I met this guy some 3 months back. We got along pretty well, met regulrly, talked on the phone regularly( most of the times he would call me up). We had regular SMS sessions. Everythig was so good. But now he doesn't seem to be interested to even talk to me. All of a sudden he has stopped calling me up. he doesn't reply to my messeges either. No more emails. Even when we occasionally run into each other he just says cold 'hi' and pushes off. I don't know why he is doing it but it really hurts. I don't wanna ask him straight away. Is there any other way of finding out what's going on in his head. Also i miss him a lot and i want im back.
2007-03-01 03:05:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are just going to have to ask him.Tell him this is hurting you,doing this you should know where things are going to be.Don't live with hurt like this-it is not good for you!
2007-03-01 03:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened with my best friend one day she was totally ignoring me. I didn't know what i did wrong. it took me a while but i asked her what i did wrong and she ignored me.I sent her an e-mail saying that i honestly didn't know what i did wrong and if she didn't tell me or kept treating me like this our friendship would have to be over. A few moths later i made knew friends and one she saw that she was being replaced she started shaping up. You sound like a nice guy/girl and some people try (for no good reason) to make guys/girls like you sad and frustrated they think they can control you. first find out if you did anything wrong, be nice but don't let him control you feelings. The sooner you tell him how you feel the better.
HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT!!!
2007-03-01 11:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Campbells Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's tough but u gata understand that maby he wasn't the guy u know. Don't u think if he moved on so should u?? well, if u cant do that here's an other idea, if he still doesn't answer back, try to find out were he is. wen u do find him, try to talk Wat's going on, if he still doesn't want to do that then he"s lost!!!
and u should probably 4get about him.
2007-03-01 11:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by naaaty! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i do understand what u are going thru. and it feels strange and really worries you wondring what cause this change. been there too. met someone online and we chatted for like 6 months., emailed and he would make overseas call too. and then when he was send to another country from where he was working, we had difficulty communicating till he stopped sending emails and didnt meet me online...at first it was difficult, cause i emailed and left offline messages, so many of them, but till now, no replies. learn to move on. we cant forced them to answer us. give them the benefit of the doubt. we really dont know what they are going thru. allow time to heal wounds. when its the right time, things will fall into place. its difficult but u have to do it.
2007-03-01 11:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by mela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that book, "He's just not that into you?"
Well, seems to be the case.
If he is acting like a ding dong, then cut him loose. Don't ask for an explanation. He's not good enough anyway!
2007-03-01 11:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something happened. Ask him.
2007-03-01 11:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's MARRIED and he got caught. Move on.
2007-03-01 11:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him why he won't talk to you. or if that doesn't work end it.
2007-03-01 12:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋