After some research on the internet using several search sites, I was able to find her new married name and home address and phone number - We dated for over a year in college and were engaged until she ended it. I am currenty married with children, just want to chat
2007-03-01 08:27:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My ex from 20 years ago just looked me up recently, too. We dated for about 3 years. The breakup wasn't awful, I just got tired of being told that I 'wasn't the one', so I told him to go find her. Anyway, we hadn't spoken in years...although he knew that I'd gone thru a major health issue..that's why he looked me up -- to see if I'd lived or died. He's married & has 2 kids. I'm on my 3rd marriage -- very happy -- finally, with a daughter from the 2nd one. We reminisced in emails & chatted briefly on the phone. At first I thought it would be fun to see each other after so long, etc., just for lunch to show pics of the kids, but in the end I decided not to. I just didn't want to revisit that time of my life...no specific reason really, except that my world's moved on. I hope that helps.
2007-03-01 08:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by napqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 20 years? You are currently married with children and just want to chat? Give me a break...We all have those old loves from college days that we think about often but if we are married, those are just thoughts that come and go when you hear a certian song or see an old movie. If you were able to find her new married name and home address with phone number, my guess would be she would've done the same thing too if she wanted to but didn't. She's married, don't intrude on her.
2007-03-01 08:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are married and your wife should know if you decide to talk to her don't keep it from her it could cause problems
2007-03-01 08:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by just wandering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋