Well, my friend and I are in a fight. The reason is because she pushes me, says things about me behind my back, calls me names, and when my friends died she nevered cared. All she did was ask me things about how they died. And I didn't won't to answer them. She wants to be my friend but I'm tired of it. What should I do? Should I have to put up with this? Or should I not be her friend?
2007-03-01 07:43:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Doesn't sound like she was really your friend to begin with. Put some distance between you and find some caring/loving friends. I'm sorry about your friends dying. Also, a good friend will listen to you and not ask you a lot of questions. Take care and find some real friends.
2007-03-01 07:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite your friend to her favorite treat, i.e. ice cream. Then, reflect on any pleasant, happy conversation where you both laughed.
Followed by explaining your feelings about her pushing you and you not liking it. She seems to want your attention. Also, she may be having guilty feelings about many things. Show her that you can be a friend. Good luck.
2007-03-01 07:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by sammie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to her about it? if you want to be her friend then no, you shouldn't put up with it. But to at least attempt it working you need to talk to her and let her know what's bothering you about her. She might have just asked questions about your friend because she may not know how or be good at comforting people in a situation like that.
2007-03-01 07:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by all4him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl listen , there is no reason why you should have another female push you around. whether she's friend or not. I would drop her like a bad habit because you can do bad my yourself. !!! friends are suppose to pick you when your down , not , kick you when your down. so she's really not a friend. You can do better without her.
2007-03-01 07:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk to her and tell her how you feel then just simply tell her that there are some thing you don't want to talk about. if she dose not under stand where your coming from then maybe you should be friend. try to give your friend one more chance.
2007-03-01 08:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend wont say things behind your back and treat yopu like that....tell her to take a walk...
2007-03-01 07:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she's no real friend if she talks about u behind your bak
find someone else to hang out with, because u dont need any fake people around u talking about u
2007-03-01 08:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend would never treat a friend like that. find someone that has the qualities of a good friend, like the friend you deserve.
2007-03-01 07:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Leannedrufy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'll help you. The person that you have described as your freind is in fact someone who only wants to run over you. She seems to be someone who wants to be in control over you and the best advise that can be given to you is to run...run...run as far away from this person as you possibly can. If not, you will continue to be her punching bag...
2007-03-01 08:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to put up with her. If you don't want her as a Friend . tell her and tell her why. Then ignore her.
2007-03-01 07:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋