OK me and my bestfriend argue too much but when we get back cool again everything is all good. I mean I can tell her anything and I love kicking it with her but we just argue or disagree to much. Recently we jus go into a argue that lead to me and her not talking for couple months **** we still not talkin. I mean I miss her alot and sometimes I wish she acted like when we where in middle school. Now she has a new best friend who is trash and and that drinks alot and I guess now she drinking and acting dumb because everyone is tell me I should save her and talk to her but I refuse. I mean I really do miss her but than again I hate her cuz she stay mean muggin me and ****. Wat is wrong with me
2007-03-01 02:48:44 · 3 answers · asked by Snoopy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What may be going on with you is your mind reassuring your gut that cutting this girl was the right thing to do and however she may land is not your worry. Arguing and spats that involve more than 50% of the time the two of you spend together means that your mental and physical well being is in jeopardy. Stress reduces the strength of your immune system. Sure you miss her now but instead of dwelling on it, go out and find you some new girls to hang with.
2007-03-01 03:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her up and tell her that you want to talk. (once you are together you might want to ask another friend to be there so the situation doesn't get worse.) Then tell your friend that you are tired of fighting. tell her that its okay if you have your different opions and that you want to be best friends ALL the time not just some of the time.
Good luck!
2007-03-01 11:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by Campbells Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the best of situations, but you should let her run her course.
Remember that "good " friends are not always those who are glued to your hip but the ones who are there when no one else is. Wait it out and be there when she falls.
2007-03-01 11:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by hdc12066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋