind something as complicated as love.
2007-03-28 15:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by whaleaway 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means being there on their best days and worst. not running away when times get ruff. keeping your eyes on her when a pretty girl walks by. dont force them to do somthing they dont want to and dont say if you loved me you would....... i think true love is unexplaneable you just have to feel it in your heart
2007-03-28 15:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am really able to give my life in order to protect of hers, then, I really love her: Please know a lot of mysteries about love in my gift for you in the source below, dear
2007-03-28 15:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is.. When you go to sleep with that person in your thoughts and wake up with that same person in your thoughts.
2007-03-28 15:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by charlie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok real love is when you will do anything for your parthner! you know be with them until the end!
2007-03-28 15:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋