My friend, who I gradually am learning not to trust with my personal information because she does not know how to keep discrete information private. She has told people personal things that I have said to people I would have prefered not to know about it and it has created a big dramatic mess in my life. I am learning that although she is fun to be around, she just can't help but gossip and tell people other's personal secrets. Recently, she has befriended this person who is a little like me, trusting, maybe a little naive. He has begun to share secrets with hre and share intimate details. ONe of which, he specifically prefaced with, "do not tell anyone, especially [ME and another friend of hers]" and guess what, SHE TOLD ME. I am not going to blab around his secret, but i thought it was distasteful for her to tell me, WITH OR WITHOUT him having to preface it. The fact that he DID makes it worse. Should I tell him she told me? just to give him caution about what he shares w/ her?
2007-03-01
03:40:40
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Happy Annie
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