What do you do when you’re a woman and your best friend is a man and you do everything together, but he then gets a girlfriend? My best friend and I had planned to go travelling together next year, he’s always telling me I’m his favourite and the best ever and that he loves me and wants to marry me and that I’m the best person in the world to go travelling with. But now he wants to go with his new gf instead. He tells me that it had never been a ‘concrete’ plan between us so I shouldn’t be angry with him. But I feel confused and like I am his last resort, when he’s been telling me, even very recently, that we are ‘soulmates’ etc. Do I have a right to be angry with him, or is it okay for your friends to throw you over for their boy/girl friends? Should I be more understanding? I spent ages thinking about all the great things we were going to do, and now he’s going with her, but she doesn’t even want to go to the same places he and I want to. Do I have a right to be annoyed?
2007-03-01
09:15:17
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16 answers
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Katrina W
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