We used to be best friends for 2 years then she said i betrayed her, which i did but she did worse things to me and she told me we shouldn't be friends. I am heartbroken and now have no friends. My Mom called her Mom (not knowing we are now not friends) and asked if i could sleepover at her house because my parents will be away. Her Mom said yes.
Then at school my ex bff's sister told me that Halie was really mad at her mom for saying yes!!!!! I am in such a bind! Don't tell me to change pants, cuz i can't!!!!! What should i do at her house!??????
2007-03-28 09:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow! That is the worst thing that could have happened. I feel for you. Did your Mom know this situation existed? If she did and went ahead and asked anyway...I'd have to tell her. If you can't hand her this and tell her to read it.
You're just going to have to grin and bear it. She can't be obnoxious if her parents are there. ...so, stay in the family room and watch TV with the family. Just avoid being alone with her.
You will get thru this...not happily but you will
2007-03-28 09:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by whaleaway 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yikes, how old are you anyway? Old enough to have had a BF, so tell your mom- you and Halie are no longer friends, and have not been for some time. I don't know why your mom and her mom don't know you aren't friends any more, but how hard can it be for you to tell them, without going into detail why if that's a big mess.
Your mom will need to find another place for you to stay,or postphone the trip, or if push comes to shove, you go to her house, stay in the den or some other room, and she can hang out in her bedroom.
2007-03-28 16:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's just crazy u shoulda been told ur mom when she made the arrangements that u wasn't cool with that! Now ur stuck going over someone's house who hates u. How awkward is that??
On the flip side u could possibly rekindle ur relationship w/her. Just be nice cause remember ur in her domain & she can make ur life miserable while ur there.
2007-03-28 16:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to level with your mom about Halie & you. Tell your mom that you won't be comfy staying at her house & have her make other arrangements for you.
2007-03-28 16:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit freaking about it! Chances are you will end up having a good time and probably end up friends again. Both of you need to grow up!
2007-03-28 16:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by wish I were 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just have it out with her tell her everything that shes done to you and show her your hurt but don't start crying! and don't fight. maybe you could be friends with her also don't take anything valuable because you never know what she might do when your asleep
2007-03-28 16:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
bring a book and get down somethings you want to talk to her about. bring a movie you guys use to enjoy. if that doesn't work out. enjoy some adult conversations.
2007-03-28 16:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be polite and kill her w/ kindness oh hang out w/the mom
and leave the room when she comes in if that is possible
2007-03-28 16:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by livingexperience 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to sort out your problems with her by talking to her, maybe everything will work out.
2007-03-28 16:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by overeasy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should use this time to get over your trouble coz going from bestfriends to no friends is a big step...good luck!
2007-03-28 16:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Chase Smith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋