I had a friend in my wedding and ran around with her and took her any where she wanted to go to the point of using me, but I said nothing. Now I am sick and she has nothing to do with me, and I have asked nothing of her...
2007-03-01 08:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by jpearlpeek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She seems to be either a auperficial b**** or she is hurt by your situation and is pulling back because she doesn't know how to deal with it. Personally I love those who enter my life forever. I can't see illness, fame, or situations breaking that up. Ask her how she feels about the situation. Then and only then will you get your answer. Don't speculate.
2007-03-01 08:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but your friend was a user and not really your friend. If she could abandon you when you got MS and are sick, then she was not ever sincere and she used you. So now, just forget about her and try to keep contact with other friends that care and try to keep a good attitude. If she eventually calls you; get rid of her fast. She is and never was your friend. I wish you well and you know what, look up the website for Multiple Sclorosis Foundation. There are group meetings that you can get together with people in your same situation with the same affliction. Also ask for information on this disease, booklets etc. I really wish you well..Remember you are not alone. There are people that care about you...just reach out.
2007-03-01 16:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you have developedd this desease. Best of luck to you with that.
Now back to your "friend". I am not trying to defend her actions but maybe she just doesnt know what to say to you. She may not know anything about MS. But if she were truly your friend she would be right there by your side asking about it and asking you if there were anything at all she could do. If my best friend came down sick like that you can take it to the bank that I would be doing everything that I could do for her. If I were you I would just write her off and try to forget about her, or you try to call her and ask her whats up. Some friends are only fair weather friends. Take care and good luck!!!!!!!
2007-03-01 16:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by shirley e 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie she was not your friend in the being. if she was a real good friend she would not turn her back on you in your time of need.sometimes we want to give people that chance but it is not worth it in the long run. I had a friend that went behind my back and told my fiancee that i was crazy , and that i was stalking him and at that time i did not have a car. but now she wants to be in my wedding.some people are real and others are just out to get what they can get when they can get it. I will pray for to get better.
god bless u
2007-03-01 16:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she NEVER was a friend and only used u. now that u have nothing to offer she is no longer there. Sorry to say this but it sounds as if u were being used!!!
2007-03-01 16:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Papi G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats not a true friend. She was just using you and obviously u didnt reconize it from early. Dont bother with her, cuz she wants you to feel bad so you can be her "friend" again to take her around and get everything she wants from you.
2007-03-01 16:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a false friend.
Maybe your an obsessive friend. hard to tell.
Call her and ask her for a favor.
2007-03-01 16:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋