if you went away on Holiday and were unable to continue e-mail contact and when you were were finally able to get in contact someone you really cared for has deleted you completely from their online contacts because he felt ignored and hurt by you?
if this contact is across the ocean and you can't contact by your mob because your mob does not have the option for Inter-National calls and you told that friend you would be gone and you would try to contact them as soon as you could?
I have e-mailed him and get no response and I really feel so bad that he won't contact me...I think he is trying to make me feel as bad as he felt, but I am and I did tell him I would be away....I miss my friend so much....
What would you do?
Maybe he really did not love me the way he thought....or thinks I don't...My feelings for him have not changed at all....I just wish I were home now so I could call him, but am still away on holiday...........
2007-03-28 08:19:43 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I thought you forgot me! Am happy you are doing well... I thought u had a mobile and you could e-mail me atleast....One line would be enough
2007-03-28 08:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by MK <>< 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if your friendship is that important to you then write a letter or send a postcard to let him know you are thinking of him and telling him about your time away, you could phone from a call box or a landline, there are ways to contact people if you really want to, the sooner you do this the better besause the longer you leave it the harder it gets, true friendships survive anything....including distance but we all get waylaid when our lives take different turns, just apologise for lack of contact thus far and put it right now.
2007-03-28 08:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I would think to myself, they cannot be that good friends if just because you are on holiday he has deleted you from his email contacts and ignored you. Get some more realistic friends - we all go on holiday sometimes! My guess is that this boy is young and immature.
2007-03-28 08:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When magic is broken is broken, even me without knowing you i believe you was with another that time and now you come with this tragedy, think first because after you become crazy there is not mend up...there is not place on earth without internet or mobile phone...PLEASE... at least be fair with yourself...well done by the guy...that is the way...
2007-03-28 09:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This friend appears to be selfish and childish. I would try one last time to contact him by sending him a letter or a card apologizing. If he still does not reply then it is probably time to move on.
2007-03-28 08:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there's something wrong in his pc or connection...
true friends can't block each other with that ease ....just send him one last mail and don't send againe and be patient .....
so if he was having a some prob of connection he would answer u and telling u "it's ok , i know that u r in vactaion,&i'll never block u ".....
but if he didn't answer u ...and if he didn't dead too .....so i'm sorry to let u now that not all ppl we love them, love us too ...
just know that he don't deserve u even as a friend ....and stop thinking of him ...stop trying reaching him.....and go on in ur life...maybe u will find that so hard at begining....but it will become easy after a while ............. good luck
2007-03-28 08:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by batt00ta 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had the same prob for bout a month then found out he did not have internet contact himself for about 2 months oops, are you sure he is getting them?
2007-03-28 08:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how often did you keep contact with him? if the contact was cut off suddenly, he should be worried trying to get in contact with you not cutting you off. If you stopped contact with him for months and months...you should feel bad and expect him to move on. your loss...hope your holiday was worth losing someone special. peace
2007-03-28 08:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell em b4 u go away cwd b an idea??? Seem childish anyways jus find a new m8 lvz ya XxX
2007-03-29 05:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told him that you would contact him as soon as you could and you did. as long as you explain that to him it should all work out in the end. if not....hes not worth the stress!!
2007-03-28 08:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by fifs_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any mutual friends that you could get hold of? If so maybe ask them to explain situation to him
2007-03-28 08:23:53 · answer #11 · answered by fluffypurplelilac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋