I just dont get it. She broke up with me because she felt that she wasn't ready for another relationship and that she has to focus with college and that I would be better off as a friend. I respected her decision
We have a class together but for the first 2 weeks she literally ignored me and tried to avoid me as much as possible.. I tried to ask whats wrong and got nothing but a cold attitude. Afterwards, I didnt push the issue any further and left her alone. Then out of nowhere she starts being friendly again and starts to talk to me again.
However, I feel like she doesn't respect me. Everytime we were in class she would always talk to our friend and leave me out of the conversation.. Even when we would do work together, she would only come to me when she has to
Recently she started being cold again and I got tired of it.. so i ignored her for that day. she asked me what was wrong and I confronted her about it and that I didnt care anymore. she got defensive and now we dont talk.
2007-03-01 02:31:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Live your life. I know that it is hard when you have classes together and you are broken up, but focus on your classes and doing what you need to do. I know from experience that if you let things like that bring you down, school will be affected. Just let her do her own thing. If she's going to be like that towards you, just ignore it. Don't purposely leave her out of a conversation, or talk about her to your mutual friend. I don't like when people pretend that things didn't happen, but I think that to get your stuff done, that's exactly what you need to do. Be mature.
2007-03-01 02:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to find a new friend...she just likes your attention...or anyones at that. Once you stop paying attention to her she comes running back...I am 100% sure that if you get a new girlfriend and stop talking to your "friend" she will come running back in a second and try to be with you. Then when you are together she will break it of again and be cold. Find someone that will respect you and make you happy...not someone that walks all over you!
2007-03-01 02:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by ~Jama~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is the jealous type... She tells you she doesn't want anything, but she still wants you to want her... Ignoring her was a good move but don't confront her, if you say you don't care, don't care. When she asks you whats wrong, say nothing... and repeat repeat repeat... Also look around there are a lot of girls out there.... you have 1 job in life, and that is to be happy, don't mess with little girls that act immature...
2007-03-01 02:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Coach White 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We women are complicated...reasons why I would act the same way would be I need you but didnt know how to go about handling the fact that I do. Um lets see I wasn't ready for a relationship but wanted to keep you in my life but not to be with you. Wow I could go on. If you want to really know you would have to ask her again...but try not to tell her you dont care about it anymore.
2007-03-01 02:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 03:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't respect you. Only speaking to you when she feels like it? I'd tell her if I were you, don't ask. Say 'when we broke up you said lets be friends, and you havn't been a friend to me. If you want my friendship be consistant. If not tell me straight and save me some time.' If she doesn't give you an answer then don't bother with her. You don't deserve to be treated like that no matter how high and mighty someone feels they are.xx
2007-03-01 04:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl doesn't know WHAT she want's. so trying to figure out whats going on with her is going to be impossible. she run's hot and cold....those are sign's she is keeping you on a back burner while she looks for a bigger better deal.. don't be her backup plan, go out and show her what she's missing, have a good time and make her wonder....she will either realize that you ARE the bigger better deal or you will find someone new to be happy with....either way it's a win-win situation for you.
2007-03-01 02:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Erinyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are tired of her using you as a convenience friend..people know when they are doing wrong...she knows. shes getting upset that you are confronting her with it and she wants to run the show..its crap and don't let her get away with it..let her ignore you and be cold and you should let on that you aren't bothered by it even if you are and eventually it will bug her so bad she will say something wether it be negative or positive...she needs to know you aren't going to put up with that crap and don't. Best wishes =)
2007-03-01 02:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jinkies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on completely. Us females have mood swings every month. She might just want attention from you because someone else is getting it, or just wants to play games. Leave her alone and don't look back, be respectful though.
2007-03-01 02:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ronnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drop it. You two broke up for a reason. Wasn't your relationship hard enough to have this drama in the break-up stage?
2007-03-01 02:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Winette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋