So I've been best friends with this person for about 2 years. We do almost everything together. But this semester is going terribly wrong. She became friends with one of my ex-best friends that has done some horrible things to me and we don't ever talk anymore. So my best friend has been acting like I don't even exist, and I confronted her and told her about it. So she said that she would try to include me in more. But she hasn't at all, but i'm not necessarily mad at her about it. So today in our history class I was talking to one of my friends and she was talking about this boy that likes her. And I was giving weird faces while she was talking because I think that the guy is a weirdo. And I guess my best friend thought that I was giving her weird faces and she asked me wats up with the faces and I told her that they weren't to her. And then I got online and my best friends away message said i'm tired of jealous bitches with attitudes so i guess she meant me. and i'm not sure wattodo
2007-03-01 08:47:27 · 23 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dear Sammy,
You sound unsure, uneasy, stressed, and in high school, right? I'm sorry to say it but I think that the best thing for you to do is to drop her if she doesn't come around soon. Someone who seems as materialistic as she does isn't worth speaking to.
Your true friends are the ones who are willing to listen to you and to talk to you and are willing to help you get through your troubles.
2007-03-01 09:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Anything in life is made up of cycles and that includes friends. Some people are in our lives for just a day, a couple of weeks, a class, a year, etc.
When you are no longer nourishing each others' spirit, celebrating your individuality, letting each other shine in your own light (that goes for any kind of relationship), then it's time to move on.
At this point in time it appears you are not getting anything positive out of this relationship. In the future, if the energy changes, you might reconnect. But for now, I would sever ties with her.
Hope this helps and good luck!
2007-03-01 17:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by sirensong98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the pompous little broad!
She's obviously the jealous one with nothing going for her. If she chose to listen to stupidy and believe what she wants, then you don't need someone like that as a friend.
You are way too mature to hang out or even attemp to reconcile things with her since she won't give you the chance. I say it's time for you to move on and find some true friends who are worth your time and effort.
Although, if you prefer, try to work things out before you just drop her like a bad habit - only if it'll make you feel better though.
Hope this helped and hope all goes well! â¥
2007-03-01 16:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a young young lady. Stop hanging with those bitches. You sound inexperienced. You need discernment about people especially woman. Be about your studies and career goals a believe me you will not have time and a real friend will come to you and probably be your own man. As long as you know your are not the problem. Find other things to do. Real friends or few. You have associates. Stop calling everyone your friend.
2007-03-01 16:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. that's not a true friend. if she was ur true friend, then she would dump those other girls for you. but she didn't. so that just adds to all the bad things she's done to you.for example:i was best friends with these two girls, we all hated a girl named moulanie. carissa [one of my friends] got in a fight with moulanie.
i jumped in. we all got suspended. that was last year. this year, they stopped being my friend. [yes, it was my fault. but hey, we learn from our mistakes] now, they all hate me. they have made me cry so many times, i can't keep track. moulanie is the worst. if you don't dump this girl soon, she'll dump you and you will feel all the hurt. don't be mean about it, though. just say something like,"i don't know if we should be best friends anymore. we could still be friends. that's it." don't make her fall hard. don't hurt her. because karma will come around. be the bigger and better person.
2007-03-01 17:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by t-dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do?
Before anything drop the drama and stay away from 'friends' with drama.
If it is not drama...drop the attitude.
But in all honesty kids seem to thrive on drama.
Not sure how to fix that but you must make the conscious decision to rise above it.
But is someone refers to you as a jealous beeyatch what kind of friend is she really?
2007-03-01 16:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask, which ***** are you talking about? If she was your best friend you should not be afraid to ask. And if she tries to say you, ask her why she thinks your a *****. After, tell her that you should not have to repeat that the faces were for when you were tlking to your friend about her crush, not to HER. If she's being a ***** and calling you a *****, give her one.
2007-03-01 16:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by hollicrombie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say forget her a true friend would not associate with people who has hurt their friend when someone my bff doesn't like come around i tell them i can't be their friend because i value her friendship and it seems like shes just looking for a reason to be mad at you i wouldn't even bother with her any more
2007-03-01 17:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just stop being friend with her, she seems like she has an attitude. If you are in Junior High, she probably does, junior high kids are so immature. If she is older, she knows better. I would tell her that you don't want to be associated with her anymore.
2007-03-01 16:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should dump her you give her the cold shoulder don't talk to her don't even look at her or say hi i had a friend like that and thats not right for her to do that sound like ya'll was close but how is she going to say i try to include you in more no no dump her
2007-03-01 17:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by quickster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋