2007-03-01 08:44:44 · 18 answers · asked by Phil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My dear friend, you are taking on everyones pressures, you are going to end up having a nervous break down if you don't stop and take care of yourself. All that has happened to your friends in the past little while, honey, is going to get you down.
The first way to help your friend, is to take care of yourself, so your friend don't have to worry about you too. Then you can just wait until your friend is ready to talk about what is on your friends mind. All you can do, sweetheart, is be there for your friend.
Love to you and I will keep you and your friends in my prayers. I really mean it. Please call me if you need a shoulder to lean on, I have broad enough shoulders for both of us.
2007-03-02 12:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for them. Take some of that pressure away (if they allow you to) by volunteering to do little things for them. Like run a few important erans that have to be done.
Maybe they would just like for you to be there when they need to talk and vent. So, if they call you out of the blue, and you're busy watching t.v., pause for a second, and just listen. They probably could really use the support and encouragement.
Make sure you let them know that you care about them and love them. Knowing you have someone around who cares for you is actually a burden lifted off one's shoulders!
So just keep being a good, patient friend, and hopefully all will go well for you guys!♥
2007-03-01 08:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 01:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there. But also remember you can't take the weight of the world on your shoulders. You are a wonderful person & you have gone through a whole lot on your own. Just remember the best of your friends will be there for you through your hardships too. Take Care! & give yourself a hug from me.
2007-03-02 11:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends what she is hurt about..Break up...? Family matters..
Just let her/him cry it out tell them...they are strong and can pull through it..take it slow, but not to slow...neither to fast because then it'll get to fast that...that person might go insane..tell that perosn..to take deep breaths and try and go on..but don't pressure that person neither because she/he are already in enough pressure as it is..encourage her/him it will be alright and that ur always there if something goes wrong..tell him/her that u can count on you to do whatever it takes to help them out...don't be afriad to let them know that..tell them that it will work out..that things aren't always perfect and that is how life is. Help her out..think somethings up in ur head of what u would do if u were lke she/he was....
2007-03-01 08:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Toni S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, she needs to know that people do care for her. She has been through a lot in the past few weeks and needs all the support she can get. Your voice helps her, trust me, I know.
2007-03-01 10:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nate M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your friend to a place like and arcade or maybe laser tagging, something that he will enjoy and doesn't require you to talk too much. Then later let him know if he needs to went you're there to listen, but don't let him think that you're going to actually do something, just help him a long in his time of need is all you need to do.
2007-03-01 08:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can invite her/him to ur house and try to get Him/her out of thinking about like watch a movie with them or something like that. Another thing you can do is try to talk to the friend and LISTEN and try to understand. tell them that everyone will be ok.
2007-03-01 08:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always keep a positive attitude around your Friend, try not to be all down and stuff around them.And if they are felling down and want to talk about it all the time,let them vent to an existent,but try to get them talking about better times and things.
2007-03-01 08:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by lil momma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to listen to Nevada. Take care of yourself Philly. But show "your" best friend that you still care.
Ich Liebe Dich
2007-03-02 13:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Perfectly Insane 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋